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  • It sounds to me like he is being overly friendly to someone he broke up with. I would think that he is realizing what he gave up and is looking to give you some subtle hints that he still cares. Next time it happens, I would make a simple comment to him like," You have to be my man to be entitled to do that." and then give a simple little giggle. This will let him know that you don't want him touching you if he is not interested in getting back with you. After that comment, you should know the next time you see him if he wants to get back together. If he touched your hair, it is a sure thing. Hope this helps
  • Yeah. Most likely he realized he was better off with you than without you. I hope you have moved on, relationships that go through a break up and get back together usually end even worse than the last time around. If you do not want his advances, gently remind him that your hair USED to be his to play with, now its not. DO NOT play into his game - too many times an ex will 'act/talk' lets make up and play nice too get sex and sex only. While you can not remove that chance fully, you can and should control how this 'relationship' develops by calling the shots. If he does want to get back together make him 'work for it'. By showing you that whatever the issue was that caused the breakup is resolved. No sex until he can demonstrate that he is in it for the long haul. If you want to rekindle, go slowly. Call the shots, sit reasonable limits - like dating first, long talks, no sex no kissing until you are certain that this is what you BOTH want. If not then make clear boundaries - playing with your hair is something you do not allow - no kisses or caresses etc too.

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