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Why should women work? Why the hell shouldn't they?

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Sleeping when stressed? Yoga

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Do you think the iPad idea is stupid? Why or why not? I think the concept is cool, but the name could be better. Too easy to call it the Max-i Pad. :)

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What annoys you about when your ex contacts you? That he wants to hang out with me and tells me he isn't doing well. I feel like he tries to manipulate me.

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How would you feel about a person who had sex with your brother or sister after he or she had sex with you? Not good. But then again, I am straight and I only have two brothers.

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Why can't I have sex? You mean you can't at all or there's no one you want to have it with?

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How would you feel if a lot of people deleted you from Facebook around the same time? Do you really care about these people? Are they important to you? If yes, why?

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Why is there a pair of underwear on your head? I lost my hat, it's COLD here in Canada, k?

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Do you believe that there are "alpha males". . and do you think, you can be one of them by purchasing and watching their instructional videos? .. If you're not joking, try love yourself for who you are.

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Who is more loyal? man or woman? The ratio is reported to be 60:40 men to women that cheat in marriages.

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Do all men cheat? It feels like it to me sometimes... with all the temptations out there... strip clubs, internet porn, escort services, flirtatious co-workers, etc. it seems like most guys have some sort of sexual vice. The vast majority do.

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Do you want someone to love you, or do you need someone to love you (or neither)? Neither right now! But I am sure I will want it at some point again soon.

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Why do people ask questions they don't want to know the answers for? Like what?

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I can swallow a banana whole, should i be proud of myself? Yes. That's hilarious.

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My boyfriend is constantly hitting me in a playful manner and sometimes throwing things at me. Should I be worried about him being phsically abusive in the future? He does have a bad temper but has never hit me with the intention to hurt me. Yes, I would be worried. Plus you are already making excuses for him. I'd leave now before it gets harder to do so.

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Somebody call the cops!...I just saw an answerbagger_________on main street! whose computer broke down and won't stop asking random people questions about their relationships

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We all have multiple acquaintances. How many trustworthy, bonafide, intimate friends do you have? Aside from my family, 3.

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I recently split up with my boyfriend, And although i've moved on and i'm kind of seeing other people, why do I still feel like he shouldn't move on? I know it's selfish and wrong, but i can't help feeling it, why? Funny, I am in the same situation. And I am still seeing him (but casually). Because it is hard to cut off ties and feelings when you have cared about someone very deeply.

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What is the reason that arranged marriages supposedly have less divorce than the typical "I fell in love with this person so I'm going to marry them"-type marriage? Perhaps a better measure would be a one of happiness. It may be less acceptable to the families to divorce in arranged marriages.

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If you could, would you "sleep your way to the top" or have sex to get better grades? If yes which one. Never. Love learning and respect myself too much.

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I met a guy on phone chatline,and we've been talking for about 3 months. We haven't seen each other face-to-face or pictures due to him not having a computer. He's 24 and I'm 19.He's paying for a planeticket to Texas for me to seehim.Should I go?ILovEHim I think you should get a picture. Also, do you have family/friends there that you can stay with and they can watch out for you? I know it is easy to get wrapped up in things, but your life and safety are more important than any person you haven't met yet. How do you know he is not a 55 year old pedofile who is going to torture and rape you? What proof do you have that he is who...

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Are you younger or older than you look? I still get IDed sometimes. People always guess younger. It's always been that way, I was the only one of my friends who would get IDed when we were trying to get into the bars when I was under age. I guess it wasn't a bad thing in the long run!

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I have been slacking off when it's come to my school work. Can some one please give me ten reasons on wy I should get my a$$ in gear? PLEASE HELP TEST ON TUESDAY!!! Because you can fart around whenever you like, but you only have one chance on this test.

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Is there anyone you can't get out of your head, even though you're 99% sure you'll never see them again? There have been several times. Sometimes someone would stick in my head for years. But they always fade with time or are replaced by another. They still crop up every now and then, but the longing is not as strong.

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Do you think I'm pretty? I know its stupid for a 23yr old to ask, but growing up I was teased for how I looked & now I got glasses, which didn't help my self-confidence. Please, no stupidity answers, honestly. Are you an adult or a four year old child? You are pretty. You aren't a supermodel, but would you want to be? The people you meet will enjoy you for your looks and personality and your personality will make you more beautiful. Smile, be positive and the person you are and everyone will think you are beautiful. I am a woman in my 30s.

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Why'd you have to go and make things so complicated? Because things aren't always so simple.

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When you buy wine, are you buying a bottle, a jug, or does it come in a box? I'd buy two. And they'd be jugs. Then I'd look in the mirror and say "Nice jugs Suze." Then I'd walk around with a strut all night. But seriously, always bottles.

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I can't decide between the cute christian girl and the hot party girl. Being a Christian myself I lean a little towards the Christian girl but she is almost too nice. Which is a better choice? I would recommend going for the one that you can see yourself being happier with. That easy. But I don't judge people based on how religious they are.

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I am a 14-year-old Goth girl with Asperger's. I'm desperate for a guy. I feel really out of place sometimes. All the kids at my school think I'm weird and annoying. I have very few friends, and the ones I have are either older or younger. Any advice? I didn't know what Asperger's was, so I looked it up. So, I don't think you should avoid being social. What you are learning though, is a lesson I would have liked to learn much earlier. Having a few friends that will stick by you is much better than a lot of friends that are fairweather and don't really care about you too much. Be social, have fun, but most importantly,...

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Do you think that many people who divorce later regret this and wish they were still together? I've always been happy about my decision.

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Would you date an eccentric person? Absolutely!

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What kind of people do you not like running into at parties? Why? Men who won't leave me alone after they know I am not interested. People who are cruel or rude to anyone else.

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How would it make you feel when your partner slept with a pacifier? I don't think I could be with someone like that, so it would be over quickly

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What never fails to put you in a good mood? Getting some good exercise

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If a clown ran up to you, what would you do? How scary is he? And do I know him?

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I am motivated most by___________________? My supervisor telling me he wants things done.

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Do you still vaguely think that special someone out there will come by some day and sweep you off your feet? I do. But only vaguely.

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Are fears of rising sea levels from global warming overstated? No.

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When was the last time you smiled at a stranger? I'm quite sure every day!

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Questions about ex's. Do you think that all the people asking questions about their previous relationships are interested because they have children together, can't let go, or just can't plain move forward? I ask them because I am trying to move forward. They help me move forward. People tell me what I need to hear - and by that I mean keep walking and be strong.

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Which are you: the Princess, the Athlete, the Brain, the Criminal, or the Basket case? The princess, the athelete, the brain, and occasionally the basket case.

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My husband lend me his truck because my broke down , i was looking for a cd and i found some condoms. We never used condoms it was a surprise to me. this never happened before. Do you think his cheating on me. Yes, I do. You'll need more proof before confronting him - he will just lie his way out of it. Did you check the expiry date? One option is that they are really old and he isn't cheating.

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Why do some members have COAT in their name? Sorry, just realised this was already asked!

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I need help. I've lived with my girl for about a year and asked her to marry me. I think I made a wrong move. We've been fighting a lot since we moved in together, and I want to break up with her. How should I do it? The most important thing is that you do the right thing for the two of you. First, no relationship is easy. Do you want to break up (A) only because you are fighting or (B) because you have fundamental differences in values and simply cannot be happy? If you answered B AND you are sure you do not want to be with this person, this means you should end it before it goes any further and...

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Are you an AB troll? No, how about yourself?

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What proof is there that marijuana is bad for you? It depends on what you mean by 'bad'. Loss of short term memory, being slightly dazed, lack of motivation, and munchies are pretty common side effects. More serious health issues could include lung problems (if the person is chronic). In actuality, other than the last, there isn't really any serious side effects. Considering what alcoholism can do to some people, it might be...

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A lot of people on here seem to think that you should give your partner access to all of your personal things (e-mail, cell phone, etc). Am I the only one on here who thinks this is a stupid idea? I agree with you LL. I do think that if there is a lack of trust, for a good reason, then it can be acceptable.

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Have your supervisors/bosses generally been helpful and supportive or have they mostly just been bossy? Sometimes when people are given authority over others they get a bit pompous and, well, pushy. How would you rate your supervisors/bosses? Most of my supervisors have not been good. On occaision, like right now, I have been lucky. My current supervisor is really great to work with. He doesn't always have much time, but he really helps me and gives me great direction.

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How do u make an older guy like you? How much older and how old are you?

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In your family/friends circle, are there different roles/jobs? You know..the Advisor, the Jokester, the Problem-Solver, the Serious One? Which role is yours? I am the Organizer and Problem Solver. But sometimes it gets very tiring, so then I become the Slacker and occaisionally the Delegator.

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My boyfriend had a wet dream while we where in bed together and he got very embarassed by this and explained to me he was thinking of me... but my guy mate says he a liar he just covering himself what u guys think? Don't over-think it. I wouldn't even mention something like that to a friend. Seems like a non-issue. I'd forget about it and move on.

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Have you ever been or are you currently racked with guilt and shame before, during, and/or after sex? What helped you? No, I haven't felt like that before.

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True of False, have you ever been to Mcdonalds on a date? When I was 16. We went for coffee. He turned out to be my boyfriend for a year.

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Do you tend to doubt yourself a lot? I used to, but not so much anymore.

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What are you most likely to say in November? "It's getting cold... Brrr.." "Yay, Snow!" "Let's go to the mountains"

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Do you like risotto? Love it, but only when it is done well (which is rare).

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By having hot sex, does it di-stress you after a hard day at work? Do you sleep better because of it.. Yes and yes.

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I fell in love with someone and they break up with me once, and she comes back to me, she broke up with me again today and that night she calls me trying to mend what she did wrong. I did nothing to provoke either of them but why do i go back to her? If you really love her, sometimes we can't help ourselves. How does she exaplin her behaviour? It sounds like she is either messing with your head or looking for attention. Either way, it does not look that great for your relationship! There may be better reasons not to go back with her.

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In your area, which of these are "smoke free"? Your Home? Your Vehicle? Your Town? Your State? My home and I don't own a vehicle

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State whether you are male or female and if you want to get married or not. Why or why not? I am female, divorced. I would like to find a man to share life with, but it doesn't have to be a through a legal marriage (though the parties are fun). Why - I enjoy sharing my life with someone I love and I would like to have a family at some point. I think it is a very cool, different time in life that I look forward to, but not in the near future.

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You think you're doing just fine until someone comes along and points out to you how lousy your life really is! So...do you believe 'em or ignore/dump 'em? Ignore/dump them.

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If someone you knew was getting ready to enter into a new romantic relationship and ask for your advice, what advice would you give? If they asked for advice, I would recommend they take their time. It takes a while to know someone, so they should take care of themselves while deciding whether or not they want this person to be their lifelong partner.

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Ladies how many pairs of shoes have you got? About 30 pairs of shoes. Mostly heels (incl heeled sandals), about 5 pairs of sneakers, 4 pairs of various sports shoes, 2 pairs of very good flip flops, and 3 pairs of boots.

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How come we don't have a Einstein / Edison/ Tesla/ Curie/ Newton in our time? Has all the great/ important/ useful discoveries and inventions been made already?... or what? The newest groundbreaking scientists are still in the making. You never get a full grasp of their discoveries and knowledge until after their life is over.

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Is it unhealthy to socialize with no one but your girlfriend? Yep. Even if you socialize with other people together, that's at least a start.

