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Heres the advice i was given by my father in law. The one who speaks the most, is usually most wrong. god gave you 2 ears and one mouth...use proportionatley. (spelling)
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I think the awareness that you want to discuss things fairly is half the battle. Lots of people don't come that far. I can give you two things from a psychologist. The first one is don't say "you make me angry" or you make me etc., etc.", say "when you do thus and so I feel angry" or when you do this I feel hurt". It takes the fight out of it. The second thing is find something to agree on, then discuss what you want. So, if you have a disagreement about him picking up his socks, say I appreciate you doing the dishes and putting away your shoes so much, can you also put your socks away too, please. Thank you. (politeness and respect is also important). Hope this gives you a few ideas.
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