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  • that sounds completely absurd. Insecure or not he's a jerk
  • I don't think so. Most insecure guys are so darn possesive, they would never want to be away from their girlfriend enough to have time for a second girl.
  • i dont think ur going crazy, i was in that kind of situation because the girl before that who i loved like crazy, literally just left me and started sleeping with my bro, so i can never rly trust a girl that i like cuz im afraid they're just fukin around with me till they can be w/someone else..i know what you're saying, but i learned my lesson not to do it however comforting it might seem, perhaps you could stop it b4 its bad
  • Yes i think this is very possible. The other girl isn't even as good as you are she would just be a rebound and if he's with her, he will probably be thinking about you. This kind of guy is just intensely afraid of getting hurt by you. Be careful because sometimes any little thing will make him think he has to jump out of the relationship because he's afraid you'll do something worse to him.
  • No... but thanks for the tip! Who wants to be my backup girl?? OK, true confession. All I have now is my kitty cat. So, who wants to be my backup kitty cat?? Send me your résumés! :)
  • Bad bad situation!!!!!! If I could see this guy in person I would take a rolled up newspaper and smack him on the head with it! When you have a backup...your expecting to use it...right? Which means you are expecting the worst. You can't live like that. In relationships, you are supposed to hope for the best. Sure, it might not work out. But if you truly care for the person, all of your effort should be going into the relationship at hand, not the backup one. You don't always have to be with someone. So what if it doesn't work out, be by yourself and figure out why it didn't work. Never use someone as a rebound. Someone always gets hurt.
  • it is very possible. Men cheat for all kinds of reasons....wait...not RAEL MEN but you get where i'm going with this one.
  • Yes, it's possible. However, it's unhealthy. This is a guy you should avoid like the plague.
  • Gosh...yes!!! Insecure guys or any insecure person in a relationship will keep their options open and befriend potential partners that aren't so 'choice'...It's easier to 'keep' a 'loser'...or someone who is 'weak'...so those insecure people will seek them out...Peace!
  • I don't think that's the entire reason that a guy would do this, but I suppose it is possible and it would be ONE reason. At any rate this person's girlfriend should just talk to him about it and if he refuses to date her exclusively while they are together then it should be ended....unless you're into that kinda thing ;}
  • That may sound like a reasonable excuse, but it is only a feeble excuse to try lending credence to a lie. Yes, you ARE kidding yourself .... and he is laughing up his sleeve at the joke - which is on you! Show him the door and get khim out of your life. Start looking for a man who doesn't use insecurity as an excuse for two-timing you. He'll likely have the qualities you deserve. Good luck and GOD bless!

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