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What do you think about sexless marriages? Boring? Or about to end? Mind you, I'm only in my 30s and the only time my first marriage was sexless was when it was ending. I'm sure there are many different situations where it could be different.

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Is it really possible to be "just friends" with an ex? I think yes, but it is a rare occaision.

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Do you have a firm fanny, a flabby fanny, a fat fanny, a bubble butt, a big butt, a round rump, or a dismal derriere? Firm butt... Carefully avoiding the term fanny!

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I just asked a girl if she has free time on sat, or sun and she said she has to study. she didn't even ask me what i was going to ask her, should i give up? i like her but yeah... i was going to ask her to see a movie with me I would ask again. I still sometimes have to work the weekend and I definitely used to have times when I had to study over the weekend. She might have not asked because she is stressed. I would try again (once), then leave it up to her. BTW, if you can think of a unique way to ask her, that will help.

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What is your gender and which gender do you understand better? I'm a woman but I more generally understand men better. Never know though, people continuously surprise me, regardless of gender.

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Poll: For you personally: Is wieght ( fat, skinny...) a factor in determining friendships? Disclaimer: We are look for factual answers only, not emotional. A yes, no, or maybe alone would help us in tallying the results. Thankyou! No. It can mean that the activities we would do are limited if a person is overweight and unfit - I am very active and love outdoors activities (mountaineering, sports, some extreme sports). This would also apply for unfit people who are skinny.

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When is the wrong time to kiss :) After you found out you have mono, or H1N1

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What do you think Jesus looked like? A pot smoking hippie.

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We keep having debates about spanking children. How about spanking parents? Parents bring unneeded children into the world, subject us to their selfish refusal to properly rear them, and the result is another generation of fat, unproductive suburbanites. Hahaha, I agree. All parents need a good spanking.

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Do you thinks its possible to really really like a guy the first time you meet them, as in like head over heals!! you cant stop thinking about them and it drives you mental? Yes, and I think it is wonderful when it happens (especially if reciprocated).

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3x-r=r(-3+x) I would say, to solve for x: 3x-r=r(-3+x) 3x-r=-3r+rx 3x-rx=-2r x(3-r)=-2r x=-2r/(3-r)=2r/(r-3) The above answer divides rx by rx to give 0, but it should really be 1. Corrections welcome.

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Would you listen to George W. Bush as a motivational speaker? I avoid listening to him about anything, his voice and presence would annoy me. And I'm sure that's nothing compared to what he would say.

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How much does it matter what people think of you? Only if the person matters.

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What punishment should cheating husbands receive? In my opinion, the loss of respect from all of the people they care about. But that does not always happen.

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What are lip plumpers? The ones I know are lip glosses that are really shiny and when you put them on, your lips tingle all weird and chemicals make them 'plumper'. They were quite popular some time ago, but they always freked me out.

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Do you feel the economic expansion? Only when I feel the wallets of rich bankers.

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If your pet suddenly talked and asked for a beer, what would you say? "No way Dude, we shoulda started drinking together years ago!" I may have already answered this question, but it is so good...

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If a man buy diamonds do you or would you fell obligated to repay him in other ways? What, like giving him a blow job? Fuck no. I would only take an expensive gift from someone very close to me. I try my best to only let people who I can respect close to me and I strongly dislike and disrespect any man who would treat a lady like a prostitute.

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Does anyone know of any inexpensive date ideas that get both you and your s/o out of the house? I'd like there to be some interacting going on too, so probably not the movie theaters. Frisbee, go for a walk, museum, go for vietnamese, join a class together (dancing or cooking or something) - it won't cost as much per date.

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Ive been heartbroken for 2 years...and still have moments where i cry about it like it was yesterday....how do i heal? I am also very sorry to hear you are hurting. To answer your question, can you answer this one: What upsets you most about it? Do you have a regret or were you badly hurt? And please explain.

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How do you help someone that is depressed and incapable of motivating them-self? I have a good friend that was recently diagnosed as depressed. I encouraged her to go see someone about it. They first put her on anti-depressants, but she said eff that. Now she is doing great, I haven't seen her doing this well in years. Which is really cool because she is really important to me.

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What is something that people have two(2) of? Butt cheeks

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What would you think if your first love called you and asked to marry him/her then never called you again until 4 months later and said they wanted to come out and visit you, and since then 3 days went by and you havent heard from them? I would think that they have shown themselves to be very inconsistent and that is a sign that they would be a terrible spouse. Then I would be thankful I had enough sense to stay far, far away.

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What do you think about women who only date married men? They are home wrecking whores with no morals.

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How old was you when you had your first romantic kiss??How did it feel? I was 14 and I thought it was disgusting. I was so grossed out by another tongue being in my mouth. Sometime later on, I discovered I actually liked it!

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WHY MUST PEOPLE BE SO CRUEL TO STEREOTYPES LIKE "EMO"!!??? seriously!! uggghhh! I'm getting old. What's an emo?

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What are the common mistakes people make on a first date? Talking about political views, exes, anything overly controversial where you may have completely opposing views, pushing a woman too much to come over/sleep with them too early (if they don't want too/aren't sure), staring at a woman's breasts, being too needy, trying to make too many plans (give space)....

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Im on the verge of tears, Do you have anything that can cheer me up? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2BgjH_CtIA

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Ladies how would you react if a man told you he left his wife for you? I would imagine that I would have been the 'other woman' first, which I would never be. If he had fallen in love with me wihout any cheating and left his wife, I would tell him he would have to live on his own and be strong on his own for some time first. I would not dive into anything like that. Just seems wrong.

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What would you do if you found a condom in your teen's bedroom? Be happy they are safe(r).

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Should a daughter tell her mother by email that she is pregnant when she is happily married and a good career? Why not? Perhaps you could break the ice by calling to congratulate her in this wonderful time in her life. It seems like a time to focus on the news rather than the method of communicating.

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Do you get obsessive when you are in a relationship? I tend to think about someone I am falling in love with quite often. Then it seems to reach an equilibrium. However, I don't get obsessed about wanting to be with them all the time. I think everyone needs space (incl me).

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Has your ex ever hurt you again after the relationship was over? Not yet, but I am sure he will.

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I always fall into the dating pattern of ditching the "nice guy" and going for the "bad guy" even though i know it wont become a serious relationship. What can I do to change this? Recognizing a problem is the first step to solving it.

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What would you do if your "best friend" slept with your ex and she knew that you weren't over him yet? I would look for friends who have values similar to yours. Me and my friends generally think cross-dating is not acceptable. If you don't want to give her up as a friend, talk with her and tell her that it bothered you. If she is a good friend, she will be upset she hurt you. Take some time to think about what you'll say first though, these situations can be sticky.

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My boss thinks she's so awesome because she doesn't capitalize any letters in her emails. like this. what kind of megalomaniac is she? Does she actually say "I'm so awesome because I don't capitalize letters?"

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Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered where your life took such a big change? Not yet, but I might now! ;)

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Could we all use more common sense? I'd take some :)

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Is there really other "fish" in the sea? Honestly? Cause I'm so scared of being alone forever. lol Even though i'm only 18. Im already nervous about my future... There sure is! In fact, there are plenty. The thing is, many people end up lonely in marriages. So, take your time finding a fish who you will be happy with, for a long time. A little bit of loneliness now is worth happiness for your life. Plus, try to enjoy your time alone - it can be really nice. Read, think, enjoy friends and family, learn, etc...

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Have you ever asked a question on here and thought to yourself "I'm gonna get so many answers on this one" and then you ask the question and wind up feeling like a dork because no one responds? Lol I have!! I think it is interesting, and I am often suprised. Sometimes I wonder if it is just who is online while it is a new question that matters. Then other times, a question that I asked a long time ago gets a bunch of answers. I guess it depends when it is displayed on the first page of questions? What determines that anyways?

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Can i forgive my husband of 25 years for having an affair The tough thing is, only you can answer that. Should you? Well, probably not. Will you? Yet to be seen, but if you do, be prepared for a lot of work - couples counseling will probably help.

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Can anyone give me advice, and tell me if im a jerk? Read my answer for the story, Thanks in advance Sure, what did you do?

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Your blind date shows up & is perfect until you find out _______? He's also dating one of my friends.

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Would you invite a politician to your barbeque? Not before an election, I would be wary of shameless self promotion (unless they were already my friend). Otherwise, yes.

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What would cause a person to start drinking heavily after a breakup, even though he or she found someone else? Keep in mind, this person used to be against drinking. What do you mean by heavily?

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My girlfriend is starting to be friends with her ex, she hung out with him and some of his friends today, he kept trying to hug her in front of them, she didn't want any of it, she told him to stop, but he wouldn't stop trying. What can I do about this? You should talk with him about it. But in all honesty, this whole situation sets off alarm bells. I would recommend walking.

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How do you get rid of negativity? If it is outside of you, ignore it. If it is inside of you, think about all of the good things in life, like family, friends, laughing, books, music, movies, whatever you enjoy. Sometimes helps to think about a memory of when you were really happy with friends/family.

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Have you ever literally compared apples to oranges? If so, what were your findings? I might like oranges better if they are really good and sweet or if I am getting sick. I love macintosh apples and prefer them to oranges most of the time. Macintoshes seem to be a consistent fruit, unlike oranges where you can be surprised from time to time by bitterness or too many seeds.

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Would you rather have a butt fart or a mind fart? It depends... where am I and what mood am I in?

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What are you in the mood for, a ride on the ferris wheel, the upside down roller coaster, or the festive merry go around? How about finding the beer tent?

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Do nice guys always finish last with women? There's a time in high school/early college where I think they sometimes (but not always) finish last. But as women mature and realize what they want in life, nice guys finish way ahead of the game.

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Why do people obsess over people they can't have? Because they are too immature/anxious to realise that it is the obsession that will turn the person off. Also, they don't own the fact that if it's not happening, there are plenty of more interesting people out there. So, why spend your time thinking about someone who doesn't really matter?

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Do you believe in "Lust at first Leer?" I believe it can happen, but it doesn't have to be so. Sometimes, it just takes a well placed comment to generate lust for me and this can come from someone I didn't realize I was attracted to.

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Do you think it's weird when guys wear eyeliner? Yes, except for when Shannon Hoon and other rock stars did/do it...

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Questions that aren't phrased as questions bother you? Do answers phrased as questions bother you, especially when they don't answer the original question? :)

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What is one thing you should do before your first date with someone? Brush your teeth

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How many people have you kissed passionately? I dunno, maybe 10 with honest passion, about 5 really passionately. There were others with some mild passion, but really, it takes a very interesting man and some good chemistry for me to really want to. Great question!

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_________________ sandwich. (fill in the blank ?) Navy beans, navy beans, meatloaf

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_________________ sandwich. (fill in the blank ?) Wanna knuckle

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He says he needs space to be happy after i cheated what does this mean and what do i do? I just said the same thing to my cheating ex. For me, the deal is: the cheating essentially ruined my perception of him by destroying my respect for him and trust in him. I want to be happy on my own again. If he is worth anything, he'll wait. But he might have to wait a while. And he might never be my boyfriend again because he would really have to prove himself. Also, if I stayed...

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Is life fair? Do we get what we deserve? I have been shown again that life is not fair. It is more a series of cirmcumstances, some good and some bad. I'd like to believe though, that what goes around comes around. It just seems that ways sometimes.

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Has anyone here ever walked away from the person they loved because they knew it had to be that way? Yes. He cheated, I walked. Hardest thing I have ever done because I loved him very much.

