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by VHornyGuy1 on December 19th, 2006

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Hi All. Has anyone engaged in MMF or FFM group, three some sex activity. And was there any relationship fall out from this. My Girlfriend is wanting to try MMF but I am a little unsure as this is new to me. I like the idea of FFM but I am worried that thi

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  • by Ullyses on December 19th, 2006

    Ullyses

    I've not been involved in it myself, but I can give you a couple of common-sense tips. Three things I see as being important in such a venture are Honesty, Trust, Rules. You need to be honest about why you are doing this - is it to fulfil a fantasy (perhaps as a one-off), or to perk up your sex life (might become a regular occurance, maybe leading to swinging). You need to trust your partner implicitly - if they achieve a greater orgasm then you can't let it affect your normal lovemaking (the worm of jealousy can destroy the relationship with a constant need to know "Was he better than me?"). Rules are paramount before you start, and must not be broken. If you feel more than just a sexual attachment to your 'third wheel' then there is a danger that your partner, or you, might become a third wheel. Men tend to fantasise about a FFM session, but the reality can be very different, and many men baulk at MMF relationships as they feel wrong touching another man.

    If you are happy that the three things are in place and want to go ahead then there is no reason not to. Enjoy yourself and, as a minimum learn from the experience, as a maximum find more new horizons in your lovemaking experience.

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  • by wannabemilfsd on January 25th, 2010

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    Talk to her and ask lots of questions. Ask her or fantasize about it in bed during sex and foreplay. Explore it to make sure if its a fantasy (better left in the mind) or if she really wants to do it. If she is open, discuss your prior sexual relationships.

    Of course there can be a huge fallout from this! If you are both young then keep an emotional distance---Im not saying do not be in love, just decide what you want from it--long term or short term fling. If it is short term find the RIGHT guy to share her with and enjoy the heck out of it!!

    A MMF and a MFF can be amazing if with the right people. My husband was really into it at first, in fact our first date turned into a 3 some with his best friend after my best GF, his date, passed out drunk. After we got serious he wouldn't do it anymore. My loss.

    I would say that after you have discussed it thoroughly, then the hardest part is to find the right guy---you guys reading this----your ego can ruin it if the two guys get competitive in bed!

    Guys::::::: If you make it about HER, and not yourself, you will have an amazing time. Nothing like the sight of a women who feels secure and sexy and like a porn star in bed with two sexy guys.

    Read Nina Hartley's book and watch her DVD too!

    Good luck!

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  • by PeterODB on February 14th, 2008

    PeterODB

    I've had MMF, it was fun. I had a girlfriend with an open relationship, so it was ok. She knew what i like, and wanted to join in. She's gone now.

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  • by Anonymous on December 29th, 2007

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    All very good tips. My wife and me prefer MMFs, never MFFs. Why? What happens if you get the guest pregnant? We have done a MMF for years with the same friend, so it's not just some fling. They are a LOT of fun, but you need to address feelings of jealousy quickly as they may cause problems. Be open and have no secrets - if your relationship with your spouse is shaky - don't do it.

    Hope it works out for you - they are something everyone should try in their lifetime, if they want.

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  • by Anonymous on August 6th, 2009

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    I was in a threesome with a married couple, 20 yrs ago. They had an open marraige and had fun apart and together. My intention was to have sex with her, but he was home. When he told me how much she wanted to have a threesome, I agreed to help out. Honestly, I thought it might be my only chance to do something like this. It was.
    Call me ignorant, but I was thinking more on the line of me and him fucking her. I didn't realize that they liked to share guys together. While she was sucking me, she stopped and offered my cock to him. She looked at me and asked if he could. What was I going to say?
    Panicked, I said "sure". It was a trip watching the two of them licking it and taking turns sucking it. We did fuck her together, me on the bottom, him from behind. I will always remember this as my sexual apex.

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  • by Larry on January 19th, 2009

    Larry

    My wife and I have been sharing with out friends for 25 years, we do every thing but FMF Threesomes. It keeps getting better in and out of the bedroom.

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  • by aerodas on March 23rd, 2010

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    Me and my girlfriend decided to go at it and try MFM with a friend of mine. Before we started or did anything we kind of lay'd down the rules, such as no anal, and that she had wanted to try Double vaginal if everything felt right. We let him know we were very much in love but that sex is great, and it was stupid to assume that just cause she was with me that she some how forgot to lust another person. MFM is the occasion where it is OK to have fun, cause everyone is clued in- there is no cheating cause all parties are there.
    We set t up so that she would try on the outfit she picked out and model it for us. After a bit she would sit next to us and start teasing us. She had shaved, and I suggested to him that he kiss her then eat her pussy to break the tension. We had lit candles everywhere and moved to the floor. After taking turns for a while, she decided to try double vaginal, and fucking loved it! this was something she thought wouldn't be something shed like, but was convinced by the fact we never came across anyone who had a bad experience with it.
    this is a good site about jealousy.

    http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef/Poly/Labriola/jealousy.html

    All said it was something we plan on doing, whenever we can fit it into school and work.

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  • by Irisibis on August 6th, 2009

    Irisibis

    I did, with my ex.

    I didn't enjoy it because it was definitely for him - we did MMF. He liked the idea of watching me with another man.

    I don't think I would have wanted to do FFM, I would have refused I suspect - I think it is the women who want MMF and men want FFM!

    Pwrsonally, even though I didn't get anything out of it, I can vouch for the fact that it did not cause any fall out in our relationship.

    Make sure you both know what you want out of it first and that you will not be jealous if you see her with another man. It depends on the individual. My ex was not jealous of seeing me with another man - he was one of the few men who actually find that a turn-on. I, on the other hand, couldn't have handled seeing him with another woman in that context.

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  • by My Favourite Life on February 13th, 2008

    My Favourite Life

    I have done both. They were both fun for their own reasons.

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  • by wannabemilfsd on January 25th, 2010

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    Share your answer...

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  • by Davey31 on April 17th, 2009

    Davey31

    great fun specially with young 18 yr old men as my wife is 41

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  • by CatyGeeky on July 13th, 2010

    CatyGeeky

    I only do it with friends that I trust enough to do it.
    I've never done it while in a relationship.

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