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Yes I do, my uncle. I don't know where he is right now, or what he is doing, but I sincerely hope that it is painful. I wouldn't piss on the man if he were on fire.
Does wanting to nail a man's penis to a stump filled with fire ants, set the stump on fire, hand him a dull knife, and watch the delimma count as hate?
I hated a man that hurt me when I was a kid for a long time until I finally realized that hating him was only hurting me. I think in order to hate you have to hold on to the hurt that caused it. I had to let it go so that I could continue the rest of my life with a healthy frame of mind. After all, I know that in the end he will get his.
No. I can't really afford the time, energy drain, or toxic effects of hate in my life. I have been pretty angry with some folks, but even that gets boring and taxing. If I hate someone, i am giving them way too much power over me. I am too lazy and independent for that.
The only people I hate are Islamic extremists.
When I watch a video clip of Islamic extremists using a knife to hack the head off some poor defenseless captive, I get a feeling that wells up in my gut that feels a lot like hate. Seeing people who prey on the weak and innocent with callous disregard, makes me feel hatred and anger.
Honestly? No, I don't.
Honestly i do.and i know i shouldn't.but i won't put any names,cause even though i feel they deserve it,im the one who needs to let the hate go.
Honestly, no.
Honestly, no.
But I strongly dislike most people as a matter of course.
No I don't hate people Sometimes I hate the things they do but I know it's not there fault.
I hate pedophiles and child pornographers. They steal the irreplaceable innocence of children, and they do it for their own selfish, fleeting pleasure.
hmmm... I hate my Father, I hate all the kids at my old school who treated me like dog poo under their feet, I hate Myself for what I have become, I hate anyone who think it's funny to kill animals or torture them, I hate my old "Friend" David, I hate my Grandmother, and a lot more people I don't feel like mentioning right now.
No.
Hate is poison to the soul of the hater. I stopped drinking poison.
child molestors......they have no right to live
No, I don't hate anyone. A few years back I might have had a different answer, but at this point in my life, there is nobody that I hate. There may be quite a few people that I dislike, and prefer not to have contact with (if it can be avoided), but no hate or hostility there.
i hate my father he killed himself when i was 2 beacuse he didnt want to take care of me. for years i thought something was really wrong with me beacuse a grown man would rather be dead than care for me. i went to therapy for this and i just stop going when i was 15. i truely hate my dad and i hope the hes in hell getting violently penetrated in the ass by the devils advocate.
I used to. I decided it was pointless, as it used up MY energy and they did not change any, nor did it change what had transpired. So I released it, and will let Karma or other people do what they want with those people. I wasted enough of my life hours "hating" them. Also, I believe forgiving someone is much more beneficial for me than hating someone.
it also was a freeing sensation letting go of the hate, since it is such an energy robber and takes alot of mental energy just to continue doing it over time.
no, i can't say i do.
hating someone, in my opinion. Is being willing to kill them, their family, and taking everything that they own without any type of remorse.
...i don't feel that strongly for anyone. (i refuse to give them that satisfaction)
I hate some of the things people have done to me and I want to hate them, but I honestly don't I know carma will get around ot them one day then I'll laugh my @ss off.
No. :)
I dont hate anyone, and I try not to hate new people I meet as well
I did. My uncle and my dad. Now, I think I am beyond hate. I nothing them now, they are nothing to me. Then again, if I had the chance to kill them, I'd take it, and make it slow too. I won't go any further, its disturbing
I thought I'd further the discussion of this excellent question by providing a dictionary's definition of "hate:"
Definition:
1. (transitive verb) dislike somebody or something intensely: to dislike somebody or something intensely, often in a way that evokes feelings of anger, hostility, or animosity
2. (transitive and intransitive verb) have strong distaste for something: to have strong distaste or aversion for something, somebody, or something that has to be done
I hate this show; it's so boring.
I hate to say it, but I know we're going to lose.
Some people seem to have been born to hate.
noun (plural hates)
Definition:
1. feeling of intense hostility: a feeling of intense hostility toward somebody or something
You could see the hate in his eyes.
i hate allot of people for some time,then i get over it.
no but i do dislike people
Hate is such a strong word. But I'd have to say that yes, I hate my father. He's effectively ruined many facets of my and my sister's lives. If I ever get the power to leave this place, I may disown.
And no, I'm not an angry, spoiled teenager. I'm a disabled 30-yr-old who has finally gained some sort of wisdom. At least I am now able to look at many of my problems, with a cool head.
I hate all the terrorists. I don't know what they want.
George Bush.
This question made me giggle, by the way.
No, I do not. If I strongly dislike someone then I try not to think about or be around that person. If it's someone that I must be around then I make the best of it, which is not easy but I'm not about to waste my time thinking about someone not even worth it. For example, with a co-worker or superior I will just be as nice as I possibly can, and often the person stops being such a jerk, so problem solved anyway.
However, the closest thing I feel resembling hate is the extreme disgust I feel for evil people. Anyone who harms or kills a child or any human being, without conscience, falls into that category. But instead, I find it more constructive to think about and empathize with the victims.
NO.I think when we hate someone, its means we dont fully understand them.Our own personal flaw you could say, the start of wars also..
Yes, a old friend named deanna. she backstabbed me last year and she watns forgiviness. Shell hurt me again if i forgive her, sorry mess to her.
Nope. Indifferent to some, but I either like you or I don't.
Pedophiles ... you know why
Thankyou

Victoria Beckham, i don't know her but i hate her smug attitude and what a horrible role model she is.