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I'm about to date someone i really like and he likes me back, however he told me that he likes me and all but we have to hang out and see if the chemistry works. I totally agree with him but I'm afraid I'll ruin it. What can I do? Wow, nothing like some pressure. First, I agree with the other answers that you have to see for yourself too. I'd be initially taken aback that he would actually say that - isn't that what 'dating' is for? Does it even need to be stated? I mean, you don't jump from one date to marriage. Take your time and see if your initial infatuation was only that. In all honesty,...

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What woud you consider as a fundamental flaw in a person? How about spelling 'Would' wrong in an AB question?

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Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't eat this entire pint of Ben & Jerry's? Because you should give me a scoop?

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Have you ever Worked with a Married Person who was having an Office Affair? Oh my, reading these answers makes me sad. There seems to be such a small fraction of people with good morals and strength of character these days.

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Is it easy to stay friend with you ex In my experience, no. It is generally better to cut all ties. I am trying to be friends with my recent ex, and it is making everything much more difficult. Maybe after time passes?

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Have you ever been cheated on? did you get revenge? Yes and sort of. I think that being with someone else shortly after will just mess with your head even more. To be honest, I think happiness is the best revenge. So that would mean healing, being as good of a person as you can be, being happy with yourself, then moving on.

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Is there a term between "boyfriend" and "fiance"? I am beyond the dating (bf/gf stage) and not yet engaged? There has to be a term in between! Ah, why does it matter? It is just a label. The love you two have for eachother is most important.

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Ladies: If I cancelled a date with you when I came to pick you up, how would you react? How could I apologize? I would likely be pissed off, but it may depend on a couple of factors. What is your reason (e.g. was it a death or sickness in the family, pet run over, work emergency or just a football game)? Do you sincerely feel bad? Why didn't you let me know sooner (before I got ready)? It would also help (hate to say it) if the guy brought something to make me feel better, e.g. flowers, a...

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Do you have your "least" favorite sibling I have two older siblings that I love very much and very equally. They also both irritate me equally, which I am sure I also do for them!

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Who wants a hug? I'd love one, thank you!

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My wife cheated, told two other men she loved them, then came back to me an said she made a huge mistake. We have a child, and want to believe her, but its tough to. She is two months preg and not sure its mine. Should I take her back or run like hell. Run like hell, sounds like heartache and STDs. Be strong and give your child the chance to grow up in a stable home.

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Do you dance even when you're alone? Yes. And sometimes I sing into a broom handle. Or play broom guitar. And jump on every couch and bed in my house.

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When life becomes to much to handle how do you handle it? Take time to treat yourself to something nice. Do your favourite thing, eat your favourite meal. Do some yoga. Hang out with friends. If you feel alone, do something to meet people, like volunteer.

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If a guy likes a girl, but the girl's friend was interested in him... and the girl's friend called him: how would that guy respond? Would he think the girl didn't mind her friend calling him--meaning she doesn't like him? If they are really good friends, the girl you actually like may not want to hurt her friendship over you. I'd either hang out with the other girl and see if it goes anywhere or back off altogether for a little while then go for the girl you like.

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How can I get to know a girl that lives a coupleblocks from me? Every idea I have might come off as creepy. (She's new in the neighborhood). Since we're not actually neighbors, it's hard. Have an Ultimate Frisbee match and tell her you need players.

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Why do i talk to my Mom all she does is bring me down..:( My Mom is just terrible with advice or helping you out if you are down. I just focus on her more positive attributes and talk to others if things are bad. Moms are human too, so they aren't perfect!

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You're a guy: How do you get a 'hard to get' female to go out with you?:) Thank you All:) Become close with her as friends. Then start doing special things, make yourself different. I'd also follow Gustav's great advice - as long as you are being real and truthful. Otherwise it is unfair to her.

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Why do i keep dating losers? We must be dating the same guys! Kidding. It happens, just try to learn from every time so that your decisions keep getting better.

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Girls, admit that you like guys with big egos, In my experiences its so easy to pick up girls when ur confident and cocky.My friends say I have huge ego. But i hate when girls deny that they hate big egos and personalities.You all love it..girls..thoughts I love healthy confidence. I hate big egos, I would never date a guy with a huge ego! I need someone who can love me and not only himself.

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If we woke up in bed together tomorrow morning, what three words would you say to me? Who are you?

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I had a great conversation most of the day Sat with a girl I met a month ago. We sent text messages all day. I also sent her some Sun. She does not respond to all of them. Should this concern me? No, make sure to give her some space. And don't worry about the details.

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I met this guy and im interested in him, and he thinks im hot which is good, but he is quite popular with girls, but hes not a player. I dont want to be just another girl throwing myself at him, so how should i act with him? Play it cool. Just hang out with him and get to know him as a person. If he is interested he will let you know. Let him chase you a little. Non-chalence is key. Worst case, you make a new friend.

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When you get really bad news who is the first "ab" friend you share the news with? I would probably ask a related question - so everyone? Indirectly that is.

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Is that an AB member you enjoyed who is no longer here? Who and do you know why? I wish PolyMath would come back. I miss his questions. I miss Go Know Thyself. She was always really funny.

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What do you like best about your dad? That he is one of my best friends.

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The girl i used to be in love with is back in town. I am almost over her. Should i go see her or avoid her? Depends - do you hope you can still be back with her? If you do and you think it is possible, then go see her so that you know. If yes and you don't think it can work, don't go see her - you may just be torturing yourself. If you absolutely do NOT want to be with her, but you care for her as a friend, sure why not?

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If a man told me he wants to take me on a date (but not asking to go... yet?) does he like me? I would say yes. It sounds like he wanted to see your reaction. I would expect to be asked real soon.

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When I attended a convention here in Las Vegas NV recently, I saw a huge table in the main hall with food on it, & a sign that read, "Free Reuben Sandwiches!" I was unaware that Reuben Sandwiches was in prison. Of what was he convicted? He was guilty of Reuben the bank, now he's Sandwiched in a cell with a couple of other thieves.

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Are tired drivers as dangerous as drunk drivers? Most definitely.

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Question for fb users- do you tend to write on 'walls' a lot? I have a fb but i don't tend to do it a lot because of little privacy and becuse it sucks out too much of your time so i mainly use the wall for wishing birthdays. What about you? I do write on walls, but I don't divulge anything that I would prefer to keep private.

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I_____________You. choo-choo-choose

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How do I break up with someone I live with (and share rent) AND work with??? You need to do it with kind words. Do they have any idea? Why are you ending it?

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I am sorry I didn't hear you what did you say? I said "Let's go somewhere else it is too loud in here!"

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What are the most important qualities you would want to find in a man? Honest, faithful, kind, good sense of humour, gets along well with my friends.

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What is the "current" word for great ? as in that would be super, killer, groovy and all kinds of catchy words. (i dated for point of reference 9.09) Awesome, sweet, fabulous (made more popular by Sex and the City), rad.

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Do all the self-help books geared towards reminding one of the dangers of finding Mr. or Ms. Wrong make people second guess every romantic spark that ignites? Is this a good thing? Why or why not? I would say it probably helps in making people second guess. Is that a good thing? For some, yes, because they may fall to easily in love without thinking it through. For others, no, because they may over-analyze everything and make judgments too easily.

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How much is too much information on a first date? Anything about exes, politics, or controversial debates.

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Why do you think cheating on a significant other is so unforgivable? Even people who love each other with all their hearts can make that mistake once. Because the deception hurts that bad.

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What do you do when people around you are trying to pull you down with them and others constantly try and create gossip about you - and you can't seem to avoid them as they live in the same city as me where I keep running in to them allllllll the time! Focus on the good people and things in your life. Tell anyone who tells you the gossip not to do so anymore because you don't have the time for their pettiness.

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What is the biggest mistake you have seen your best friend make? Cheat on a really good guy. He dumped her in the end and she deserved it.

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How do you walk away from an argument instead of losing your temper? Just think about the consequences. It is obvious you don't want to lose your temper, so concentrate on your reason. It may also help to 'time out' the person you are arguing with, take a deep breath, and then try to start the conversation all over again. You may want to talk with the other person at a time when you are not arguing so you can set these ground rules.

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Do you have any sympathy for a friend who gets dumped after being caught cheating? I wish I didn't but I feel bad for my ex that I dumped for cheating on me. How backwards is that?

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Why do nearly all American women say they want to be "equal" to men, when the reality of the situation is about as far from that as possible? It is true, men and women are far from being equal. Women are far superior! On a serious note, it comes down to equality in such things as job opportunity, conversations, pay, and rights. And some of this is sticky, for e.g. woman more often take time off to take care of children, so they may miss valuable training and work experience.

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Is it true that a woman is incomplete until she is married. Then she is finished? Maybe until she divorces... :) But seriously, one would hope that marriage is a beginning. A wonderful beginning to one part of a woman's (or man's) life. I don't think you really need to be technically married, but I am talking about finding a life partner.

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Do you think you would have a different response to a cheating spouse depending on how you found out about the affair? (i.e., He/she confesses or you stumble onto the truth) I think it does matter. My ex lied for months. If he had come clean right away, I think the story would have been quite different.

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Is it true Nice Guys end up with used up old hags; the left overs of what the bad boy thugs had? Why are nice guys only capable of landing women out of their prime? I'm have no use for bad boys, waste of time. And I am not a used up hag, I still get lots of attention. Although my last 'nice guy' turned out not to be so nice. Everyone thought he was. Oh well. I am determined to keep believing that there are some out there.

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You just found out your neighbor who you are close friends with, whose kids are friends with yours, is in adult films, does your opinion of them change? To what? Great question! It would depend on my initial opinion. If I thought they were very sexual, it may not change that much. If I thought they were very conservative and completely straight-edge, my opinion would probably change.

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What things in life give you (personally) confidence and high self esteem? Tell me? Success in my work. A good love life.

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How do you help your teen understand the dangers of ecstasy, when its so glorified. You need to explain that ecstasy results in the permanent depletion of serotonin. This may result in a life of depression. I'd google it and explain that a couple of nights is not worth destroying your body's natural way of maintaining happiness for life. You can Google this and find some good articles to back you up.

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I had a one night stand that meant nothing to me, but at the same time, I was seeing someone but we were not officially together. Even though I don't really consider this to be cheating, I still feel guilty. How can I get over this? If you want to get over this, you should be honest to the person you were with. That includes that you didn't feel you were officially together. Once (and if) they forgive you, you will be over it. Best of luck!

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How do you decide someone is genuine and not a fake? When they demonstrate some consistency. Then, it is all about maintaining it.

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Why are people putting the date in their questions? Glad you asked! Now I know that I just asked a duplicate... oops...

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Does the word "love" mean anything to you anymore? Why or why not? Yes it does. Because it is beautiful. I am certain the most important thing is to find someone who thinks of love in the same way that I do.

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Why do men play mind games with woman that they claim to love? Great question. Knee jerk answer: because they are a-holes. More realistic answer: more likely they don't want to put themselves too far out there. Probably the same reasons that women do it.

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Do any of you have serious trouble speaking loudly and clearly so that other people can hear you? Are any of you on the opposite side of the spectrum where people tell you you talk way too loud and you can't bring yourself to talk quieter no matter what? I don't speak really loud, but people seem to hear me clearly. I've been told I should be on radio. So I'm not sure!

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Whenever you hear a car door close, do you look around or outside to see who closed it? Often, but not always.

