by Anonymous on October 13th, 2008

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I had a 3some with my husband and best friend i asked for it to happen so its my fault,i told them to kiss and stuff when i wasn t there as a test,they did i feel like my life is over,the pictures in my head won t stop,how do i get over this?

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by Jannae on October 13th, 2008
Life is not over, Anon. You can channel this experience into an improved sex life with him (and with or without the friend involved). Yes, it has happened, but please don't let it bother you anymore. he appreciates it, no doubt, and you can let that be a one-time thing that shows him the depths of your devotion.
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- thanks for replying i need all the help i can get xx
  
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  by Anonymous on October 14th, 2008
- Hey, my e-mail address is in my profile. If you'd like to write to me for any other help I can give, I'd be happy to try ...
  
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by Rev.Marx on October 13th, 2008
You'd be amazed at what you can endure.

How do you get over this? I'm sorry to say it, but there's no 'magic' phrase or action that you can do.

Why do people play these little 'tests' on people? They never end well. You ask for the impossible, and then get destroyed if it happens or if it doesn't happen. I've seen it before, and it's always lose/lose.

(sighs)

You will get over this when, or should I say if? you realize that you can't play games with people you care about. Life is full of wonderful things: love, rainshowers, chocolate. But you can't control them.

I hope you learn that sooner than I did.
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- thank you your very right, no i think i realise that i need just to try and forget it and get on with my life xx
  
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  by Anonymous on October 14th, 2008
- I wish you the best of luck.
  
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