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by Jay on November 30th, 2008
This happened a couple of weeks ago.
So, i've known this lad for about 3 years.
We're sooo close. I was toally in love with him, and he told me he felt the same. In fact, he said it after We'd known each other for like 1 year. We'd talked about being together and so on like 1 million times. then about two weeks ago he came out with "I've got a girlfriend, Jade, She's gorgeous, You're going to love her",, I tried hiding the pain, but i couldn't and it all just came out whilst we were on the phone. He told me there's no way he's getting ridding of her, he'd choose her over me anyday. If there's any way i could describe it. i'd call it humiliation mixed with rejection. He's lead me to believe he loved me, And then this new girl comes along and he's pushing me away, Worst pain ever.
by kittygirl77 on July 24th, 2009
My boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me a little over a month ago and I still feel like crap.
by Dibley on November 30th, 2008
I met the man of my dreams in August last year. (I was in a dead relationship at the time.) I was working with this man, he started speaking to me at the end of the day, we were flirting. We then started having casual sex once a week, that progressed to a few times a week and so on. We had a great relationship, we made each other laugh and we were very happy. The sex was absolutely amazing. He always said he never wanted anything serious, but I didn't give up, I was seriously falling in love with him. I started staying the weekends, and in August this year I moved in. We still get on as good as ever, we have never fallen out, we still make each other laugh and we are still very happy, but he doesn't seem as interested in sex. Our sex life before was hectic and strong. Now it's like once a week and we have to wait for "bedtime". I come on to him all the time, he gets hard but doesn't follow it up. I sit watching tv in next to nothing, always do my hair and make up and try to look the best I can for him. He's not with anyone else because he's always with me. He is 13 years older than me and he does say that my sex drive is alot higher than his, but before I moved in we were at it non stop. This makes me feel totally rejected and hurt.
by R U Sirius on November 21st, 2008
Drawing that picture in the magazine to see if I'd be a candidate for art school.........They replied by telling me to resubmit after I finish preschool.
by Firebrand on November 26th, 2008
Losing my family, (rejection by default)
by barney loves his colts on November 21st, 2008
my wife cheated ---twice and now we are getting divorced.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
long lost first love and i moved away from our hometown at 17/18. he kissed me goodbye and said he would call. he disappeared from my life. i was lost, alone, sad, devestated, crushed, angry, hurt. you name it. soon i disappeared too, going to college, moving away.. FAR FAR away, traveled the world, fell in love, almost married, etc. etc
here we are 10 yrs later. same best friend of the first love found me online 2 yrs ago all excited and chatty and sweet giving me compliments about my looks, etc. pretty soon after said first love lived in a different state and had a daughter. then said he had to ask me a question. he said someone wanted my # but that it was up to me. i gave the # no questions asked. GOD I would have LOVED to have heard from him no matter what. i had wanted to know all these years. i missed him ALL THESE years. i realized I STILL LOVED HIM ALL THESE YEARS.
didn't call.
so i ending up falling madly in love with someone else in my city during this time of weakness and confusion.
then i lost him.
he is with someone else and i am a hot mess.
welcome to my rejection hell
by Anonymous on November 26th, 2008
when i fell in love with a girl
then i told her how i felt about her
then she turned me down
it was the worst night in my entire life
by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 5th, 2009
My mother left my father and me right after I was born and that had a huge impact on me until I worked my way through it. Then my ex divorced me to marry a man from her church right after I was diagnosed with incurable cancer. It's amazing that I can even look at a woman without growling! : )
by shammers still slogging along on November 5th, 2009
My son left without me.
by Meganne on September 25th, 2009
one night i made dinner for my bf and i bc he told me he was getting off work early. so i lit candles and put on a sexy outfit. i waited until 4am and finally went to bed. he stumbled in around 5:30am. the next day i was very cold and he didnt even notice i was upset. that night i overheard him talking to a friend and found out he had been at a stripclub all night. i felt pretty crappy and needless to say he's now an ex!
by Shanel with an S on July 23rd, 2009
years ago i almost found love but he was lying the whole time. good thing it didn't get that serious. i've still never been in love yet.
by Anthony on February 16th, 2009
Telling a girl who I was interested in how I felt about her, only for her to shoot me down with the "friend speech" and then ask me about one of my friends and if he was single. He was single, and she did pursue him for awhile, but it ended up that he wasn't interested in her. I felt much better after I heard he rejected her. He said he was never really interested in her, but that he also did it because of how she did me.
by fantasy child on November 26th, 2008
I started helping a guy out who was going through a divorce, one thing lead to another, and he is a very sweet guy, but now he acts like its difficult to every asks how my freaking day is. So I have ended whatever it was we had, mean while I feel like he rejected me or rather my friendship
by WaitingWaitingWaiting on November 12th, 2009
askerd a girl to homecoming, said she wasnt going, then asked some dude within a hour of me askin her...
by Ray Del Sol on November 12th, 2009
My ex rejecting me for 7 months before I let go.
by Stranger in a Strange Land on November 12th, 2009
I'm no fool. It only took one rejection to put me off all social interaction. People like me with Aspergers Syndrome are socially clumsy and should stay away from that game, unless you happen to have masochistic tendencies. +2
by braxelhaze on November 5th, 2009
After 2 years of loving my gf, she told me she still loved her ex more, but wanted to be with me. She knew that she didn't have a chance with her ex. So she couldn't even reject me honestly. very confusing.
I still wonder...
by SIR_Anony is now SIR_Anthony on November 3rd, 2009
My wife not wanting to accept my sons from a previous marriage as part of our family.
by Froggy on November 3rd, 2009
When you save your money and retire when you are 44, you will find out what rejection is by all your peers. When my friends and all my neighbors found out that i was retired, they all turned into assholes. It got so bad, that i had to move from the house that i owned for 28 years. Now i have no friends, and even my own relatives are jealous of me.
by calbins on October 25th, 2009
I was sexual abused for 8 years, by my father--Then I met a man who i still love who divorced me 26 years ago and left me to raise our boys
by Naia the Bee on July 24th, 2009
A girl I was interested in dating shot me down because she said I was too young to know anything about being in a serious relationship. I was 21 at the time. It hurt like hell to be called immature and it made me feel a bit stupid.
by Rinky Dinky Do on November 30th, 2008
Behemently opposing the bailout of Wall Street to have my elected officials vote for it anyway and give away my money to a whole bunch of greedy con artists
by Ms.A on November 12th, 2009
Why yes,there has!Thanks for asking;)
Depression ended my relationship...
by Daniel_Garcia on November 8th, 2010
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Have you ever continued to have intense feelings for someone who did you terribly wrong? How did you move on or forget the person?
by Nicole on October 29th, 2010
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HE SAID HE DIDN'T WANT TO COMMIT.
by Ladybug on November 5th, 2010
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How do u make a guy once and for all realize that u dnt like him & u will never be 2gether without hurting his feelings and maintaining
by Flowerpower199416 on November 6th, 2010
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Why do guys hang out with women that they have no intention of dating (for months or years) and then play with their minds or reject them?
by Anonymous on October 30th, 2010
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Im so sorry. Nothing is worst than the pain in the heart.
by faye23 on November 30th, 2008
Wow Jay I had the same happen to me...but I realized that this person wasn''t worth my love. I dealt with the rejection and betrayal and have finally got back my self esteem. Hang in there!
by Alice on August 12th, 2009
It reminds me of the movie, "French Kiss." I'd be SO over him. What a jerk.
by anon on November 18th, 2009