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How do you normally react when a "cute person" enters your home? Just as any other person that I have invited, with hospitability.

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What do you think separates us from the animals? Opposable thumbs and smarts

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Do you like your handwriting? I have terrible handwriting, but I love the way I type ;)

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One Super power(like heros) what would it be? Cellular regeneration. Or time travel like Hiro.

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I just found out my dream Girl is apparently a career criminal and will likely stalk me now that she dumped me, what can I do to prepare? I heard this is something she does.. Please no call the law advise that will go backwards quickly. How did you find all of this out?

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When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie....is that really amore? It means you need a-more aspirin

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At home, do you like every meal to be a delicious "taste experience" or are you content to fill your hungry belly with "plain food"? Delicious taste experience!

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The government wants to be the "single payer" for health care. They say they will spend less money than "we" do. The only way that can happen is that they pay for less of it. Which means somebody gets cut out of treatment. Who will that be? One would assume there may be less transaction costs; however, in Canada we underpay valuable health care employees (nurses). So nurses are cut out of 'treatment'.

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What do you think about people who walk into you without saying "Excuse me"? I thinkit is rude and wonder why I came to this place. Unless it is a concert. Then I ignore it and listen to the tunes.

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If spouse admitts to cheating during an argument and then claims it was just out of anger to hurt me, which has happened 2times in 10 mo. Has he really cheated? I would say yes. But it really could be either way. You know him best - what does your gut tell you?

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Squirrels - friend or foe? Depends if you are a nut or a cat.

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Would you move to another country if you were offered a great job there? It's probably going to happen within a year!

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I admit i am poking fun, i had sex last night 10 times but i jumped up and down afterwards will i get pregnant ? would you make up some wild answers for fun ? (please) It only works if you jump up and down on a trampoline with an umbrella, wearing a toga. I`m so sorry Jen, but it does not look good.

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My boyfriend's friends are all in bands and very fashionable and I feel like I'm always trying to act cool and say the right thing in front of them. Theyre nice ppl but how can I stop trying to please them? Always remember your good qualities. It isn't worth it to live your life for others!

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Siingle girls, if a very cute guy that seemed very nice to you came to you and started talking to you, would you try it out or say no thanks? I'd definitely try it out in terms of getting to know him better!

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Do you prefer that your lover says he loves you or shows that he loves you? Both for sure!

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Any requests for the Pixies? I sure do love the Pixies or Sonic Youth? Please make me play some of those for you. Here Comes Your Man and Wave of Mutilation!

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Would you ask your boyfriend to stop seeing your best girlfriend, if he starts taking her side everytime you complain about her? Are they hanging out a lot without you? I can see how it would make you uncomfortable.

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Are you a mature person Sometimes yes, but sometimes definitely no!

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What Are You Attracting-The Good, The Bad or The Ugly? All of the above...

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I like badboys because they seem to have confidence (that's my case at least), nice guys just seem weak. Do any other girls have this problem? Not anymore. I came to realize that it is the other way around somewhere in my mid-20s - that is, bad boys are weak and nice guys are strong. I understand the confidence issue, but I found that also changes over time. Nice guys develop a good sense of self as they get older.

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Do you like people a lot, tolerate them or honestly don't have much use for them? I would say all of the above, but it depends on the person. In general, I like people.

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How many times a week does a normal healthy couple have sex? I think it varies, sometimes twice a day and sometimes twice a week. Depends on what is going on in your lives (ie how busy/stressed you are etc).

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What do you think of the word 'snog'?.. it sounds pretty discusting to me. I think it is hilarious. I can see why you would think it is disgusting though!

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I just discovered my live in boyfriend sent provacative emails back and forth to female former co-worker . When I confronted him he said it was nothing more than a fantasy relationship and it was over. Should I dump him? Yep, but I went through the same thing and then found out they did have sex. I also lived with him. So, my opinion may be skewed. Why wait around though? Especially if they still work together.

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Why periodic table base on electronic configuration? I'm a little confused by the question. The periodic table is arranged by number of electrons as well as groupings of different kinds of substances (e.g. alkali metals and noble gases).

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Have you experienced a tantric sexual relationship, yet? No, but the answers here make me more interested!

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Does loud, distorted hip-hop music being played on an expensive system make you want to spend lots of money at the mall? No, it will make me leave faster and likely spend less.

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I want to know whether the size of the penis makes a difference in making love or not? Is it that if one has a bigger penis than they can be better in bed and can make better love? I've seen one so big it was scary. I'm not a fan of tiny, but anyone average-sized that knows how to use it is just fine. So, bigger is certainly not necessarily better.

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How important is sex in a marriage? Very! It is one of the necessary components of a happy marriage.

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How can get over someone I really love and want to stay with him for the rest of my life, when I have a strong feeling that he is not happy with me? I love him to the point that I would let him go (even though I feel so desperate at the thought of that) It will take some time to get over him. Break ups are never nice and we all feel desperate at the thought of losing someone we care about. In my experience, the only way is to give yourself time to feel complete again. Though I have many friends that say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. For me personally, it is a little self destructive.

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Are there people who you stigmatize (or stereotype) even speaking with based upon their name (ie: Every Amanda I ever met was a cruel person. or. All Billy's are liars. )(Just examples!!!!!) Ok weird. Almost very Amanda I have ever met has been a home-wrecker! Sorry to any good Amanda's that read this, I wouldn't judge you. I have met a couple of good ones!

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Loving you is .........? it the right thing to do?

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Would you ever be someones second wife? If I loved them and wanted to spend the rest of my life with them. And they would be my second husband!

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I wanna lose about 20 pounds in like 1 to 2 weeks how can i go about this without diet pills It is not healthy to lose so much so quickly. Perhaps you should choose a more reasonable goal, for e.g. 2 pounds a week. Then you'll keep it off!

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I should be more gracious. Really, I should learn to be happy for other people. But it kinda bums me out when an answer to my question gets more points then my actual question. Is it just me? Meh, it happens. Let's just have fun! +3 to your Q.

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How do you react when someome asks you a really stupid question? If it is really silly, I will usually stare and blink for a while until I am sure they are serious. Then, if I realise they are, I will do my best to answer nicely. I usually find it easier when it is preceeded with "I have a stupid question". That is what I try to do.

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Is it alright to spank a 10 year old if you catch him smoking? I can see how you'd want to. I have heard of a couple of ways to deal with this. One person's parents made them smoke a whole pack in a row and they never touched one again. You could also try putting up gruesome cancer pictures around the house?

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An acquaintance of mine, who is a great looking asshole, has no problem getting girls, yet I, not good looking but generally amiable and kind hearted, get nothing....ever. So why do people say it's all about personality when it's not? How old are you? I got over the good-looking bad boys years ago... because they are usually assholes. I am all about personality and how someone's personality makes them handsome. Also, do you really want to be with those ladies who put looks ahead of personality? Sounds shallow (or immature). One last thing - look for the nice, cute girls who aren't all over the hot guys....

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What is your favorite fast food item, whether or not it is good for you, whether or not you eat it frequently. What is it? Bad: A&W hamburger. Good: Vietnamese lemongrass chicken on rice vermicelli.

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If the book of instructions on figuring out men or women was 1000 pages would you read it? I'd read both. The manual for men - for the love life. The manual for women - to deal with how difficult that subtle female agression can be, e.g. at the workplace.

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Guy has flirty txts and titty pics from other chicks on his phone and txts from a buddy calling him a player. Says he wants to be exclusive with me. Would you date him? Not a chance. Your question states the reasons.

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Are women attracted to men with mustaches? Some women might, but staches kinda freak me out. Like a hairy caterpillar that he didn't notice crawled across his face... BUT, if you want/have a stache, do it because it is better to live your life how you like and have someone love you and be attracted to you for you. PS. I do find beards attractive.

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Ok.. I think it is in the nature of men to cheat, not all do it but for those who do it, I feel like I shouldn't even be mad about it. Not saying its ok, but it is just sex. Is that stupid of me? I wish I could think the same. But I don't think cheating is ok. It is not stupid that you think the way you do. It is just you and you should be proud of yourself and your beliefs.

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What invention would the world be better off without and why ? I just need some topics to write an essay. Thanks (: Nuclear bombs = cold wars or many deaths. You can write about the history leading up until now with the tension b/w the world and N Korea.

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What one thing should every man know about women? Happy wife = happy life

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Dating After a Break Up - Good Or Bad Idea? My thoughts: it is fine just as long as you are honest with people that you can not date 'seriously' yet (unless you are ready). I am in limbo and have told a couple of men that I can't be there but I can be their friends until I feel better. You know what? One still is into me and is just being a solid friend for now. And I don't feel bad for hurting a nice guy. Most...

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How do you find the strength to do what you know in your heart is right, even (and especially when) it is the difficult path to take? Whenever the pain and hurt comes, start thinking about all of the good things that will come out of your decision. More opportunity, a new life, new friends, time for yourself, less limitations, less heartache, less hurt/pain in the future. Focus your mind on what you are going to make out of your decision and own it. It won't make it any easier, but it will help you concentrate on how...

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Describe your love life in three words or less. On hold

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Im now 35w pregnant and my man seems to finding excuses not to have sex.we never had this trouble before,he couldn't get enough earlier on.im not fat,just have a bump.does late pregnancy turn a guy off sometimes? Have you asked him why? Whatever the case, pregnant women are gorgeous. I agree that it is probably some strange insecurity, but you two need to talk it out frankly and honestly.

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My friend told me that my boyfriend is cheating on me when I asked him he lied but eventually admiteed and he wont stop asking for me back and saying how srry he is ... should i forgive him..i still love him but i am soo hurt what should i do ..? Hey, me too! What I am doing is: giving it a couple of months. This way I will get a better handle on whether or not I can move past it and whether or not he sticks around and means it.

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My husband of 16years has moved out he has cheated on me all our marriage life and now needs space to see how he feels he is real mean verbally. he says we may be able to work this out but he is still living with another woman. please advise Take some time for yourself, think about you. If you can, don't even talk to him. You really need to re-establish yourself after this and realise the wonderful things about yourself and what you have to offer. You don't deserve this.

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How do you make a guilty person confess? Is it hard work? You need proof

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Men with huge egos what are they all about? What makes them tick? And can they really love a woman? They are all about loving themselves. Women that adore them probably make them tick, or when women won't give them the time of day. They can probably love a woman to a degree but it may not be very fulfilling for the woman.

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Is it wrong to want to do everything with your next s/o that your last s/o wanted you to do with him or her, but you never did? Why or why not? Sure AG, only if it makes you happy in the end. It is probably healthier if it has nothing to do with 'getting even.'

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If it takes a minute to type a sentence are you buzzed or what? I guess it depends how long the sentence is and how buzzed I am!

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(my friend) Has finally let go of the affair she had for many years. Now she is upset because reality has set in.. He never contacted her after she said she couldn't do the affair anymore.. How can you have sex that long w/o feelings? It is a tough one. It could be anything from sociopathic tendencies or her making him face his own guilt (ie the reason might not be whether or not he has feelings for her).

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Do you believe everyone that enters our lives is for a reason? if so when or how do you figure out the reason? I think some do, but there is also an element of random people with no reason. I would agree with others that you usually find out after the reason (ie hindsight).

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Am slowly chewing through Icysilvers questions as she is a friend on AB (my first one) Does anyone else struggle to keep up with her lol?.Question meant in fun so please answer that way Her questions are great! I scan through them and pick my favourites to answer.

