original poster here i just wanna know what the hell is she up to ???

I would say she wants u back or she don't know that she wants!! Sounds like trouble and drama though!!

hey original poster here. ok after visiting my mother on friday i didnt hear from her nor did my mom. this morning she called and texted me to see if i would have lunch with her. so i agreed. we went shopping and she wanted me to pick out a shirt i thought looked good on her. then we had lunch at a nice rest. I bought. small talk. then she asked if i was uncomfy with her coming. I said i was confused and still hurt she said that she wants to be my freind casue she still cares about me as a person and im a great guy. i said you hurt me so bad im not ready to be freinds and she started crying. then we left the ride back to my office she said that she was sorry she came she didnt wanna hurt me. I said yeah and please stay away from my kid and my mom it hurts me too much. she was bawling and her mascara was running. i asked her why did you really come and she wouldnt answer i said I wanna know one answer for the rest of my life. do you still love me? still bawling she said she couldnt answer that. i asked again and she sai i cant answer that right now. and she was still drying and saidi just wanna go home. what the hell what do I do ?help I still love her and I really want her back but is that what she wants?

I think she wants you back but maybe doesn't know it...kind of reminds me of what I went through once with a guy I was breaking up with. She may have lust for someone else but in her heart really loves you and can't figure out her own feelings. Do you know why he broke it off with you? How long were you together? How old is she? If she doesn't want you back then maybe she is just feeling lost without you there beside her, especially if u were together a long time...she could also be feeling guilty and trying to check that you are OK so she can live with herself..can u give us any more details?