by Anonymous on October 23rd, 2008

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Non-asian guys, when do you find an asian girl attractive? I'm just curious since I am one of them. (if you'd like to, tell me your ethnicity too.)

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by Schroeder on October 23rd, 2008
I like asian girls because they are small and feminine.
I'm a honky.
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by Art of Drowning on October 23rd, 2008
I'm extremely attracted to asian women because they almost always have beautiful features and personalities. I'm a sucker for asian women.

I am Norweggian btw.
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by Dior on July 7th, 2009
I always find asian girls to be very pretty and attractive, however, I also find other girls of other races just as pretty and attractive. My s/o is asian from Singapore, I am black British. BTW not all asian girls are submissive as some people seem to think because my s/o is certainly not and neither are her friends and I would not want a woman who is the submissive type. Also I am not with her because of her ethnicity as that is completely irrelevant, I am with her because we simply met and fell in love
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  by Evanfris25 on July 9th, 2009
- Thank you Evanfris25 :)
  
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by Sosueme on October 23rd, 2008
When she's laying on top of me naked????
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- SUPER HOT! Or when she is under you with her legs spread wide!
  
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  by ccrunch171 on October 26th, 2010
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by shayanshaffey on October 24th, 2009
asian girls are different and human wants what it doesnt
have.
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by cryingbear269 on October 25th, 2009
I am a Native American. What I find most attractive about an Asian woman is that they act like ladies and they have class and style. No one takes a girl who acts like a tramp seriously they get what they can and move on when they are done
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by Shy George on July 9th, 2009
I know from experience, they( Asian girls)- give- absolutely great "head"! I'm white. Great tongue work-
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by iwnit on November 12th, 2008
1) "It is fair to say that the Beauty Myth is alive and well. The ideal of Western beauty remains thin, boy-ish hips, grapefruit sized breasts, European facial features, and lighter skin. Any deviation from the ideal is considered less than perfectly pretty. Or, at its most generous, a deviation may be considered exotic and thus not expected to be universally appreciated. People say, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” but the truth is, in Western culture, it is the same man or woman who turns everyone’s head when they walk down the street.

Even those of us who are members of other races are judged by the same standards, even by our own brethren. It is better to have a low waist-to-hip ratio, long hair, eyelids, light skin, a narrow nose. Based on these standards, blond, white women rank near the top; black women are near the bottom. On the male side, Asian men are the least likely to be considered sexy.

The white premium is so high that black men, in particular, are willing to date even conventionally unattractive white women over black women. It doesn’t happen to the same extent in other cross-cultural couplings. Have you ever seen a slovenly, unattractive Asian woman dating a non-Asian? It doesn’t happen. The couple are either relatively equal in attractiveness or, she is, particularly if she is a visible minority, waaay hottter. This is part of the anger a black woman often feels when she sees yet another black man holding hands with a white woman.

But, as interracial dating, at least in my town, becomes more commonplace, the attractiveness disparity diminishes."
Source and further information:
http://fashionablecouple.com/?tag=interracial-couple

2) I personally have seen a lot of Asian women whom I found attractive, and not just celebrities.

I am Caucasian, like for instance Osama bin Laden or Mother Teresa:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Europaeid_types.jpg
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- Nice to see you iwnit! 6+
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 25th, 2009
- MRSHINYSHOES: nice to see you!
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by Brian I on October 23rd, 2008
I see beauty wherever it exists, whether it is a landscape or a woman. Where the woman is from., or what part of the world the landscape is from, is completely irrelevant.
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by honestguy on October 23rd, 2008
I think for most guys it's more about looks and personality than ethnicity. I find an asian girl attractive when she's a little outgoing, sweet, and has long silky hair. I'm a caucasion American, 30 years old.
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by chunkatunk on July 9th, 2009
Im white and i think that asians are wicked hot to. Maybe its their little bodies and their eyes. they just seem promiscious. i like em lots
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by Amorphous Blob on October 23rd, 2008
I'm an American of Polish descent and in general I find Oriental women more attractive than Caucasians.
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by prisoner on October 23rd, 2008
Asians only for me thanks.... but, I don't care too much for American-Asians... for a relationship I mean... I'm not racist.
I'm non-asian..
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- I'm sorry, but you did just make a racist comment without explaining how, exactly, you are not being racist. Please elaborate.
  
