Is it fucked up that i like being degraded when im giving head? like once afterwards a guy shoved a plunger into my face til it knocked me out but i just took it and loved it. it doesnt feel unhealthy to me but i never know if im doing something bad

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• You should do what ever makes you feel happy/excited.... Your [sic] kinky and that's hot!
  
  No, it's NOT hot, you sick POS. The behavior you're encouraging is sick and unhealthy. Praising it is evidence that you are equally sick. Shame on you. Crawl back under your rock. You'll be happier living among your own kind.

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

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• Whatever turns you on is fine with you? Do you ever think before you type? Try it once, and see if anything breaks.

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

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• No, it's NOT good, you sicko.

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

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• Agreed. What is wrong with these sewer rats who praise this sick, unhealthy behavior?
  
  "As long as it duh, feels good, duh, go for it and have fun."

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

• Snowman, I knew you weren't all for sexual submission but I didn't know you were so militantly against it

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  by rebellious angel on May 23rd, 2012

• Yea, I came on strong, didn't I? LOL
  
  1. The questioner describes her partner simply as "a guy," implying that they have no serious relationship. From what you've told me, you and your bf have a committed, personal relationship. You know each other intimately and trust each other.
  
  2. The questioner implies that she has multiple partners. You are fiercely loyal, and you demand the same from your bf. This means you are much less likely to contract STDs.
  
  3. Your style of submissiveness is limited by implicit agreement. You trust him not to knock you unconscious, with a toilet plunger or any other instrument. B/c of your trust, you know that if you suffered any injury, your bf would whisk you straight to the hospital and stay with you until you were out of danger. This is a guess on my part. LOL
  
  I don't claim that I can distinguish harmful behavior from benign. I don't think I've chided any women simply for being submissive. I criticize risky behavior that results in STDs and unwanted pregnancies. I criticize opportunistic males eager to take advantage of susceptible girls.
  
  You & I have discussed this privately and you've persuaded me that you know what you're doing. But how would you compare your own behaviors with your bf with those of the questioner and her partners?

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  by Snowman on May 24th, 2012

• Yeah I understand it now. I'm glad you accept the extent of my
  deviation from the norm (the norm being no toys, several sex positions, and mild dirty talk such as "you like that, baby?"). Actually some days my bf and I just do the norm. But usually we love power play. Anyway, due to the asker's risky and dangerous fetish, I would suggest that she get a steady partner and have a safeword with him. I also hope she sanitizes the toilet plunger to death before having anything to do with it. Trust is paramount when it comes to kinky sex acts, and even for sex itself!

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  by rebellious angel on May 24th, 2012

• Yep, everything you said. Actually, upon reevaluation, considering your mutual commitment, trust, prudence, caution, salutary practices, and (dare I say it?) LOVE? LOL, I'm kicking you up a notch. I believe you should be rated "A". This places you within 1.0 SD of the norm! LOL As if I had any idea. bwahaha

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  by Snowman on May 24th, 2012

• Yeah true come to think of it, he and I are pretty damn normal lol. Spanking and face fucking isn't that big of a deviation probably

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  by rebellious angel on May 25th, 2012

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• Seriously, is that the best you can do?

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

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• But it DOES harm. Shame on you for encouraging sick behavior.

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  by Snowman on May 23rd, 2012

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• I'm not a fan of her plunger description thing either but does this mean you think my bf is a sicko for liking to face f*** me? I like it and I was the one who first asked him
  to do it. He goes at my pace and comfort level. I just like being dominated during sex for whatever reason. "equal" sex has seemed boring to me for some time now. Maybe i'm sick

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  by rebellious angel on May 23rd, 2012

• No, it's not female submissiveness in itself that bothers me. I was in a bad mood when I wrote the above. IMO, the questioner really does need therapy. But you and she are very different. I tried to explain in my comment to your other comment.
  
  I don't criticize the women who know what they like and enjoy limited submissiveness with a single bf they have learned to trust. You persuaded me many months ago, after all my questions, and I accepted and learned something. (Thanks)
  
  What grinds my gears is the slack-jawed yokels whose brains froze at a high school level, who indiscriminately praise any girl who puts herself at risk for their sadistic pleasure, w/o regard for her health. You and your bf are not in that category.
  
  I suspect that many of us enjoy activities that are one or two standard deviations from the norm. I don't even believe there IS a norm. E.g., I like to hang by my nose hairs from a high branch of a tall tree and jerk off onto the squirrels below. It glues their nuts to the tree. lol

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  by Snowman on May 24th, 2012

• Oh okay I understand now lol. Yeah I wouldn't be submissive with just anyone, let alone have sex with just anyone. So I hope the asker doesn't get herself into any health related trouble such as STD's

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  by rebellious angel on May 24th, 2012

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