ANSWERS: 4
  • You have to let her walk her own path & support her. You don't have to like or agree with her choices, but you can choose to be there if & when she needs you.
  • That sounds like a sick obsession that is still playing out, how she would ever be with this man is unfathomable, the connection he forced in the past is the type that can progress FAR worse than what previously happened, Extreme Abuse, maybe even murder. You should tell your friend how you feel and explain why it's wrong. If she can't realize and see this for what it is, you can't force her. But for her physical safety she needs to get away...How people like that are ever allowed back in public is beyond me.
  • Who said that life isn't stranger than fiction?
  • I know it is hard, but you have to keep loving her and tell her she is special. She probably feels obligated and ashamed and as though she cant get any better. SHe may even feel it is her fault she went to prison. Tell her repeatedly it is not her fault and that she does not have to live like that. TEll her that there are people out there who will love her and be true to her. Ask her if she can really trust him, What if they have kids? Will he try that on them? Maybe that will get her to thinking. Tell her she is not obligated and that you will always be there for her.

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