Why would my bf want to share me with another man and a woman when I didn't even ask
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ANSWERS: 17
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Cuz he's stupid?
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as someone who has actually told a couple girls just that, i would say that he just plain wants to have a three way ...most likely just to see what it's like to have a three way
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Because it's hot to watch your gf having sex with another guy. Afterwards, he'll hound you to the end of your life, asking if you liked the other guy better. :) Sad but true (so I've heard).
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My common-law spouse told me that when he was married to his ex, in the first months of their relationship, they had a 4 way with another couple. It was, he said, to experiment with sex. It went ok, but they never did it again. He and I would never consider such a thing, in fact, in he is very jealous when it comes to me. I can't imagine him giving me the freedom of choice that he gave his ex wife! She ended up cheating on him many times after they had kids, hence she is his ex, and since we have been together, it has not come up again. He knows for certain that I am not the type to go for such a thing, and that I am 100% loyal to my spouse, so he wouldn't ever ask me. It's not that I don't like sex, that has nothing to do with it. It's that I can't stand infidelity. I had enough of that with my first husband, my ex. And, I saw it all the time with my father. He was a pig.
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Cause he is bisexual and this is the only way he can be with another guy and think it is fine? Who knows?
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He's having fantasy's. And if he is thinking the two of you can be together in a long term relationship with that kind of activity...he's almost CERTAINLY wrong. It causes too many difficulties. Which means ultimately that if you DO allow it, the relationship is likely tubed. :(
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at a guess, mostly he wants other women, or at least this particular other woman. You're the price. I guess he thinks he's getting a bargain. If you actually want a foursome it's another matter - you both get what you want.
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Because he is a sleaze. Get out of there or you will find yourself doing everything for his pleasure at the expense of your own sense of self.
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Any man or Woman that would want to share there Boyfriend or girlfriend. They dont care about you and they sure dont love you. But thats just what i think.
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Thier may be some lack of respect for you and part of it migh be the hope that yu might like to do a threesome or orgie with him and others... fact is some people can sepoerate sex and love and are very sexualy open... best bet...ask him
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Because he has a HUGE lack of morals. Not to mention absolutely no respect for you at all. It sounds like he just wants to play around and he's not really happy to be with one person. Run away!!!!!
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Because some people can handle that lifestyle and some can't. He was probably trying to see if you could or not? If you can't... get away as fast as you can. If you're okay with it then who cares... Enjoy yourselves.
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may be he is not serious, It could be his fantacy.
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are you talking about a 4some?? Cause if you are maybe he is just into that sort of thing... he doesn't want any other girl but he does want them in bed with you!!!
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2nd Answer: B/c he's immature and more interested in hot sex than in you personally. He'd be just as happy to share some other woman besides you. E.g., if he met a woman on the bus who said she'd be interested in his 4-way, he'd tell you to wait at home for him. Young women feel certain that sex has something to do with love. Young men are equally certain that love and sex are separate and unrelated, like a watermelon and a bubble bath. You can have one or the other or both. It's a paradox.
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why did n't u ask????
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My opinion is if he cared about you, he would have discussed his sexual fantasies with you, ask you how you felt about it first, and not just expect you to do it.
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