I can't forget about this girl, even though I haven't seen her in almost a year and rarely talk to her. She's even in my dreams. I have been enamoured with her for a long time, and she has never reciprocated. What do I do?
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Suomynona
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I certainly know what that is like. Get back in contact with her, be it myspace, facebook, with calling and texting being assumed. If you can get in contact with her, and you need to be persistent and yet not appear desperate. "Tell her how you feel" and act accordingly with how she feels about you, regardless of what you think she will say or what you think she felt before or what you think she even feels now, and just hear her out. If there is nothing there, move on, knowing that you did all you could have, not having any regrets. Yes, if you have to move on, it won't be that easy to forget her, but life and relationships are gradual things. Live your life with new thoughts and she will fade from your thoughts and dreams with the hopes of a new and better girl that will make what you felt for her so elementary.
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Figure out exactly what it is that is making you feel this way about this girl, you may be able to find those same traits in someone else who's dying for the opportunity to love you.
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Even though you may be enamoured with her, do you still have the capacity to romantically like others? If yes, your fascination with this girl is not as strong as you think, and only time is your ally in ending it - and it will end. If no, then you need to figure out what it is about someone you don't even have regular contact that makes it impossible for you to get out of your mind.
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