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Is global warming a threat to snowmen? Yes, they are at risk of extinction in their more southern habitats.

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How do i make my boy friend miss me alot when his far away? Be yourself. Be happier to talk with him than sad that you are apart. Joke, laugh, share love. Compliment. Share stories.

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My boyfriend of 6yrs wants us to read up on "Conversations you must have before you get married" N I think we should have premarital classes. Since this going to be the 2nd time around for both of us. I don't think he is 100% sure yet about this marriage I think you are both taken wise precautionary steps. Don't be insecure if your relationship is strong!

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My husband is getting a little to close for comfort with a female co worker. Although I don't think he would cheat on me, he is her confidante and the person she turns to advice on her relationship. He seems to be there for her in ways I find uneccessar It is tough. I would be uncomfortable too. Unless it is a really scary situation (like she is being abused), she should probably be working out her relationship issues with her boyfriend. What is "too close for comfort" though? Are you also friends with her?

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My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years cheated on me over a year 1/2 ago and I recently found out. He doesn't have a reason and ever since i found out he has been trying to make it up to me by being wonderful, but should I give him a second chance or let it go? I think I am walking away from the exact same situation, but I have my reasons. I would have to ask two questions before giving my advice: (1) how did you find out? and (2) did he have a woman on the side or was it a one time thing?

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What do women think about scars I had open heart surgery when i was a baby and has always been self consious about it The scars don't matter, the person does. I have been with someone who had a bunch of scars from surgery. I loved him and his scars because they were part of him.

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Are you gonna call Ghostbusters? No, cause I ain't afraid of no ghost!

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Going to South Africa to help build an orphanage, what should I bring the kids? (light stuff for the suitcase). Answers URGENTLY required! A couple suggestions: yoyos, kites (if there is wind), hacky sacs... love. How many are there?

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What would you do if you caught a burglar wearing only your underwear? My emotions would range from frightened to hilarity. I would probably get to safety somehow and then laugh until I cried and roll around on the floor... or vice versa... Talk about getting caught with your pants down!

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Its my understanding that single women love to go after married men. Is it true? If you think it is Why? If you dont have you heard this before? I think it is only true of single women who have a low self esteem or who have other issues (e.g. commitment issues). Many single women would not. I have not heard it before as a rule, but I have seen it happen.

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Why married man after couple of years of married goes after other women. Because he is an asshole.

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I cheated on my wife and regret it, but the "fling" phoned her and told her everything. What can I do to keep my wife as she shouts divorce now? Learn from it and don't treat anyone else like this ever again. She should run as fast as she can and you should learn your lesson. If you do want to make things work, go to counselling and hope for the best.

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What is your superhero name (Your 2nd favorite color, and favorite drink)? Green Strongbow

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Name 4 Things a Woman Should Never Ask a Man? 1. Why are your feet so small? 2. Have you ever tried crunches for your beer belly? 3. Do I look fat in this shirt? (hey you said SHOULD not WOULD) 4. On a first date: How much do you have put away in RRSPs? I know a guy who was asked this (not by me) - he was not impressed.

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I am worried that I give into my husband too much, because he is the man, if you understand what I mean. But he doesn't ever know how I really feel when this happens. How can I tell him bout his drinking, in a nice and respectful way? I would like to help, but I am a little confused by the question - what does 'give too much' mean?

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If you're playing a game with a child, do you "let" them win on purpose or do you think it's better to let them learn about losing in a controlled situation? I don't think children should always win, because I think they should know how to be both good winners and losers. I usually play fair, but when I see them getting upset or trying really hard I will either let them win or work harder to let them see the rewards to trying hard. There are some games where I will always let them win though (e.g. wishbones).

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My boyfriend left me without any reason ! and i don't feel comfortable with my friends.. i am in a bad feeling and need a help Why don't you feel comfortable with your friends?

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My girlfriend doesn't trust me anymore, I've never cheated on her, and never will. I don't lie to her and don't hide things from her. How can I earn her trust back? My ex who cheated suddenly was less trustworthy... only 6 months later did I find out that it was because he was cheating. I am not saying this is what is happening, but just be sure you know why.

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In your own opinion what is the best thing in the world to have or know? Best thing to have: great family and friends. Best thing to know: how to live life to it's fullest!

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The higher level on AB you get, does it mean you need more help??(you have a lot more questions) lol... I'll need help with the newfound addiction!

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Do people seem to stick their nose in your relationship? There always seem to be those people.

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Is there anything you would not wish on your enemy? What is it? I try not to have enemies. If I do, I try not to wish them badly.

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Do you have bloodsucker 'friends'? What can I do to shake them off? I'm fed up with thier bloodsucking ways! Bloodsucking emotionally, financially or both?

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Are you a back stabber? Not a chance. I much prefer to pat backs or massage them!

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So can I date your X? You can if you wanna, but good luck! You're in for some surprises...

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What are signs that you are dating a winner? They are consistent, strong and always there for you... OVER TIME!

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Which Global Issue should be of most concern, as of today? Rising global population concurrent with the depletion of (many) resources.

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If your friends cell phone is ringing beside you, do you look at it or ignore it? Depends on my mood. I usually don't look at it immediately if it is a text.

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What do you think everyone has an opinion about these days? Why would someone downrate this question? I am baffled...

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Whats the difference between a eccentric and someone possessed by insanity? Someone told me once that the rich become eccentric and the homeless become crazy. I personally think that eccentric is very quirky, but still together. An insane person doesn't recognize right from wrong, or reality from non-reality. For example, someone who is eccentric may want to paint their entire house (inside and out) all bright yellow and match all of their furniture and...

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Who is the oldest person you personally know? My grandmother passed at 98 and her sister is still alive at 102.

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My marriage is deteriorating. He has started to drinking. He has attempted to reconnect with his ex, sending her what I see as love letters. He is very critical of me. He says I am making up things up. My gut tells me to watch out. Am I crazy? Inconsistency like that is a bad thing. I know you love him dearly, but I also feel you need to leave before his actions hurt you even more. And it looks like they very well might. Sorry to hear you are going through this.

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Apparently 2 billion people will contract swine flu. whats your thoughts on this? That some won't notice or have any symptoms, most will sneeze a couple of times and get a mild cold, some will get bad flu symptoms, and some will die.

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Would you like a block of chocolate? Yes please, thank you!

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Have you ever seen a question on ab and you think to yourself; i am not going there? All the time. But then again, sometimes I will change my mind.

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Would you like your parents to live next door to you? I would love to have them next to me. Mind you, they don't live in the same cities as me, so it may be harder than I think in reality!

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Would you take a girl back if she cheated on you while drunk, but went to counselling to try and change? I was dumped for this guys ex b/c she went to counselling! I'm sweet and classy. This blows. Can I do better? Don't look back and go find a guy who wants to be with you with no questions asked! Of course you can do better, and you will.

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Do you think that everyone has a twin somewhere .. (someone who thinks, looks, dress, believes etc like them) I had a twin in my home town (which was not big). I never met her, but people used to think we were the same person all the time. She worked at one of the cafes and I worked at a pub. Who knows if we are alike personality-wise.

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If you were to relate your current mood to any weather type, what kind of weather would you be? Sunny, partly cloudy, cloudy, thunderstorms, tornado, rainy, snowy...etc? Partly cloudy with a risk of thundershowers.

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What is a broken heart? What I have.

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Say you go on a 1st date & it's going really good. at the end of the night, where do you draw the line, as far as physical affection goes? also, what age catagory are you in: teens, 20-25, 25-30, 30-35, 35-40, 40-45, etc.? 30-35, I (generally) stop at a kiss. This might depend on how long I have known the person - have we been friends for years, and finally are starting to see each other?

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Do you really like a "Take it for granted" friendship? (I mean anythng and everything you say will be accepted in positive ) What is a "Take it for granted" friendship? Can you explain?

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Me and my friends are going to Red Mountain OHV this august and we were wondering what is exactly the defintion of an "easy" offroad route.I will be driving my truck a 03 Ford Ranger with about 3 feet clearance and 2 wheel drive. 2WD will definitely hold you back. Don't go up a quad trail, it won't be easy to get back out, even with 4WD - sure is fun though. I would stick to trails where there are no big ruts, no big steps on rocks/hills/rivers, minimal mud. If you want 'easy' trails, just ask the locals in the area. Ask from your truck or let them know what you are going in so they know your...

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Do you think it is rude to not answer ALL txt or emails? (if they were from someone you know) If everyone answered all texts and emails, the conversations would never end. So I say no, it is not rude. But I agree that you should answer questions.

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How can you be bisexual? I understand being gay or straight but I don't understand how you don't know which sex you want. (not being mean, just would like to understand) My friend says he is attracted to the person, not the gender.

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GIRLS! - What do you think of boys applying hair styling products? I think I look stupid after I've washed my hair so I always put wax to style it. I am also very afraid that they will be disappointed to find out what I look like without hair wax. I think it is fine, just as long as it is not rock solid! Don't worry about what a woman might think you look like without it - if she is worth it she will like/love you with and without hair wax!

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Do mimes terrify you? No, but they might if they were miming killing me.

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Im almost certain im Gay. However i still occasionaly have sexual feelings for certain women, does this mean im actually bi? Sounds like it. Two of my male friends were sure they were gay for several years. One married a woman and the other now dates both genders (he says he is attracted to the person, not the gender). They both explored their gay side first, then settled more middle of the road. I don't know if that helps?

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Does anyone else hates/dislike the word "whatever"? Sometimes I love it and sometimes I hate it. When someone uses it on me dismissively, I don't like it. The rest of the time, I am totally fine with it - it can even be fun!

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My girlfriend thinks I'm arrogant and it gets her so upset. I don't think I am, I just think I'm confident. I don't even boast or put other people down. What could I be doing wrong? Any ideas? I see one of two possibilities: (1) she has low self esteem and considers you arrogant because you are confident OR (2) you are being a bit arrogant to her and talking down to her (realise you may not be doing this to others, so others may not see it). I would spend some time talking with her to understand what it is you say that makes her feel this way. Then think on it. If you realise...

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Are Canadians boring? As compared to which nationality? Some of the funniest and best known comedians in the world have come from Canada, among which are Leslie Nielson, Dan Akroyd, and Phil Hartman (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Canadian_comedians). Not to mention the fact that we live in igloos and wear neon orange hunting hats... How can that be boring, eh? But seriously, CANADA RULES! PS. I think you...

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Why the LIVING HELL do I keep getting a 404 page EVERY TIME I SUBMIT A FREAKING QUESTION!? Me too, it caused me to accidentally ask some duplicate questions!

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Name the most terrifying moment of your life so far. When I flipped a car 3 times with my brother in it. Very bad conditions, could have been very serious. Only very minor injuries luckily.

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What if Everyone you ever cared about dissapeared.. What would you do? I would be lost for a long time and try to find them. I guess in the meantime, other people would come into your life. Especially since you would be so upset.

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How many people are in your circle? I have a lot of circles of people I hang out with. The largest, probably close to 15. The most important, 3.

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Is anyone else finding this new survey pop up thingy annoying on AB? Yep!

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How many TRUE friends do you have? Not counting my family, I would say 3. And a couple of good friends that are not as dependable.

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Ive been approached by a 22 yr old guy. I'm 36. Cant c y a he wants to date an older woman other than experience. Mayb I'm wrong, but unless your a Madonna or Demi, is it really worth dating a man that much young? Not for me. Been there, married a man much younger. They may seem mature; in actuality, time may show that they are not.

