I'm gay, but why are many people trying to get me to be bi? Do you think I should be bi?
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ANSWERS: 26
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Do what you want; don't listen to other people.
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I think you should be whatever feels right to you, don't let other people tell you how to live your life.
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They want you to be Bi cause they want you. You are who you are, don't try to change because they want you to.
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Why be persuaded by others? It's a very personal choice.
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Is this a trick question? You should "be" what ever you feel you were born to be.
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why are you asking other ppl what you should be? i dont want to be harsh, but you should be what YOU want to be!! Be yourself!!!!!! that is the best thing you can be, ALWAYS. :-) if ppl dont like you, then screw them... its better for ppl to hate you for what you are, then like you for what you are not.
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I think you should be whatever your inborn orientation is, whether that is straight, bi, or gay. Anyone who would tell you to be otherwise is wrong.
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be whoever you damn well please is what I say. :)
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you can be whatever you want to be. You want to be gay...go for it...if you want the best of both worlds...thats ok too...
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I can't believe you are asking that. It's like asking, should I be introverted when I'm an extrovert. You are what you are. How could our opinions have any importance or affect on your nature?
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I don't know why many people are trying to get you to be bi. I have no opinion on what you "should" be. Just be who you are.
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You should be what you want to be. Don't live your life for anyone else, especially at the expense of your happiness.
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You are who you are, and if you are gay than you are gay and you should be proud. You shouldn't be someone you are not.
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Contrary to the popular belief by some close-minded folks who think we have some "choice" in the matter, you can't be something that you are not. If you're straight, you can't become gay and vice versa. If you're not attracted to the opposite gender at all, you can't just "be" bi. I don't know who these people are that are trying to get you to change, but they obviously don't know a thing about those of us who are LGBT.
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If you know you are gay then you are gay. You are bi if you like both females and males, simple as that. Not because you choose to be, just are. I didn't choose to be gay. I was born that way. Everyone else is the same. The greatest struggle for me was being afraid of what people would think of me, i tried to like girls while secretly liking boys. That didn't work. There is no other option but the one that is truly yours. Anthing else is just a lie. Good Luck!!
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why don't you just be what you want and fuck what other people think. you shouldn't even ask this question. be your self.
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I don't know why people would do that.Maybe they have a crush?I think you should do what makes you happy.
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If you are not attracted to the opposite sex then you cant be bi even if you try! Be your self and love who your heart tell you to!
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To thine own self be true.
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Be you! you're gay! Whooooooo! :-)
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You've already answered your question. You said, "I'm gay.". That's your sexuality. You can't be bi unless you're attracted to women as well as men. You can't change your sexuality. Most Bi guys would rather stay closeted because it's a sexuality that's very easy to hide. Bi guys usually 'come out' only because they may find themselves attracted to more guys. These people trying to get you to be bi are pretty much trying to protect you from society. Some gay men come out as bisexual because they believe it's easier for society to accept them if they like women as well. You should be yourself.
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I can only tell you to do as you want and do not let others push you into something you really don't want to do. It usually is for a selfish motive either personal or based on their personal beliefs. Listen to yourself only. Do not let others make up your mind for you!!!!!
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I dont think you can decide to be bisexual. If your gay your gay and that cant be changed. You cant change it if you are bisexual and you cant change it if you are striaght. Sexual orientation is inbred.
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I am bi and I want to be gay. I think that being bi is like a curse because then you can't be totally happy with any one other person. I tried to be straight too and that didn't work out either.
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i think that you really cnt choose to be bi or gay. you are born that way. And if u are attracted to both sexes, you might be bi. It is your call.
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Please just be who you are....You live your life for yourself....who cares what "others" think
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