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  by quack is whack on July 7th, 2009
- I was speaking of personnal preferences as far as romantic relationships go. Nothing racist at all about personnal preferences for the opposite sex.
  I'm not a racist at all. I respect all peoples equally.
  
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  by prisoner on July 12th, 2009
- All you needed was an explanation ;)
  
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  by quack is whack on July 13th, 2009
- i thought my explanation was clear enough...
  Asian-Americans are usually too Americanized for my taste.. I like culture..
  
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  by prisoner on July 13th, 2009
- I agree with prisoner. 6+
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 25th, 2009
- thanks!
  
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  by prisoner on October 26th, 2009
- Before I got married, I dated a couple of North Americanized Asian girls----loud, aggressive, not very feminine. Then I went to Japan and met my wife---soft, gentle, sweet, yet smart and kind. So different. We now have two little daughters. ;)
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 26th, 2009
- Congratulations. That's awesome. I'm in Japan now... still looking for the right one, but the girlfriends I have had have been amazing
  
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  by prisoner on October 27th, 2009
- ...for the most part anyway... ;)
  
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  by prisoner on October 27th, 2009
- Yes, for the most part. Beware, there are some Asian-born Asian girls who appear nice, but are only after a ticket to go to America. And some can be as crude as the North American types. (lol)
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 27th, 2009
- Oh, I know that very much much. And I can usually pick up on that vibe very fast. Especially the girls near military bases... they seem to be the worst... already being influenced by American "culture"...
  
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  by prisoner on October 28th, 2009
- With all due respect, I find American girls to be very defensive when it comes to their own sex---they will jump down a guy's throat if he even makes a little joke about women. Generally, they have a "male-bashing" mentality, and seem to always think that men are out to put them down or treat them unfairly. Asian girls are more comfortable in their own femininity. In the West, femininity is often perceived as a negative. To be feminine is to be weak or ineffectual. That's why American women stress independence, strength---attributes normally associated with men. They are trying to get away from being feminine. Not so with Asian girls. In Asian, femininity is celebrated and nurtured.
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 28th, 2009
- I guess it sure is a good thing that there are plenty of men out there who don't feel emasculated by a fiery woman =P
  
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  by quack is whack on October 28th, 2009
- They do, but they don't want to admit it, for fear of being hassled by a loud, aggressive fiery woman. No one likes any person who is fiery, male or female.
  
  When women start behaving like men, being aggressive and fiery, they lose something, something special, their gentleness and femininity. Thank God for Asian women.
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 28th, 2009
- Oh boy. I didn't know that fiery had a gendered quality to it, or that the word was synonymous with aggressive. I could have simply meant passionate. Now I'm not condemning you for preferring Asian women - quite frankly, I'm a "to each his/her own" kind of person. I'm just glad that people like you are into the Asians and not us Swedes. Thank God for that.
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  And for the record, quite frankly no, the men who like fiery women do not feel emasculated by them at all. In my experience they tend to be, quite simply, secure in that masculinity.
  
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  by quack is whack on October 28th, 2009
- Lol. That's only another way of putting "copping out". A lot of men these days, young men, are so afraid of being criticized by women that they hide behind that "I'm secure in my masculinity. I'm not afraid of fiery women." Of course they are, but they don't want to be male-bashed. Personally, I have always found most Northern Europeans (Scandinavians) to be very cold, aloof. There are many Swedes and other Scandinavians here in Canada where I was born, and from my experience most of them are emotionless, FAR from being passionate. In addition, I have a relative who went to Norway to live, for two years, and she said the people there are unfriendly, uncaring, and emotionally detached, even racist. ;)
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 28th, 2009
- Well when you're talking about Norwegians, OF COURSE they're unfriendly =P
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  But no, I don't think that it's a cop-out, especially from my own experience - as I personally refuse to engage in male-bashing because, you know, men are roughly 50% of the population and should be treated like people too (I mean with respect and courtesy). There are plenty of guys in my age-group who prefer the proscribed version of femininity and aren't at all afraid to admit it, just as there are plenty of (American) women who prefer to fulfill that role.
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  Again, to each his own - but don't think that just because you can't personally relate to a man who enjoys a woman who is fiery, passionate, and yes, even Swedish (which, by the by, I have never personally met a cold Swede, but maybe you just managed to somehow put them off? I couldn't say) that they aren't out there and aren't being genuine about it.
  