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I have a daughter & i'm a young mom, the guy i'm interested told me he's not ready for kids yet. He made this statement "When I do have kids, they will have my name." I interpreted this is the worst way possible, but other people said I shouldn't worry... It doesn't sound like a very good match for you. You have kids, he is not ready for kids. That is a good indicator that you should look for someone who would enjoy every aspect of you. The comment could be good or bad, but it depends on the context. Is he interested in you? Have you dated?

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I am 32. The man I am dating is 20. He is very mature and says wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Its fine now because I look good (and young for my age). Will this be a problem when I'm 43 and he's 30 etc? How long have you been together?

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What are the best ways to recover from a verbally abusive relationship? Focus on yourself and improving your self esteem. Start some new hobbies and classes. Do something you've always wanted to. Write down your top 5 best qualities, make sure there are no negatives in there. Focus on you and how wonderful you are. And how great it is to be out. Take all your thoughts and make them positive.

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Do you ever bring your work home with you? How do you get the work day's aggression out? Kickboxing or yoga. Try kickboxing at first, then regular yoga.

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Can an abusive man really change? Possible but doubtful. My ex husband never changed and appeared to want to.

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Have you cheated on your spouse already, and really loved it you cant stop thinking about the other one cause they made all your fantasies come true in bed, you are royalty to that person..What are you going to do now that you tasted something sweeter? Nope. But my ex is regretting it now because I fulfilled all of his fantasies. Which makes me feel great.

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I am a 71 y.o.female in good health. For the past two weeks when I awake in the a.m. my eyelids are stuck shut and on the upper part of my cheekbone beneath the lower eye there is a pink fluid filled sac. Am trying to find out what this may be. I have no idea, but I did hear of a woman close to your age that got a blocked tear duct. You should go to the doc...

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Me and my girlfriend are fighting hardcore right now. My friend who is a female, is driving 500 miles to see me. We both take our turns driving to see one another every other month. Do I need to tell my girl we are going to hang if we are just friends? Yup, you should tell her. How long have you been together? Why doesn't she already know?

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Woman when you found out that your husbands cheated on you. Did you ask them why they did it, what were the reasons? None that were good enough.

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My hair grayed early. By the time I was 23 most of it was gray. I'm 38 now and am mostly silver. Do women find this attractive or should I change the color? I think silver is a very cool hair colour. I also find it attractive when a man is happy with himself, the way he is. Only change it if it really bothers you - don't mind anyone else's opinion.

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Does love really makes life beautifull if so0 in which way? Because it has no boundaries. You can love your family, friends, and lover. Love makes life beautiful because you are cared for, and you know the people that love you will be there for you in thick and thin.

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Do you ever find yourself thinking of past loves? When I don't have a new one.

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Attractive ladies, do you have trouble getting dates? Only when I want one.

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What is the funnest mountain in the Rocky Mountains? Do you mean hiking, scrambling, or snowboarding?

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What are some nicknames for marijuana? You roll it up into a Jolly Gagger

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Should scoring 80% on a standard reading comprehension test be mandatory in order to join Answerbag? Are you asking because of the spelling mistakes or the answers that don't really respond to the question?

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Whould you like to live without sex? Not a chance

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I met a extraordinarily gorgeous girl in a bar last night. She seemed really into me, but I found out that she just broke up with her long time BF just 2 days ago. Should I go out with her? She txt me and asked me to go with her to a party tonight. I would only suggest you go for it if you are not looking for anything serious. She is most likely on the rebound! Conversely, you could develop a friendship with her and see where it goes after a couple of months...

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Is there a point in having a relationship with someone who takes "breaks" from it? AG, is this the same guy we talked about before?

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What can't we blame George W. Bush for? The first world war.

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At the end of a relationship, what was the most painfull thing ever said to you? Mine? Four words; "he makes me happy". I have never been so crushed by four words. No pity please, stuff happens. "I slept with her"

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Should one be wary of people who talk alot? Only if they lie a lot, make a lot of promises they can't keep, or make themselves seem too good to be true.

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What is a 5 letter word that contains 2 O's in it? Loopy

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Now i have reached level 21.. do i get to become a coat? What's a coat?

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Is getting divorced always a frightening xp? I divorced with no children and it was still frightening.

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My Girlfriend insists that our dog join in while we engage in sexual intercourse! is this normal? That is messed up. I can see why you are perturbed by this.

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Me being a Chef, What would you like me to cook for you? A really good risotto, they are hard to come by.

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Do you think girl should lose weight just because her boyfriend asks her to It depends. On one side, I have seen men ask very lean women to lose weight because they want them to look more like some perceived societal norm of what beauty is - this is fundamentally wrong and I would advise anyone to leave a relationship like this. If the woman is healthy, happy and a bit plump, who cares? If the woman is unhealthy and obese, it may be a valid health concern and perhaps...

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Do you agree or disagree with this statement?:MOST black women have bad attitude problems. I disagree. I make such judgments based on getting to know an individual and their personality. For me, it has nothing to do with race.

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What uplifting inspirational websites do you visit to get yourself through the day? http://www.playingforchange.com/

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Have you ever found yourself reexamining your life because it seemed to be going "downhill"? It has often happened to me. It helps me pick myself up and overcome what is going on.

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Do you wish that there was a text messaging to English Dictionary? I'm so far behind on text language. Oh man, I will not be happy the day you can play LMAO in scrabble - it is not a real word! I think there should be a subsection for text language in the dictionary (except the official scrabble dictionary).

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How do you deal with pushy people? With assertive, direct comments. By explicitly and firmly saying 'yes' or 'no' when necessary. I have a lot of pushy female friends, so it has been a great training ground.

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Do the dabblers and dilettantes of the world who lower the bar and undermine the work of serious thinkers? Perhaps, yet on the flip side they may make serious thinkers look better. Unless you are on the same project/team. Then it just sucks!

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Is it the narrow-minded, judgmental people of the world that stifle creativity? Maybe sometimes these people create controversy that leads to creativity.

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Why Are Men The Only "Villians" In The Infidelity Game? I don't think they are. My best friend (woman) has cheated on most of her boyfriends.

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Where is the worst place to be stuck waiting? The hospital

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Do you think capitalism in its present form is working for the interest of most Americans? It depends who is president and what their views are. Fascists can work their way into any system and use it for their own good.

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Is it normal for a girl to get smacked around hard by a guy at least once? (weather its her dad, brother, or signifcant other) No person in this world deserves it. It doesn't matter who it is that does it.

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My wife was at a party and got loaded, she was talking to a guy , the next thing she knew they were kissing, so told him to stop and moved away... she told me right away and has not stopped crying and telling me she loves me ..what should I do? It was only a kiss, she told him to stop then came home and told you right away crying with remorse? My advice is to forgive her for sure. I don't think the trust issues will be that bad, though it might take some work. She didn't lie about it, so it is unlikely to be recurring. Honesty is a pretty good sign. Best of luck!

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What is your most erogenous zone (not counting the obvious)? This question is for both Men & Women. The nape of my neck and my shoulders.

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Is a stranger a friend you have not met yet.. or someone who intends to screw you by sunset? Could be either, or better or worse (depending on what you want).

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Are you naked...right now? I wish I could be more controversial, but I am in my yoga gear about to head to class.

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Have you ever fell in love with someone who you found very, very strange? How does that happen? If you take 'strange' as "being definitely out of the ordinary and unexpected; slightly odd or even a bit weird" (http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=strange), I always fall in love with people who are a little strange. I can relate and it always keeps me interested. Unless they were strange in a disturbing sense. In that case, please ignore everything I wrote...

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What should be the punishments for adultery? Hopefully a lot of loss: loss of honour to all mutual friends, loss of a spouse and their friendship, loss of the things that come with the spouse.

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What is your original hair color? Very dark brown, but I am dying it white one hair at a time.

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I say "hot tea," you'd say ____________? How about a cup of ginger peach?

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When was the last time you were sad? Quite often lately, but I know it will pass.

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Do you think it is true that in all relationships one person loves more than the other? I have heard this and wanted to know if anyone else agreed. I think it sways each way throughout the relationship.

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Are you trying to find a romantic partner on this website? No, I'm more interested in advice, witty retorts and opnions. Finding romance is another category altogether (for me). But I hope some good people out there do find each other!

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Do you like quiet parties or loud parties? Why? Depends on my mood. Sometimes I like a bit of a ruckus, but I usually like things like wine and cheeses where you can discuss things and meet new people.

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If you listen to enough music from other countries can you learn that languge? If you know a similar root language (e.g. if you know Spanish and the songs are in French), I think so. Otherwise, I think you'd need the basics in the language and someone to help you out.

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Why does everyone just assume all your questions are about YOU, and not a friend or co-worker? or hell just made up!! I have had people assume I was all parties in my questions. It is kind of interesting. I've seen people state in the Q that the Q is not about them - that may help if it irritates you!

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Would you say that you are taken for granted by others? No they don't. It used to happen 10 years ago. Friendships flourish, but they also go through tough times. I would suggest that you need to try surrounding yourself with people who do appreciate you so that you feel good about yourself. It doesn't mean you have to stop hanging around those who take you for granted (that will likely change), but spend some time in some healthier...

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I have two guys that I'm deeply in love with,One is puerto rican, cute and a music producer and the other is not so cute but he knows how to treat me.The puerto rican guy wants to marry me. I'm having a hard time choosing one. What should I do? Go with the strongest friendship and the one who treats you better.

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What are signs that you are dating a winner? You get along well, enjoy at least some of the same things, and more importantly, they are consistent in what they say and how they act.

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Do you find Family Guy to be offensive? I think it is hilarious!

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How do you deal with people who treat you like you're stupid and like you're a waste of time to be around? Focus on the people who make you feel good about yourself. You deserve to be around people who appreciate your best virtues!

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Does nightfall cause disorientation, resulting in lunacy? I would place a bet that the word lunacy comes from luna, thus the moon. It likely is folklore.

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What is your favourite Arnie film? I loved the Terminators, but Total Recall is my favourite.

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Have you ever met a complete stranger and after speaking for a minute or so felt a type of caring for that person so strong it made you feel like crying?Not sexual. I sure have. I met a friend that way - she was in a real tough spot and needed someone to talk to. So I was there for her.

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Ladies : Topics for conversation on first date? Music, food preferences, travel and hobbies. I'd have a couple of questions in my back pocket too, like 'what was your favourite vacation?' and 'What was the last concert you went to see?' in case the conversation is tough.

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What would you like to scream out right now this very minute? I think it would be a long happy "yaaaaaaaaa." I bet that would make me feel good...

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What is it with all these people assuming their partner is cheating on them simply because they won't let them see their text messages or e mails? If you have that little faith in your partner then why the hell are you with them? I agree that you should have enough trust to not have to look at a person's emails and texts. However, once you find out a person is cheating or have very good reasons to suspect, I think the line gets blurred and it will depend on the couple's values and the situation.

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Name a song about or that has some refference to food. Band: Clutch Song: Wishbone

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This guy keeps on winking and smiling at me all the time,he is a friend of mine,do you think he likes me? It depends. Does he do it to other people? Where I am from, it is quite commonplace for people to wink and smile at friends. But there is a definite possibility he likes you.

