Ok first of all let me answer by saying that I strongly disapprove of premarital sex. I'm hoping that perhaps you can learn why that is from this incident. Now there is no percentage chances that could be given to you. This is because I don't know where she was in her cycle. If she was theorticaly in her most fertile period of her cycle which is (Help me out here) I think two weeks from her period and assuming she is healthy then she probably has a 25% chance of becomming pregnant. (At her most fertile time its my understanding the odds are about 25%). Now if she wasn't in her most fertile period its hard for me to say. A woman can get pregnant just about any time so no matter where she was in her cycle there is still a risk of pregnancy. I'm hoping for your sake that there isn't a child born of this. But if there isn't please try and learn why I disapprove of pre-martial sex. Because you may be lucky this time but how many times will you get lucky? Is the risk worth it to you?

We have no way of telling, but she obviously could be pregnant. Help her get to a Planned Parenthood, where they will help her, test her AND YOU to be sure you have no sexual diseases,and when the time is right, test her for pregnancy. It is free and confidential. No lectures, but that was a dumb thing to do. Try to learn from Planned Parenthood's people who know what they are talking about, so it doesn't happen again.

I don't want to give you false comfort here, but in general (if I remember my stuff right) the prime time is just before a period. Your time happened pretty much right after...but you can't count on that because women ovulate all over the chart. She definitely *could* be pregnant but take some comfort in knowing that if that's the first time you had unprotected sex, then she's probably not. It absolutely can happen, and does on the "first time" but the odds are still with you. You can pick up one of those early pregnancy tests cheap now, and they are very accurate. I think they can catch it fairly early too. Pick one of those up and give it a try. If it's negative then you can breathe a little easy, but still know it could be a false negative, and you will still need to watch her over the next few weeks. If it's positive, then you should get her to a doctor for confirmation. The main thing is stick by the gal either way. She has given herself to you and believe it or not you made promises to her when you were enjoying her body. Use this time to think about what a sexual relationship is-it's a lot more than getting your rocks off with your girlfriend. Think about how you felt during this scare and use the fear and the desperation you feel to learn from. Next time it gets hot and heavy between you two think about the days of fear and sleepless nights you just spent. If you don't then all this is just a waste, and you'll repeat it. If you don't learn, eventually there will be an unwanted child, and broken-hearted woman in your past. When this scare is over it is absolutely best to stop having pre-marital sex, and if that's not an option-be very careful with those condoms and use them properly. I don't know you but I'm saying a prayer for you. I hear your fear and I've been there before-a long time ago. M

Have a cigar, she's havin your baby!

I really wouldnt worry to much.its a very slim chance.but there still is a chance.if she isnt be more careful.if she is a guess your gonna be a daddy!!!