Is it really anyone one persons fault in a relationship when one falls out of love? Or is it just a blame game from hurt emotions? Is it normal to feel guilty for falling out of love?
by 
Blackberry.
ANSWERS: 4
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Norwegian proverb: "There was never a piece of paper so thin it didn't have two sides." That said, there are flaming assholes out there. Your side of the paper might just be not realizing that's what you were dealing with till it was too late.
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I would think that anyone would feel bad about hurting another person, especially if you once cared for them. I don't think it's any one's fault, per say...although, I might question if you're really "out of love" if you still care about the other person on an emotional level. Maybe a break is needed, not a complete break up? Just a thought.
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If the loss of love was influenced and caused by events...than I would say it depends. It is most likely someone's fault. But if the person just fell out of love without and outside influence....it is no ones fault...sometimes there is nothing either person could have done different. Love/or lack of love is uncontrollable sometimes.
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It's normal to feel guilty if you're the one who falls out of love, not many people enjoy inflicting pain on others. It's easy to balme the other person for our failure to remain 'in love' - that way we lessen our own guilt. As to if its anyone's 'fault' - I think the fault lies with the one who had a romantic view of love and mistook true love for 'in love' - a very different condition. 'In love' is a chemical high induced by sex and attraction - basically a biological response. Loving someone takes time and commitment and perseverance and acceptance - and time. It's not easy for everyone to be so committed. Forgive yourself, forgive the one who failed to keep your love. Be kind.
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