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  by quack is whack on October 28th, 2009
- Sorry if I touched a "raw nerve" (lol), but from my experience and the experience of many of my friends and relatives, most, and I say most, not all, Scandinavians (yes Swedes too) are aloof and unfriendly, to the point of being sex-less (lol). The men are generally wimpy (we Canadians are always making fun of those wimpy Swedish hockey players in t.v. commercials, because they don't know how to play the game hard like real men), and the women are generally "masculine" (we call them cows because they are so big and mannish. Lol.) But I hope I didn't offend you. I think I did, however. Sorry, but that's the way I see it, and it's how a lot of people here see it too. :) Yes, to each his own. Case closed. I won't be coming back here to view any more comments. See ya. lol
  
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  by MRSHINYSHOES on October 28th, 2009
- No actually, it's pretty difficult to offend me. I just don't like making generalizations. I call it where I see it.
  
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by IndianaJesusfreak on October 23rd, 2008
Pretty much any time between midnight and 11:59 the next night. In other words, Asian girls are hot.
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by bobo2010 on December 31st, 2010
i'm Asian and I always think white girls are pretty.
I always think i'm ugly, flat hair, small eye, low nose etc
I think most white guys are very attractive, more gentlemen than asian girls, but i'm afraid to look up to them, i don't think I can compete with white girls honestly.
i'm really surprised to read all of your compliment about asian girls
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- Uggh i know what you mean! i'm asian as well and my jaw just dropped as i read all of these compliments! lol
  
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by Nice Guy In Bay Area on July 7th, 2009
Ethnicity: See pic.... Answer: Always! Asian girls are small framed, graceful, speak softly (for the most part), and believe in being submissive.
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  by Anonymous on October 25th, 2009
- Good answer. 6+
  
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by schmee2369 on July 7th, 2009
Im not a guy, but I know alot of guys I know dig an asian chick.
Cuz of their black straight hair, tanISH skin, dark eyes, and the natural shape of their face. And cuz they are little....NOT TO LITTLE, but little.
I think asian girls are really pretty, but alot of times...I think they look the same too.
I also know it makes a difference if they are asian american though, cuz their attitudes are alittle different then actually in Asia.
(But, we dig the asian culture) - btw mostly white dudes
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by quack is whack on July 7th, 2009
Here is what my (white) boyfriend, (and for that matter, most of my male friends share this opinion):

"As a group (and of course this is a generalization), it is less typical to find Asian women with nice curvy bodies including accentuated breasts and butts, and a nice curvy physique. Since these are key physical features I (the boyfriend) am often less attracted to Asian women than other groups of women. Nothing against them, of course."

It should be noted that the boyfriend also likes black women a lot ;-)

I would also like to point out though, that a fair percentage of men really like Asian women for the following reasons (as I have stated elsewhere):

- They are almost always very skinny
- They are "smaller" and "more feminine"
- Also, they tend to come from cultures that exemplify the "submissive woman" role (which indeed is a reason that many, MANY men list for preferring Asian women over us wily whities)

Also, though, I would like to make the point that there are just as many un-attractive Asian women as there are attractive or moderate-looking ones.

How does it feel to be fetishized based solely upon your race?
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- I just think you're bitter. If you don't notice the trend here, it seems like all the white guys like asian girls.
  
  Don't be jealous. It's okay :)
  
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  by GunnerHotel on June 1st, 2010
- Bitter? Please. Nice try though. What is there to be bitter about? I'm just all about the constructions of race, gender, and sexuality. You're obviously just an intellectually shallow asshole who doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about.
  
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by dead leaves raked in a pile on October 23rd, 2008
I'm English. and I do find Asian girls attractive, although as with anything, some are more attractive than others.

I'm not sure that "when" really applies here
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by Randy D on November 1st, 2009
I'm a black American, and I am attracted to Asian women, amongst other races/ethnicities.