I used to hate my dad and the 3 bastards who stole the love of my life from me but after some long soul searching I have come to relize that while I may hate the things they did to me I don't hate them as a person.
yes:)
I do!
I hate the haters. I hate them.
I don't think I hate anyone. If I didn't like someone that much, hating them would be giving too much credit.
My brother. I hate him more than anything in the world.
there's ppl i really hate in this world, they're some of my classmates, they laugh about me just for fun, they laugh at me 'cuz i come on AB, they're really rude and hard to understand ppl.... i hope they read this and feel what i feel... sadness...
No, it just causes more trouble.
yeah, my uncles who can go to hell for all i care, seriously one of them went missing a few months ago, and do you know what?... i didnt give a damn. funny thing is i loved them when i was young, they were the coolest uncles back then
I don't "hate" anyone, but Osama bin Laden is making a strong case for the emotion. I "hate" what he is responsible for...911, increased racial tensions, less freedoms, etc. I "hate" that my country, government (whatever) has inspired such hatred that it would bring such horrors upon us.
No.. I don't HATE anyone.. i may dislike them a whole lot, but HATE is a very destructive word.
hate is directed at someone else, but like all black-and-white concepts it is directed at the self. many religions teach us that the only answer is to forgive.. one of the positive things about religion btw..
I hate the person who tried to ruin my life out of jealousy. And the word 'hate' for them is an understatement.
No. I can honestly say that I don't hate anyone or anything.
Hate is a destructive thing that feeds on everything, from your feelings to your thoughts to your life and relationships. I can't say that this is *why* I don't hate because I don't think I really have to actively suppress the emotion at all. Of course, I get angry sometimes and thoughts inconsistent with how I live my life may even arise. But these are usually (and thankfully!) short-lived and replaced with a desire for understanding.
Everything has a reason. Hate prevents us from ever achieving the knowledge of this. I happen to be a person who would rather understand the reasons for things, even those things I may find detestable or undesirable. I think this is why I don't hate.
I do not hate anyone. I treat everyone with respect to the best of my ability. Sometimes, it's hard to really love people that take advantage of me, and are sly. But, I always seem to do something special for them to overcome my dislike for them. Because it eats me up inside when I treat them the way their treating me. I have always been taught to "Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you". Like I said, it is very hard at times, but believe me, it is very possible. I know that when I do good something good is coming my way. God has given me strength to overcome evil, because of His hope for me.
I admit, sometimes I may come out with the classic line "I HATE YOU!" (very dramatic, I know) - but truely I have never felt hatred, only strong dislike. Many people misuse the word 'hate', I think it's such a cruel word if misued.
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Holy crap i had to look at your avatar just to make sure i did not write that. I have an uncle and what you wrote is totaly how i feel wow that is odd. Thank you i could not have said it better myself
by thinkin on December 5th, 2006
Here here. Exactly
by anonymous on December 8th, 2006
Hold on, I'm copying this down...ok, penis, stump, ants, fire..ok I got it. Note to self: do not piss off AR.
by Mrs.mezzo is a Wagnerian soprano on December 8th, 2006
would like to do that to my grandfather and let my sisters watch.
by Midnighttoker on December 8th, 2006
midnighttoker (or can I call you Steve Miller?), sounds like it is for the same reason I have.
by AntigoneRising on December 8th, 2006
you can call me mark. it sucks i found out years after he died. i helped carry his coffin. but every chance i get, i p*** on his grave.
by Midnighttoker on December 26th, 2006
I never told anyone but my aunt. She denies it to this day, even though she witnessed some of it. I finally broke my silence because my little sis (18 years younger) started spending time at their house.
by AntigoneRising on December 26th, 2006
it's good you could help your sister.it is a chain that must be broken. for what it's worth ,i am proud of you. i wish more would speak up.but i know this is difficult from talking with my sisters. i wish the best for you.
by Midnighttoker on December 26th, 2006
AntigoneRising, I have spoken with you before, and commend you for your strength and resolution. The depth of your descriptive hate concerns me. Please do not think for one moment I am minimizing...I just find from experience (yes, and therapy) that hate can consume and overwhelm, and that it ALWAYS poisons us slowly from the inside out. Often we are unaware of its incideous workings, until something comes out to trigger. Don't wait for such a mechanism. Find a good, licensed psychologist or LMHC; you will see tender solutions for tough problems. God bless.
by blessings on December 27th, 2006
I do see a licensed clinical psychologist. He has a PhD. He wants to hit my uncle over the head with a shovel. Hate and anger are just as legitimate as love. I understand what you are saying, but I'm honest. I do not lie to myself, nor do I lie to others.
by AntigoneRising on December 27th, 2006
He and you DO have legal shovels that are much more effective, and if licensed he should know that. Yes, hate and anger ARE legitimate (and yes, even a healthy response), but to a degree as any other (i.e. 'love'). It is when we over emphasize that it becomes unhealthy, unbalanced. And that is my only concern for you (as evidenced by the explicitness of your vengence vendetta). You go, girl!
by blessings on December 27th, 2006
By hating him you are giving him power. you still let him affect you- he doesn't deserve it. he deserves to be forsaken and forgotten. you deserve inner peace- he is obviously a f...ing bastard- but by letting him go- you will do yourself a great favor!
by adloyada on January 13th, 2007
I really have my own therapist, but thanks for the advice.
by AntigoneRising on January 14th, 2007