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  • Well, I don't know if he's cheating......but its my opinion that if you are dating you need to define your relationship. Paid for or not, why do you need to visit the website? The fact that you are watching him and he is still looking says a lot. I think you two need to talk and come to some conclusions.
  • Probably not. Maybe he's checking in on some friends there. I made some really good friends at a dating site and even though I'm currently in a relationship I still have my profile active to keep in contact with them. I check mine at least once a week or so.
  • well im sure he met some cool guys on there 2.ithink hei s just tryn to be cool with everyone.i think he just needs to keep it to yahoo and leave that crap alone.
  • Im a guy, use To play the feild for awhile till I meet my lovely wife...however if I was in the same situtation as you an it was my wife.I wouldn't say she was cheating... I would however think she was keeping her options open. Which would show to me the level of seriousness in the relationship.
  • I wouldn't call it cheating, but it's clear he hasn't quite committed to you yet. Maybe he's just looking to see what else is out there. If he's meant for you, he'll eventually commit.
  • Why do people have internet dating profiles? Because they want to get a date.
  • The fact that you have to ask that question is a problem. Ditch him...if he's not done looking or "checking in" you are not the ONE!
  • I think there is a good chance he is still looking to see what else is out there.......and if he has gotten the best there is available. I've done all my dating for 9 years on line, found it is the best way for me to meet men, easy to get to know on line and screen, though wading thru the married ones can get you down. However I have had several long term relationships from internet dating, and am currently in one, we live together and maybe this is the "one"........but I most certainly would be cautious with this guy and find out just when his "paid" subscription is up and then see what happens..... Hate to say it, but you might want to create a really nice profile and write to him and see if he responds back.........he should write back and tell you that he has started seeing someone and is hoping it will work out, but if not can he keep your e-mail...... Good Luck......
  • He wants to see what else is out there (just in case). And, that's probably not a good sign.
  • Sounds 2 me like you are a girl he just settled with for now cuz he cant find anything better. I suggest you keep your profile as well :|
  • I think a better way to keep in touch with someone you met on a dating site is thru your regular e-mail or MySpace........people who are still up on dating sites and looking to see who is out there and available to date, more than chatting with friends, there are many ways to do that. "Probably not. Maybe he's checking in on some friends there. I made some really good friends at a dating site and even though I'm currently in a relationship I still have my profile active to keep in contact with them. I check mine at least once a week or so. "
  • He's not cheating, but he's gazing at the grass on the other side of the fence.. obviously. Who cares if he paid for it or not - he found you, so he doesn't need to be checking in on the dating site. I would have a sit down talk with him and ask him why he feels the need to check the dating site after he found you - and don't accept "just because he paid for it" for an answer or "just to check in." Get to the bottom of WHY he feels the need to check in.
  • Do another wonderful profile, and maybe he will want to set up another date with you, not knowing who it will be. Meet at a location where you can see him first as he walks in the door.

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