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Outside your apartment at 3 AM, in a almost-naked nightgown, having just taken your trash to the chute, your apartment door slams shut from the wind and locks!!! You were the only one at home AND you have something simmering on the stove! What to do? I call the friend I left my house key with. I always have a couple around the city!

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Have you ever dived into a busy swimming pool and lost your bikini top or bottoms? No, but I jumped off a very high rope swing once and my top came up. The current was really strong in the river, so I didn't notice till after I got out...

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Should gay marriage be legalized Yes!

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Hey Everyone... Biopsy is clear. No cancer! Are you happy for me or not? Very happy for you! Congrats!!

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I have always been alone ,I am not handsome I have always been rejected you think there is anyone for me? Of course there is! I would recommend that you focus on your positive traits rather than what you deem negative. For example, though you don't consider yourself handsome, are you kind and sincere? It seems so. It is important to gain some confidence! Confidence is a very attractive trait. I have seen some "unattractive" men get some phenomenal ladies. I put unattractive in...

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It's Friday night, what are you doing? Going to see some live music!

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Does anyone think that cheaters deserve second chances, if they didn't cheat on you? For me, it would depend on how they felt about the event. Do they regret it or do they think the person deserved it? Also, how deep was the affair. In the end, it is all personal really, everyone will have a different perspective on this one.

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If you rejected a girl but still talked to her, would it be wrong to tell her how much you love your girlfriend and tell her that you two hung out together.. and went out for dinner and stuff. I think it is the most honest way to go. You don't want to rub it in her face, but if that is how you feel and she is truly your friend, then do it. Otherwise, the slope gets a little slippery, ie why are you talking to her in the first place?

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If you had a job where you had to say "Have a nice day!" to your customers after you helped them out, would you mean it? It depends on how long you are doing it and how nice the person is. I have been genuinely nice while working this type of job and other times been swearing at the person in my head as I smile because it was my job. Thankfully, new career!

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Do you find the behavior of homosexuals to be separatist? Is it fair that they create their own sub-communities throughout society? Why or why not? Don't all groups do that somewhat? Even women. Or hockey players. Or Italians. I would say no.

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What place, would you never live at? The desert.

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Can trends disrupt a ability to discontinue its prevalence? To discontinue the prevalence of?

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Why do(Some)Humans think they own earth? Because, though we are intelligent, we have a unique capacity of making stupid decisions and rationalizations.

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What species on Earth do you think are angry with humans? Why? All of them. Except cockroaches, rats, and pigeons. They thank us.

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How would you handle this situation? Your friend came to you, telling you she has been physically abused. She won't confess to anybody else. Is it within your right to get her help, or just be a supportive friend? We had a friend like this. We all felt it was our duty to help. We brought her to the women's shelter and she 'got help' She was back with him within a week. BUT, she did develop strength eventually and left him. She's now with a really nice guy. I think that helping someone realize the options can help them on the long run. My only advice: try to stay out of direct...

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What answers don't you want to hear, when asking about what makes relationships work? I don't want to hear that you need to be a spineless, subservient jellyfish.

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What 3 things you can not live without? To live: food, water, air To live happily**: family, friends, books* * but this is exchangeable with extreme winter activities, team sports, and music depending on my mood. ** Maybe I need more than three...

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If you were in a long distance relationship, would you break up with that person through email? I would say it depends on how close you are. If you really care about this person, give them the respect of a phone call. If the relationship was relatively shallow (for both of you), I think an email is fine.

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Men: What color is your wife's purse? Ladies: What color is your husband's wallet? There are women with only one purse? ;)

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Hubby and i got into an argument and i threw a pillow at him. The zipper cut his lip and he went balistic hitting me. He blames me - saying that he was abused after trying to defend myself after. That is fundamentally wrong. Get out as soon as you can.

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What do you need help with? Becoming normal again after being devastated.

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Have you ever been told that you were ugly, just cute, pretty, and sexy/hot all at some point in your life but at different times? Or have you been called only one of these? I have heard them all. My brothers used to call me ugly when I was young to make me upset. I think the rest has all been positive!

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What type of flowers should I buy for a first date? I'd say some nice lillies that smell really nice.

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Been dating a great man about 3 wks, He's been divorced for 4 yrs & says I'm his first "GF", he dated a few women including his x-wife. He tells me he is crazy about me & that I am the one, I'm feeling a bit smothered is this too much too soon or OK? It depends on you really. I would definitely be too much for me. I find 'going too fast' a turn-off and also a potential recipe for disaster (ie when you get to know the person). I do know people, however, that have gotten engaged after a month and are still happily married.

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What helps a relationship to go longer..? First you need love and respect (as Menson said). To make it last though, I think you need a great friendship and very good communication.

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Why Do Women Develop the Urge of Getting Married? Well, if you do it once then divorce the urge is much less strong ;)

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Is it really THAT wrong to discuss past relationships on a first date in your opinion? I did yesterday, but it was only to tell him that we can only be friends for the time being. I think that otherwise, most definitely not. And if you are so inclined, it may not be time to date yet (as with my case).

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What's one thing you have you never eaten? A fried bug (gross)

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Can someone be in love with a person and cheat on them at the same time? Boogie, what's wrong with our love commune? Best be honest and go have sex with some woman who doesn't know about your goal of getting laid.

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Can someone be in love with a person and cheat on them at the same time? You are silly B, it is fine to have sex without love upon mutual understanding. If 'honesty' is your best quality, then you should have made your 'goal' of 'getting laid' clear. The scary part is when people know that the other person will have feelings and do it anyways. I don't particularly care what moral standards you have, which is why I gave you...

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What Do you think Men Need to Know About Women? Happy wife, happy life!

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What in your previous serious relationships allowed you to make the decision to move on? How did you find the strength to move on when you cared so much? When I was younger, it was when I first cried over them. Now it is when the bad times outweigh the good. It is all individual though, some people strive from bad time while others are the opposite.

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Do you think trust has to be earned? Or do you have trust until someone does something to have you lose it? Why? I think you should give people a certain level of trust off the bat until you know them better. So, they partially have to earn your trust as you get to know them. For e.g. would you lend someone your car if you just met them randomly five minutes ago? If you knew them for a couple of weeks, you might invite them over for a BBQ. Then after a year or so, you might lend them your car.

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Why are attractive women so evil? They're prone to making false accusations and gold digging. Not true for all attractive women. I know a bunch that are very cool people and love their men very much.

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How would you react if it started raining severed limbs? I would duck and cover. Then try to figure out what the eff was going on.

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In your opinion, is it possible to be in love with someone you've never met, but have talked to via phone/internet frequently? Ok, so my perspective is a little different. For me to truly be IN love, there has to be sexual attraction and desire for each other. I don't think I could have that without meeting someone face to face. I DO think that you could LOVE someone you met online though (though it has never happened to me). That said, there are so many different people in the world, I most definitely think...

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Do you think there is a difference when somebody calls you their 'lover' versus their 'boyfriend/girlfriend'? There may not be consensus on this one: Lover –noun (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/lover) 1. a person who is in love with another. 2. a person who has a sexual or romantic relationship with another. 3. a person with whom one conducts an extramarital sexual affair. So it depends I guess on who is saying it. You can be boyfriend/girlfriend, part of a sexual/emotional...

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Is there a difference between making love and having sex? Of course! One you need to be in love, the other not necessarily (but it helps)...

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What should I do? I seem to always find my self very alone i have tried to make friendships and they never last for long, i always end up hurt. I AM so tired of walking through this life by myself. Why can't you keep a friendship? What hurts you? I think you need to look for good people and stick by them. Friends are not perfect and you will likely never find the 'perfect' friend. Accept their weaknesses as well as their strengths, they will have to do the same for you.

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As a stepmother when should I step back in conflicts and when should I insist that my husband stand up for me? How old are the children?

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How is picking up trash related to biology? Too much trash in natural areas will affect some species in the ecosystem or result in new ones coming in (e.g. scavengers).

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What if your favourite things about your friends? They are always there for me.

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What are things men do that women find annoying? Act arrogant and over-confident.

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Iv just started dating this guy and i found out that he is using a dating site is this ok for him to do at the start or should i confront him about it Instead of confronting him about this, why not just ask about whether or not you two are seeing each other exclusively?

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Do you think romance is dead? Never! There are some real romantics out there!

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What makes people, who were once great friends as flesh and blood but got to separate only by circumstance, forget the good old days and see you as just any other friend they ever had, when you meet again? Have you re-visited your memories? Maybe they don't recall all of the good times. Or they just have stuff going on in their lives right now.

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Divorce ones only!!! what is the one thing you miss the most about being married? (mine are the back rubs or scratches right before bed) Adventures. But it does not outweigh his anger problems.

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Are you the calm or hyper one in your friendships or relationships? I am calmer when there are serious issues at stake, but hyper and silly much of the other time!

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Have you gained much weight since that lean self which your partner first met to love? ... Compared to those early days, has it affected your comfort zone when they now see you naked? I always gain weight when in a relationship and lose when I am single!

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I'm 18...i know it has the word "teen"in it but am i still considered one?? what age would i be considered an adult? I was considered a 'youth' until I was about 30.

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Have you ever developed a bad opinion of someone based on something you heard about them and then found out you had the wrong information or misunderstood what you heard? Yes, and it is very unfortunate because you could miss out on a good friendship! I learned it is always best to go by your own judgment.

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How do you show a girl that your not like everyone else? It is all in your actions. Actions do speak louder than words so you have to show her your virtues. And don't give up doing so!

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My best guy friend likes me, what should i do? Depends, do you like him back?

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What comes to mind when I say 8675309? How the eff do you know my number? ;)

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Is it possible to once be a cheater and then learn your lesson and be a better person? It is a decision that is up to the cheater. The best thing to do with a mistake is to learn from it and become a better person!

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What is the last thing you held for more than 30 seconds in your left hand? My garbage when I was taking it out

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Do you think there needs to be education on emotional maturity? Only for those that don't have it.

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When you wake up in the middle of the night what is your first thought? I hope I can fall back to sleep.

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Do you avoid answering questions that mention politics? Only on a first date!

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Do you think we all need a common value system, not many? Diversity adds richness to this world. Debate is a wonderful thing. So I would say no!

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Have you ever drank a little bit and pretended to be drunk just so you could kiss someone? Did they let you? Why would you need to pretend? Why not just do it?

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How do you know if someone had a bad time on a date? There was no kiss and the date was over at the earliest time possible.

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SO i have this really amazing guy friend. Well we have hooked up a few times and i am starting to have feelings for him, everyone that meets us thinks were dating because how we act towards each other. i'm scared to tell him how i feel, What should i do? It is a tough one. How often do you hang out? I imagine you probably are already dating, but just haven't labelled it. You don't want to scare him by mentioning commitment, so I would say you can do something like say that you are starting to have feelings for him and you want to know if he feels the same way!

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My spaghetti sauce tastes too tomato-y. Is there a way to tone it down? Are you making it from scratch? If so, try using fresh tomatoes (no paste) and simmering in a frying pan to evaporate the liquid. Otherwise, a small tsp of sugar helps get rid of the tangy-ness of tomato paste. You could also compliment with other strong flavours, such as fresh basil!

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Do you use your Answerbag account as your own personal diary? Why or why not? Right now, a little. But not for the full scope of things! And I anticipate that will change. There are a lot of fun questions on here that are not related to what is going on in my life!

