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That must be disappointing. What's your question?
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I don't know. Was it cause the ex girlfriend came back? Wait... was that not the question? What was?
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well...he had phone calls all week..1 whole week..every night..hours and hours...emotionally connected...and during week he toldme he had called x to say that he was moving on and to not contact him anymore...cause she alwaysthought she could be friends with him...well..we were supposed tomeet Friday evening.thursday evening ...(which would be 1 or 2 days after he had called x) she showed upat his 0place and her dad died and she was staying there ..and he said tome he needs time and tonot be upset..i was devastated...have written him several emails..and no response...so i don't get it..
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His loss, Ann. ;)
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It's unfortunate that all that happened just before you met, but imagine how much more painful it would have been if you met him once or twice, and had that much deeper involvement before he pulled this on you. Certainly you don't want to be in a relationship with a guy like this who will change directions on a dime the minute his past rings his doorbell. To a degree, we all fall in love with our romantic visions of the other person until we really get to know them in detail. I think he painted a nice, romantic picture of himself and lured you in with it. Then, in a flash, his true colors had to show. Ouch. Been there. It hurts. Best to let him go cleanly and look for the next one, now that you're wiser. (notice I left out "older"?)
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