I'm married to an Asian woman.
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by Miguel_L on April 9th, 2012
In two words, they are cute and femenine. Spain.
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by Been on July 7th, 2009
I never find asian girls attractive. First, they all have those tiny small eyes and that's not prteey. Also, their faces look like someone just smushed them with the skillet. Also wide nose is ugly. They also seem to make this dumb facial expressions and start laughing about nothing, which I fin a sign of total studipity and empty head. The most beautiful girls are white (Russians in particular) with their big light eyes, naturally blonde hair and beautiful face!!!
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- what an ugly person you must be to put down a whole race. i bet your a dog yourself, you must be with that personality.
  
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  by celticmoonlight on July 7th, 2009
- i think you are white girl and jealous to Asian girls.
  
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  by shymranger on February 27th, 2010
- Wow this person must be very lonely. ここは日本です！！！
  
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  by Ivan_M9317 on December 12th, 2010
- I'm a Filipino girl, I have large eyes, my nose has a bridge and I'm not flat-faced (thus, I don't look like I was hit wig a skillet) and I see obnoxious white girls who laugh about nothing and make ditzy facial expressions than asian ones. I'm not generalizing white girls, by the way. Within every race you're going to see a variety of different facial features. Not all Asians look the same, so get your facts straight.
  
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by tim on October 9th, 2011
they are so unattractive that's why i like european girls with brown hair
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by rocklesson86 on March 14th, 2011
I'm a girl and I think Asian girls are pretty. I happen to think Asian guys are hott.
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by Icameback4now on March 11th, 2010
American(english/irish/french/german/cherokee/blackfoot) Its about the connection not about the ethnic background, so ya Asian chicks are cool!
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by jackerson117 on February 14th, 2011
For me it's the eyes the way their lids shape around them force me to stare and fall in love, and the small frame makes me weak in the knees and barely able to stand when I hug one.
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by Aaron wears a COAT of Fantasy on July 9th, 2009
I do not care for the looks... I get to know a person... True beauty is found on the inside... (personality, I mean)

I'm white (An American of Scottish, British, Irish, Cherokee, and German decent)...

You can't expect all men to like you though... I mean MOST are assholes who base choice in women solely on looks... Sorry, but it's true (for the majority)... You may find a rare few that are different...

Hope this helps... :D
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by charliethegreat on October 23rd, 2008
im white and have not met too many ugly asian woman most are very pretty but to petite for my tastes.
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by The Crimson Magician on October 25th, 2009
well i dont like em plump... i like em skinny XD
and i like the straight hair, and the feel that they'll accept me just a bit better then a regular girl when it comes to games. Plus, i like anime/manga so thats a really great topic to read together, watch together, or talk about.
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by Zurich on October 25th, 2009
I find Asian guys attractive when they take care of themselves, hair, clothes, and they have to be nice, they can't be all cocky like some Asian guys I know.
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by bigmac on October 25th, 2009
it is the same with any ethnicity there are girls that are attractive and non attractive.
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by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on July 9th, 2009
asian features are more femenine. petite, slender, more angular faces. I am white. I find white features more polished but less pretty.... get half asian half while and it softens up those beautiful features and WOW. I think the only asian races who's features are usualy softened to my taste already is vietnamese and thai. not that there are not full of other races with softened features, but most are too sharp for ideal. still pretty though.
don't go hating me for giving an honest observation... to me "attractive" means physical attraction.
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by MOB on July 9th, 2009
Im black and I love asian women, I live in Vegas and most of them here are real stuck up and only date white or mexican guys....
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by visionaryscribe on February 21st, 2010
You realize that an honest answer will also be subjective, meaning that every guy has his own preferences for physical attributes, which goes beyond the obvious general fixation with particular body parts. But it also goes beyond the physical--i.e., personality, character, demeanor, etc.

That said, here goes: Although I am Caucasian, I have long preferred Asian girls over Caucasians (or any other race). Generally, Asian girls are shorter, more petite, thinner, etc. All that appeals to my sense of sight. But there's a lot more about Asian girls that appeals to me, besides their appearance, particularly Asian girls who have not become Americanized. I like modesty, sweetness, moderate sexiness (i.e., without sluttiness), friendliness, happiness, integrity, and so forth. But the thing that really appeals to me is when an Asian girl who fits my profile also likes me!
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