I think this is a question you need to ask your BF not us.

It all depends on the rules of your relationship. If he's not OK with it, the relationship isn't going to survive, nor should it. Perhaps you should be asking yourself what you hope to get out of the other guys that you aren't getting from your guy and seeing whether that's something he can provide.

Probably not. Generally speaking if you are looking for something in another relationship then its on the way out. Also before being with someone else, you may find there are issues to process and healing to be done, otherwise you will just be rebounding.

If you are planning on doing this without an open honest conversation with your current bf then let me tell you that it would be kinder to just break up with him. As the recipient of this process, i can tell you that it hurts like hell, and destroys a persons self esteem to be disrespected and thought so little of that you overlapped. He had 3 other girls he was seeing while living with me and then when I found out, I came home one day and he had just moved away to one of the other girls. We had a relationship that I thought was moving forward, because he told me it was and nothing different; we had a business together and now I am not only crushed as a person, I had to run and find a source of income because the type of business we had centered around his skill, and I was the sales person/bookkeeper. This is dishonest, deceptive and disrespectful. You need to be upfront with him and risk not being able to keep him and others at the same time- you cant always have it all. To me this is cheating. Oh and my finace did not have sex with the other girls either- they were all online and telephone sex interactions- until he moved in with one of them.

Relationships are meant to be both emotionally and physically exclusive. If the two of you need to date other people in order to figure out if you want to be together - then you should not be together.

There's a word for someone who dates others while stringing a partner along, but I'm too much of a gentleman to list it here. No, if your boyfriend has any wits about him, this relationship will not survive. Rightfully so.

Sure...just as long as he gets to date all the women he wants.

You don't have a "relationship" if you want to date other men. Even if you're able to be sexually faithful, you will be having emotional affairs. He needs to know your feelings and what you want to do and needs to be allowed to date others too or decide for himself to end your relationship. Good luck! :)

What would be the point of maintaining a relationship if you are dating other guys??

I'm sorry but what you have in mind is extraordinarily selfish. If you are going to play around with people you should at least let them know what you are doing.

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Do I think your "relationship" will survive that? You are disgusting.

Think of how this would feel if the tables were turned and he was dating other women as an alternative. I wouldn't realistically be able to handle this. What are the guys you casually date going to think about this? Will they be hurt and angry that you're leading them on? What's going on in your relationship that you need to see other guys? Do you think that maybe you and your "guy" should take a break while you're going through this? I think this is dangerous territory you are entering into. A lot of people could be unnecissarily hurt.

hell no!!! you are going to getburned on this one and maybe deservingly so just a thought

women! always looking over the fence