My 3-some was with my GF and a girl who had a crush on me. She's still my best friend and she's dating a guy at her college. Although my GF and my friend are thinking about doing a girl-on-girl webcam show for me and my friends BF.

DO WHAT EVER U THINK IS COMFORTABLE FOR THE BOTH OF U, THINK ABOUT IT FIRST WOULD U RATHER HAVE SOMEONE YOU'LL NEVER SEE AGAIN, OUR A FRIEND U CAN TRUST. ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE DONE IT A FEW TIMES WIT THE PERSON, IT HAD ITS UP AND DOWNS, BUT ALL IN ALL IT WAS FUN. OUR THIRD PARTY WAS MY GIRLS BESTFRIEND AND ME AND GIRL RELATIONSHIP IS STRONGER THAN EVER, HAVE DONE IT IN A WHILE BUT IT WAS FUN FOR WHAT IT WAS. THE HARDEST PART ABOUT IT ALL IS TRYING TO PLEASE TO DIFFERENT STRAIGHT FEMALES AT THE SAME TIME. WELL GOOD LUCK.

My recommendation is to do these things with a stranger. It can get very complicated very fast with someone known to both of you. Leave friends out of it!! I believe the best approach is for your girlfriend to approach the woman, with you visible to both of them but not within earshot. Your girlfriend should introduce herself, be nice, and offer to buy the girl a drink by saying something like, 'my boyfriend thinks you're really cute, and really, so do I. And then see where the conversation goes. You should have a pre-arranged signal, like her right hand to her left earlobe for instance, that means it's time for you to come over. And then when you get there, just right away tell the girl how cute you think she is. That way, it's out in the open that you're interested and it's Ok if your girlfriend knows your interested. I will tell you one more thing - be cautious. Your girlfriend may be bringing all this up to test you, and she may be hoping for you to say that you don't want anyone but her. Also, be ready for your girlfriend to want to get together again with any girl you guys score - with you or without you. Also be ready for your girlfriend to expect you to hook-up with another guy, too, or at least to let her fuck another guy while you watch. You should know that as soon as you involve other people sexually, all bets are off and it's no longer a monogamous relationship. Just go into it with your eyes open, and have fun! Good luck!!

You might be best off doing it online, i'd imagine it being tough and you might creep people out if your trying to pick them up together in public

Check the net for a local swingers club there is always someplace with a web ad that might make doing it in person easier and then again a friend would probably easier as long as they know its only sex and will be done when its done ya know