ANSWERS: 4
  • My opinion is that if you are serious about your relationship with him, you will have to learn to spend time with his ex. Although they are not together anymore, she will always be part of his life since they have kids together. Hope that helps.
  • I hate to break this to you but she's the mother of his children so they're going to be tied together basically for the rest of their lives. Might be a good idea to form a cordial relationship with the woman. Sometimes life goes beyond being just about you.
  • I hate to tell you this but, you are gonna have to meet her, she is the mother to your partners children and I personally am the mother to a child where the step mom don't ever come around and it pisses me off, that I don't really know who she is or have I ever seen her interract with my child and the worse thing for you to do is not come around her. She needs to know who the woman is that is gonna be around her children. Also, you are gonna have to deal with her the rest of your life if you love this man and want to be with him.
  • I think it will mean a lot to your partner if you attend. If you care enough about your partner to withstand a little discomfort around the ex, that's a big deal. In any case, since the kids are part of your partner's life forever, you'd have to meet her sometime if you intend to stay with your partner. Suck it up and do the right thing.

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