ANSWERS: 9
  • Get counseling.
  • Somebody's been watching re-runs of Friends again, eh?
  • According to the terms of your pact, you are not allowed to feel second-rate and unwanted until you are 30 and single - you have 3 years to go before you qualify.
  • clearly they have not taken that pact too seriously and are enjoying their lives while you, on the other hand, have not yet found that special person. It's not necessarily your fault. Why are you writing yourself off at 30. One of my sisters is 35 and only just getting engaged. She has been out with some idiots but finally found a nice man who is looking after her and taken on her ex boyfriend's children as if they were his own.
  • they have obviously got on with their lives but you just haven't yet found that right special someone. Heck, just because you are nearly 30 doesn't mean you should write yourself off yet. My sister is 35 and has only just got engaged. This really nice fella loves her and has taken on her ex boyfriends children as if they were his own. It's great to see her so happy.
  • Grow up.
  • Know that you are not alone and that their are more people then you may think that are in the same boat as you. I was married and divorced (9 months), young. I didn't get married again until the age of 34 ten years later.
  • by accepting that it was a foolish pledge, not to be taken seriously
  • Relax, that doesn't make you second-rate to anything. You just haven't found "your" somebody special yet.

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