Can you decide within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone if you'd be willing to sleep with the person?
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-Freedom Issues- Minnesota nice
ANSWERS: 29
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Yes, and have, and have often changed my mind later.
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No, never. If I did that, I would have slept with people I realized I really didn't like after awhile.
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If it's him:
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Well, this is how I see it: I try to picture them in bed with their head on my pillow. If I like what I see, the answer is yes
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If its David Cook or Mark Wahlberg :O
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yes.
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Sleep with them, yes. It's dealing with them afterward that stinks :)
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No, I prefer to be married to the person I have sex with. I think after five minutes a simple handshake would be sufficient.
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I don't even need five minutes. I'm married and a very loyal person. I flirt like the dickens, but those that I flirt with usually know me well enough for it to be a safe assumption that they're not gettin' any from me in reality :) Now, if we're talking about before I was married, then I don't even need five minutes. It just wasn't on my mind in the first meeting of a stranger. I guess I'm old fashioned, but five minutes??? Come on...
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No, but I can tell you if I NEVER would sleep with that person
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5 minutes? Who needs that long? Of course, I've made some really bad decisions in a split second.
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*cough cough*
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NO since if they wouldn't make a good marriage mate, they aren't getting any from me.
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If she sticks around long enough I might have a chance. :) I am too old to chase after them begging.
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What noone has addressed is this possibility: You decide to have sex with them within five minutes of meeting them. Then you go about living, and dating, and in a few months you marry them and have sex with them for the first time. It can be moral, but you made the decision quite a while before you did it, you see.
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Not really, I'd need more time to determine if I thought it was "safe", as in whether I thought they were likely to have diseases, but other than that I could probably figure that out in a glance.
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Sometimes there is a chemistry that clicks and I want to be with that person for the rest of the night. Of course this has all changed because I'm now in the 18th year of my marriage.
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Uhhh.... Yeah, I suppose. But sometimes answering in 2.746 seconds isn't always the best thing ever... Some disasterific things have happend... Which I'd rather not talk about... But you may be able to persuade me...
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it usually only takes me one minute to decide if I wanna have sex with someone. I change my mind sometimes though, when I get to know them better
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Easily. Now a relationship is a different story, that should be considered carefully. ;)
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No. Looks alone are not reason enough for me to be turned on to someone, I need to know their personality and a little about them. Not to mention STD's I'm not gonna hop in the sack with anyone within 5 minutes of knowing them.
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Yes. WIthout exception.
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Yep, most guys form an opinion right away. Some try to make it happen, some don't.
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yes. the answer is no. unless I find myself single again I am not willing to sleep with anyone but my wife... were I single I do not consider sleeping with someone something I do because they are sexy and fun to be with... sex is a relationship thing to me. a maried relationship thing.
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I don't even have to meet them. A picture will do.
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Yes. I always know and usually do. Married or not. I am available.
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no way it take something deeper then knowing someone for only 5 mins!
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That's something very deep. Something sacred. And I dont believe in premarital sex so I would say wait til your married, because someone always get hurst otherwise.
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Five minutes, you're kidding, right?
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