ANSWERS: 32
  • Are you asking with regards to the age difference or the race? Age difference, if things are going well, then go for it. There shouldn't be an issue. With regards to the race, I don't see any problems with it...you're both into each other. What "differences" in particular are you worried about?
  • Ask Davie Bowie... it works for him.
  • Do you love her? Does she love you?
  • Why wouldn't it? What's really troubling you? Those are all just external arguments. The true relationship between a man and a woman should be internal.
  • I really don't think there's anything wrong with your relationship from what you've told us about it. If you're asking for reassurance, you've got it . . . from me. =]
  • heck if you've got something good, don't let it go. Love can overcome many obstacles so don't create any where there aren't any!
  • If United States is a big power is because it is a melting pot of races and color. Go ahead
  • Thanks for the answers - they all have their merit, and yes its probably self doubt and reassurance that im probably looking for.
  • I don't think that age difference is so bad.
  • Sure!! good luck to you both!
  • Clearly you are more spot on then you are different. I wish you all the happiness.
  • If you love each other, yes. My sister (who is black) has been married to a white man for 10 years.
  • all that matters is how the both of you feel about it and how each other's immediate family treats the significant other, that is if you are close to you families.
  • Color and age has no boundries.. Neither does love..
  • defnitly :) good luck!
  • age is just a number, race is just a color. love doesn't care about numbers or color. it can work out :] best of luck.
  • Absolutely if she loves you as you love her and you continue to treat eachother well, the sky is the limit don't let any one tell you that age, race, upbringing has anthing to do with it, if you both want it to work it most likely will :) I wish you and she the best of luck and many years of haapiness.
  • to be honest, i think some people would love for an oppty. not sure what you are really asking???
  • The relationship should really depend on how you both feel about each other, not race or age differences shouldn’t matter. Am a 22 year old African American and my boyfriend is a 38 year old Latino and we have been with each other a long time and are crazy about each other. Guess what am trying to say is that it is possible for a relationship to last with these differences
  • What differences in particular? How long have you been dating? Deep in your heart, do you REALLY know that she can be trusted (and vice-versa)? If you two are crazy about each other, then only TIME will determine if it's LUST or LOVE... (Been there, done that...have finally found true love after several false alarms...).
  • just the fact that YOU are interested in long term here, is a huge bonus in the situation.
  • Total honesty even when it's painful and the ability to communicate with each other while putting sex on the back burner. And when you can be yourselves,flaws and all, and still have a great desire to share yourselves, you are on the right track..... They say age ain't nothing but a number....just give her a lot of room to grow and hopfully she will grow towards you and not away from you, because it's rare to find a 24 yr old that's found herself. But not imposible....Good luck.
  • The only thing I can think of is the age difference but people marry with much wider margins ya know..so I don't really see an issue.
  • of course it can, if youll really love each other. but in reminder, that girl has family, and there family is probably gonna want her to back out, because of the age difference, not exactly because of the race difference, but because of that. but if you guys are willing to work together, and go against family, then of course, it can go long term. :) btw.. my dads 34 and goes with a 24 year old mexican and hes black, and everything is working out perfectly between them, but me on the other hand, i wish i could rip off her neck. but, yea...as long as your happy, and she is too.
  • HELLO color does not matter at all.... we are all people with red blood... love does not discriminate... we can't choose who we will love we just love cause thats what we are brought up our whole live to do... there is no difference unless you make it a difference.. just love her with all your heart and all else will fall into place... it does not matter what race we are. all that matters is what the heart says.. Please take my advice... true love is something we feel once in a life time and I know what true love is and I have it now in my life... not with a person of color, but I have kissed many people toads to find this prince... and he is not perfect.. but in my eyes he is. no matter what color he was he would still be perfect in my eyes... love her with all your might... if its meant to be it will be...
  • That's between you and her. Don't even think about what others think
  • of course it can work. why not? the only true problems that may arise may well come from you & ur own insecurities. the fact that u r questioning already to me signifies that u already have doubts. just be honest w/ urself & try to figure out where these doubts come from. in my humble opinion, your age diff. is not so great, so it should pose no real problems (unless either of u think it will), and in this day & age, the racial issue also shouldn't pose any real problems (unless either of u think it will). really, we create our own reality for the most part, so if u believe either of these issues will create problems, then they invariably will. if, however, u r both confident in ur relationship & ur feelings for each other, then any "problems" u two may encounter from outside sources should not pose any real threat to ur relationship.
  • Do it!
  • Could, nut I hardly think so. she's probably out for a green card.
  • you might have that chance english man. ^_^
  • Love has no colour.....and your friends/family etc should just be happy for you and accept your love for each other.
  • I am a 41 yr old white male dating a 23 yr old black woman so I know what you are dealing with smewhat. You will run into some societal differences and the age gap will be an issue- you just need to communicate and express yourselves freely and you should not have any problems. Good luck!

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