Have you ever had an orgasm? To orgasm you need to be completely relaxed and totally aroused. It took one of my exes 18 months of trying before I came with him and it was absolutely down to my mind set and not what he was or was not doing. Now i have no problem as it is all about what I think about (helps that I absolutely fancy my man) and relaxation. Try masturbating to begin with using your fingers, if this is successful then do the same whilst you are having sex, but in a position that allows you to orgasm easily (I prefered to be flat on my back with my legs down!). He can still penetrate you this way and if not then masturabate and when you are near the point of orgasm allow him to enter you to further enhance the sensations. You can also use this if laid on your front and then he can eneter you from behind. You need to experiment and find out what works best for you. Fortunately I have had very athletic partners who can basically do 'pressups' over me for absolutely ages that doesn't affect my own finger stimulation of my clitoris. I have had vaginal orgasms as well but these are rarer and generally when I'm really horny and very much whatever goes attitude. The key for me is masturbation and having a partner who completely understands what I want and when. There are parts of my body which are extra sensitive at different points of my arousal and its these for me which tip me over the edge. It takes a while though and hours and hours of enjoying eachothers bodies to find all these things out. This site http://www.sexinfo101.com/ is very useful for different sex positions and tips on how to orgasm. Have a look and take your time. It will never happen if you try to force it.

try role playing... when your not thinking about getting an orgasm and your in a state of mind like that it might just happen for you! its fun and you and your husband will get a thrill from it!

I never had one until after I had my first kid.... not that I think you should go have kids to get off, but that was my experience

There are so many women that cannot achieve an orgasm through intercourse. Part of it is time and the part of the reason is because women "think" too much during it. Have you ever had one prior to your husband?