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  • I heard that if you care for someone but you don't really like them anymore in that way and you want to break up. Instead of hurting you, they will say a that it's their fault that you can't stay with them. It's me who has the problem. Maybe that's what he's doing to you.
  • i would give it a try, if he doesn't feel it is working for him then at least you gave it a go, and you both can move on.
  • i would move on, he's proven that he's untrustworthy, and chances are, he'll just do it again. at least give yourself a couple of months to cool off, clear your head, and think about what you truly want...is this guys really worth all of the fights and uncertainty?
  • Why would you ever even consider going back with someone who cheats on you? You are right for not trusting him and he does not deserve another chance! Move on!
  • move on honey, a lepard cant change his spots
  • I'd say move on there is always better, i mean once he says he doesnt want you anymore it might be true there is a reason he cheated on you before. It is very rare for anyone to fall back inlove with someone again.
  • Pesonally move on sweety, once a Cheater always a Cheater, trust me.. I learned that by my own experience, and besides it will be hard to trust someone that has done you wrong, I dont really think is worth giving it another chance, is hard to move on but i t will be the best choice you can take...
  • I would suggest that you move on because he told you out of his own mouth that he cannot be trusted.
  • Move on, he cheated on you, you guys fight, it's only been three months. Relationships should be fun, not overly dramatic. There are plenty more out there.
  • Let me get this straight. A)He cheated on YOU B)He doesn't like the fact that you can't trust him because he cheated on YOU. and C)He doesn't like the fact that you guys argue alot, which IS normal in relationships. Why would you want a dumb guy? Move on. Don't waste your time.
  • From a mans perspective thats been married 14 years. Move on..If hes cheated before he will do again. As for the future the biggest reason a man cheats is because he is not satisfied in the bedroom. Take care of eachother sexually then the thought of cheating wont be there.
  • If HE thinks you can't trust him, obviously you can't because he can't even trust himself! Break up with him
  • he cheated and you want him back because you love him. are you a glutton for punishment? do you like being treated as less then your worth? if yes, then try to get him back. if you want a man that will respect you and treat you the way you deserve then move on.
  • HE knows that YOU can't trust him? Oh, no no nono no. Wrong, and wrong and WRONG. The WRONG bell is ringing loud. You can certainly trust him . . . . . to cheat again. Youall always fight and you love him? Can you spell dysfunctional? The most insidiously dangerous thing about him is that he's playing head games with you and with himself as well. And he probably doesn't even know it. Unless you're a hopeless masochist, girl, Move on. Now!
  • move on. your relationship MIGHT become "healthy" through years of work but it WILL always remain scared. you can have a much better relationship for less effort elsewhere.
  • move on girl if he cant help you move on and trust him after he hurt you then you dont need him he need to man up and res your feelings hit the road
  • Love after 3 months... doll he cheated on you... move on. there are PLENTY more nice guys out there. 3 months and he cheated... go about with your life and dont sweat it. odds are he is making an excuse for you to break up with him by him telling you that you dont trust him.
  • Move on hun. It's really nice that he is being honest with you and all, but he did cheat on you and is likely to do it again if he knows you forgave him this once. Save yourself the trouble and find yourself a guy who will be with you and not think about hurting you by cheating on you K.
  • Break it off and don't look back
  • move on
  • After 3 months you already have had cheating and mistrust. I don't see much hope for a true, mature, committed relationship at this point. Move on.
  • yeh thats odd. 3 months an he cheated on you... leave him 3 months and you love him... no you dont leave him. forget him. he really isnt worth your time.
  • he admits he cheated on you and you always fight. that is no relationship. i don't know how so many girls can have stories like your and say they still love the guy. maybe you do love him, but for your own good move on.
  • i agree with all these people. i went threw something just like this and when i moved on i felt SOOOO much better about everything like my eyes were finaly opened and i could see it was his lose not mine.....move on
  • That guy is a douche bag! Be careful you may end up with another one and another one and so on... Than you become one of those people who get all douche bags. Do you want that? Its a great self esteem killer.
  • Usually when a guy says, "You cant trust me, im a cheater.." he just wants to be rid of you. You dont need him, sooner or later hes gonna figure out that, like eveyrone here says, he is a douche bag and should have treated you better. Find someone who wouldnt even thing about harming you. it may take time, but they are out there. good luck!
  • doesnt matter if you want him...sounds to me like he is done with you....move on.
  • He cheated on you?! Move on, sweets. That boy is bad news. Judging by the fact this is in the teenage relationships section, I'm guessing you're still fairly young. I'm 17 so I know how you feel. My ex cheated on me 3 times but i stayed with him because I thought I loved him. Eventually I just broke up with him. And it didn't even hurt me. Just remember he doesn't love you if he's going round with other girls. And there's wayyyy better guys out there.
  • He cheated on you. You fight constantly. What's to stay for? You deserve better.

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