What are your thoughts on sado-masochism?
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Halskiisaklink
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Though I'm not either, I'll quote a famous masochist (Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, the person we get the word from). "If you can't hear the music, the dancers seem insane"
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as long as they are consenting adults and there is no physical harm done (disfigurement is a no-no!) 2 adults can do what they want for their own pleasure.
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Three things: 1. Not for me. 2. The song, "You always hurt the one you love." 3, As long as it is by mutual consent I suppose if someone has pain or gets hurt, they asked for it, literally. Not for me however, as I said.
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Two things: 1. Not for me. 2. The song, "You always hurt the one you love."
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I am a masochist and enjoy letting other men humiliate me sometimes.
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I am a masochist and enjoy letting other men humiliate me sometimes.
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Pain is not nice.
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hmmm ... some degrees of this are difficult for me to 'get'. but i think it's one of those 'to each their own' kind-of things. i'm sure a lot of people don't understand my fetishes and there are some that i'll never understand. the great thing is when you find someone who is compatable with you in all your weirdness. I wish I could remember what it was called, but I read a great article written by a lesbian feminist in uni defending sado-masochism. She was heavily criticized for it by crazy uber-feminists, which made me really sad. I understand why masochism -- as in, women who stay with abusive men -- is destructive. But, each person's sexuality is their own; and if a person digs it, then that's that. I personally feel any exploration is healthy when there are people who are in loving, respectful , monogamous sexual relationships.
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Know your limits, explore those limits, get great pleasure and get some toys and be sure to have a consentual partner to share with. Everyone has different things they like, just find someone that wants to go the distance with you!
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Different strokes, For different folks.
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I am into it to a mild degree. My lady was previously a sub in a very abusive relationship. She has a very high pain tolerance and was unable to express her limits before things got WAY too far. Scarring, broken bones in her feet, nipple ring torn out...this creep actually used her genitals as an ashtray! I was originally attracted to her by empathy (I volunteer as security guard/escort at a battered women's safe house). I became the only man she could feel trust with. After 18 months of orthopedic and plastic surgery she is now physically all right; the emotional scars heal much more slowly...Meghan is still into bdsm. I perform it with great care and empathy for her. Meg is sometimes frustrated at my unwillingness to go beyond a certain point with pain stimuli; I remind her of her previous situation...usually at such times the session ends with us cuddling and crying on each others shoulders. Please, folks, have fun but keep it SAFE.
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