I don't get it. People tell me I'm kind, sweet, cute etc. & I do think I have a big heart & will take relationship commitments seriously. I don't have the heart to cheat/intentionally hurt peoples' feelings. So why don't I have anyone to share this with?
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Girls like confidence, translation, girls like assholes. Because you're not willing to cheat, you'll never get the chance too. Sad but true.
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Because you are one of the rarities in this world.Dont get all fired up to find someone just for the sake of having them.Take your time,let some of the universe fall into place for you.
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it takes teh right girl for the right guy. since you are that kind of guy like myself you will be the oneto have to wait till the girls realize that assholes... well will always be assholes
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For the same reason that no one believes it when a car salesman has a genuine "peach" of a car to sell. The 'jerks' in the mating game spoil it for the rest of us....:-P...
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I have the same issue. The key is confidence, and wait for the right person. That's what I'm going to do.
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You've just not found the right girl for you yet. There's someone out there that will match you like a puzzle piece you just have to be yourself and patient
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you already answered your question, you're kind, sweet, cute etc. though women claim to want that they go for jerks
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sorry, i knewi shoulda checked. i apologize. but vice versa too tho. guys liek girls that they think will do bad things and if your sweet there are guys that dont like that. i myself love sweet girls. ive had bad relationships before and sweet girls are the onesi like but most asshole guys wanta girlwho will putout ordo bad stuff. like yeah... sorry again
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Because you haven't found the right person. People with these qualities don't usually find the one until they are older. Men or women in this situation need to be with a very mature person who can appreciate these things. It took me until I was 28 to find the one who appreciated me for all I am. Before that, just jerks. Hand in there!
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Try not to sweat it too much. You just don't have anyone to share your life with "right now". Be patient and keep on being yourself -- and learning how to be better. Remember the Jack Nicholson line from "As Good As It Gets": 'You make me want to be better than I am.' So you need to start without that person for now.
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I'm in the same boat. It sucks but all you can do is hold onto the hope that one day someone will see you for all ofc that and fall madly and passionately inlove with you
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It could be so many things. Are you interested in girls or women or boys or men? Are you confident? Do you move too fast, maybe? Speaking for myself, the "friends first" and hanging out in a group approach is the best way to begin. A man with average looks, etc. who has confidence would be much more attractive to me than someone with no confidence who was very physically attractive but has no confidence (or false confidence). I think this holds true regardless of gender or sexual preference. I don't know how old you are, but I am sure you'll find love.
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you will....just give it some time. As tom petty once said..."The waiting is the hardest part...."
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Confidence, confidence, Confidence. If you are happy with yourself, and love yourself, the rest will follow. I'm not talking false confidence ( people who are actually really insecure but claim to have it all going on... ).. I'm talking a genuine passion for your own life and being really happy with yourself. It translates into every area of your life. Guys do not like the smell of desperation or neediness.. Go and live your life and your magnetism will shine through! Before you know it, you'll meet all kinds of interesting people :)
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I would say you are highly respected, and you will have to make the frist move , they are a fraid you will reject them.I was in the same boat. took me untill I was 50 to learn.
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