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  • You make new memories everyday.
  • That is what tests the strength of one's relationship with his/her significant other. It's not the novel things that count, it's the everyday, ho-hum routine things that matter in a loving relationship. And it is these things that make or break a relationship. If a couple is really in love, or care about one another, they will find even "mundane, everyday conversations" interesting and engaging in themselves. And once in awhile if the two of them find a "new" thing to talk about, that will spice things up even more. So don't always look for novelty in a long-term relationship. If you do you will only become frustrated and worried. Both of you need to cultivate and find intrigue in the day-to-day things.
  • Yes. A time comes when the conversations dry up and everyone gets busy in their own world.Sometimes a short holiday helps or a get-together or some form of common goals like spiritual or travel or some such.Newness in the relationship dries up very soon.Then love converts into some other bond like companionship.But when you persevere it will work well.Hope it works for you!
  • It's called "mutual interests," and is one of the more important aspects of relationships. My wife and I are both on a Virtual Reality ( VR ) website and have lots of friends on there. When we go for a ride, or shopping, or whatever, one of the topics of conversation is the antics of all the people on that VR site. Vicky and I have the same whacky sense of humor, so we spend lots of time laughing at stuff we do, and stuff others do. See how that works? : )

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