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I say "Guns" you say? And Roses

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Please explain the "end justifies the means" if you can? In ethics, it can mean that the end goal (what you want) justifies the means (how you get there). This has the potential to by immoral as you have justified everything you need to do to get to the end goal, which maybe a good thing. Example: your goal is to have a peaceful society. In order to do this, you kill a nation of people because there have been economic sanctions on them that have...

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What is something amusing to you, at your workplace? There is this one colleague who says 'cock' instead of 'coke' because of her accent. I told her how to pronounce it correctly (we have a lot of meetings and the word often comes up), but she still says it wrong. Apologies for being lewd. I just think it is funny.

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My fiance has been having an emotional affair (talking and texting) his ex gf. we have been dating for nine years. This has been off and on really since day 1 of our realtionship. should i scrap it? we have 2 boys and i still love him! i cant trust him. Trust can be re-built, but he also has to WANT to and put in the effort. What are they saying to eachother? This is key. Do they have a need to keep the relationship up (e.g. kids)? Why aren't they together anymore?

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If your spouse has stopped making love to you, but is satisfied with the marriage, would it be better for you to have an affair and not tell them, or get a divorce which would devastate them? Are you saying the right things when you are communicating to him? I would suggest being very honest and saying something like "I am considering cheating on you because I am unsatisfied." If you love them and care at all about their feelings, then proceed with something like "I don't want to do this to you because I love you and care about you and I don't want...

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Why would a married man who had affair with you but it ended want to stay in contact with you behind his wife's back. She knew about affair. He has a separate phone he texts me on, meets me & trys to cover his tracks. Says he wont act on his feelings 2 me Because he's an A-hole. You should ask yourself what you are if you keep meeting him and communicating with him.

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What did you learn from your father that you will never forget? You gotta love yourself. Even when you're going through a tough time, you gotta do it. Also, when things are going really good, don't take it for granted because it will change. Celebrate, but not for too long!

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If you are seperated from your spouse,(dont even live near them) and you hook up with someone, would you consider it cheating? As long as you are separated in your relationship, no.

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What do you do when you find an old (2 year old maybe) draft of a letter or e-mail on your husband's computer extolling his love for the other woman? The affair is over, but the discovery cuts like a knife? Have you talked with him about it? I think that you need to because if not, then you will always have it in your heart and it will eat away at you. In my opinion, you will need to get over it WITH him and it might require counseling. I am sorry to hear you are going through this. Best of luck.

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Can you ever get over the person you love and thought would always be yours, cheating on you? Does the pain and distrust ever go away? Can they be truely sorry? I think it depends on the situation. You need to know if you want to forgive them, then decide to do it. You can do anything you put your mind to, but it will be difficult. They can truly be sorry, but please be sure they are. And do get some counseling. They will have to work to earn your trust back. Good luck and my heart goes out to you.

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Who's the best movie bad guy (or bad gal)? I maintain that the all time best villain is Christopher Walken. Then Alan Rickman.

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I'm a 5'3" girl, and about 130-135 pounds. I'm eighteen, and it's finally summer and I figured I would have more time to exercise, but now I'm working two jobs, so I barely have enough time to sleep. What can I do to lose 10-15 pounds before September? I agree with Kel. Try to eat a lot of vegetables. Cut the fruit a little - they have extra sugar. Reduce your carbohydrates a little at each meal to compensate for your snacking. Also, you'd be very surprised about how much weight you can lose if you cut the cream in your coffee. Takes a bit of time to get used to, but then you don't notice. Small things like that.

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Is it cheating when your husband texts another women all day long I think it is wrong. Emotional attachment, like that you can achieve through texting, leads to infidelity.

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Has anyone ever had a retaliatory affair to get even with a cheating spouse and felt better after the affair? I don't think it would be right. Then you are bringing yourself to their level. If you want to cheat, end the relationship. Or separate until you can be together again.

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Have you ever been downrated for asking a benign question? Yes! I didn't realize I asked a duplicate!

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Do you find it annoying when you hear someone say "irregardless" instead of "regardless" or "in regards" instead of "in regard" or "its deja vu all over again." "Irregardless" drives me nuts.

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Have you ever run into wildlife while driving? A friend accidentally ran over a fox when I was in the car. It was pretty sad!

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According to your own opinions, which is "nerdier"- A Dungeons and Dragons player or a Trekkie (Someone who watches and LOVES Star Trek)? Trekkies for sure. But I am neither.

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Are you engaged/married and STILL looking? If so why? Good question! When I was together with my partner, I was not looking... but apparently he was ;)

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Would you forgive a cheating spouse if he/she confesses? And would you carry on as though it never happened? I think that it would be easier to forgive if there is a confession. Whether or not the person CAN do it is a different story. I think it depends fully on your situation, how much the betrayed loves the betrayer, how remorseful the betrayer is, and how much patience and love the betrayer has because they will have to live through a lot of pain and anger they have caused the betrayed and...

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Are hearts so easy to mend these days? I am not so sure they are... But I wish that was the case!

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Would it be ok to lie if it saves your relationship? Absolutely not. If the lies get discovered, it will probably cause more trouble than if you told the truth. Honesty is the best policy. And people should respect the one they love enough to tell the truth.

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Home is where you ___? call it home. Might sounds redundant, but makes sense to me, right from the heart!

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How do you know when you might be in a serious relationship? When he first calls me his girlfriend is the first sign. Then the 'L' word...

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It's not a party without...? Laughter and friends! Booze preferable.

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Everybody girls and guys always tell me im soo pretty and i have a great personality but yet i cant get a boyfriend and thats something i need at the moment beacuse im sick of getting hurt why doesnt anyone ask me out Take some time to love yourself (like Jed suggested)! When women are independent, they are more attractive to men. That is, they won't worry you'll be clingy, etc. You need to put it out of your mind and think of you first! Also, if you are worried about getting hurt, you sound like you need some time before going on a ton of dates. They will come to you, I assure you!

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Would you give a second chance to a seemingly, bad relationship? No point in being there if it is bad! Why not take the time to find a good one?

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You're alone on a beach in the late evening, and you come upon a stranded whale. What would you do? Call Fish and Wildlife on my cell. I would also probably touch it.

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Do you tend to attract people with your looks or with your personality? I would say both. I have a lot of beautiful girlfriends so we are often noticed (and you have to appreciate men appreciating your friends), but men are often attracted to my personality once we start talking.

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Do you own a solar powered anything? Calculator ;) And lawn lanterns.

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Which statement do you agree with? When you truly love someone you fight the temptation to cheat....when you truly love someone you are never tempted to cheat? Fight the temptation for me. It is all a matter of trade-offs. Temptation is always there, but love is beautiful and something to never mess with. I would never cheat on ANYONE!

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Why no matter how hot you are do men still look at other woman? Weren't you also looking at the beautiful woman if you noticed ;) I think we all notice beauty.

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What's at the top of your "Things To Do Before I Die" list? What's at the bottom? (Or, give the whole list if you want; both "done" and "to do"). Top of my list: heli-snowboarding in Alaska. Bottom: publishing in Science.

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In your experience, what is a little-known aphrodisiac? Cheese (well, especially when coupled with a nice wine). In fact if you throw some dark chocolate in there with another well-paired wine, that's it!

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Is every mathematical equation considered to be a 'proof'? Not at all! I would argue that some are not proven but explain something, like a linear equation showing a relationship from statistical analysis. However, you can 'prove' that the derivative is equal to the tangent of the line and is thus the slope.

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We don't know how much time we'll have here on earth so we should___________. Spread happiness and be happy!

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If you found out your spouse was cheating on you, would you be more upset with her/him or with the person s/he cheated with? Depends on the situation and at what point in the healing process you are at. I actually correspond with the woman my partner cheated on me with and she has been very honest, more honest than him. Still hate her, but I am more angry at him (now).

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My husband constantly talks about "open relationship" or not wanting to stay in this marriage. One day it's I love you and want/need you... the next it's I DONT WON'T this but I love you. Help.... im confused Be very careful, that kind of inconsistency is a not a good sign. You both need to sit down and talk it out - maybe even with a counsellor - to avoid the escalation of potential problems. Good luck!

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How do i get over my wife cheating on me? We had been drinking heavily, so much that I fell backwards and cracked me head open, ending up in the hospital. That is when she cheated on me. I know ooch. Ya, that sucks Optomus! It is bad when someone cheats, but when they do it after you have injured yourself so badly you are in the hospital, that must be very hard. It is the last thing you need to be thinking when things go wrong in life. I'd ask myself: how much do you love this person? Do you in general feel like they are a good person but really messed up? Are they...

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If your partner cheated on you, would you take him/her back? Still trying to figure that one out. I think it is a personal decision that depends on the circumstances...

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Divorce is? The only way out if there is no chance for happiness

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My ex-bf and I are very close but he has a gf. Sometimes he comes over to my place and we cuddle and talk, no sex. Else we talk on the phone. His gf doesn't know about our close friendship. Are we having an affair? It seems so. That she doesn't know is a concern. I would ask yourself how you would feel if you were in her shoes.

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Would you have an affair with your friends husband..This seems to be some kind of epidemic all over. How do you fall inlove with YOUR friends spouse? I have had opportunity and never done it. For me, I think it would even take a long time to see that person until much after the relationship ended! Relationships with friends and family are too important.

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My husband cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. We are trying to work things out. How do I tell my two young children of their dad's infidelity and the new addition? Please just take care of your emotional health. You need to think of yourself during this time too. Otherwise, I agree with the previous answers. Seek out some counseling, but make sure you find a very good therapist!

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Is it OK to have a relationship with your ex-spouse, when you are remarried, that your current spouse is not a part of? By the simple virtue of the fact that you put this in the 'cheating and adulterous' category of AB makes your reasons for having this relationship questionable. You need to be honest to your spouse about this relationship, regardless of the nature. If your spouse is not comfortable with it, you need to ask yourself which relationship is most important. If they are comfortable with...

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"If women ruled the world, there would be no wars" - I know women are usually the less aggressive of the genders, but isn't this a gross oversimplification? I would say that there would be no physical wars, but the political warfare would be hardcore.

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Wife and I were apart for 5 months. She had an affair 4 most of that time. I discovered the affair 8 years ago that occurred over 13 years ago. I've tried to put it out of my mind and I do forgive her, but cannot stop thinking about it. Any suggestions? This is a very difficult, painful thing for you and I am sorry to hear you went through it. First, you must focus on the fact that you were apart and that it is no longer occurring (ie focus on the future like Marky Mark said). Another thing that can help is trying to train your mind to think about positive things instead. I looked this up once when I was very stressed - cognitive...

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If you've never cheated on your S/O of several years, do you get the feeling of mild regret that you've perhaps missed out on something? Be honest. I do. Never good to be dishonest, especially when you're messing with the feelings of someone you say you care about.

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My best friend is male and currently has a GF. He says I am very special to him because he can talk about anything with me and we share common interests. He does not feel the same way around his GF. Should I feel worried? I think you should be aware that he may have more feeling for you than his girlfriend. Maybe that he is in the wrong relationship. You have to make sure that he is not going to hurt this girl because he is more interested in you. What do you want? That is a big question. Just don't cross any boundaries you shouldn't until it is time for the two of you.

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If a cheating partner does everything you ask them to do after you kick them out (counselling for their lying, the relationship, calling you every work shift), should you consider taking them back? Common-law relationship of 2 years. Go know, That is fair. Not that kind of gal though. I do feel like he will have to prove himself, however.

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If a cheating partner does everything you ask them to do after you kick them out (counselling for their lying, the relationship, calling you every work shift), should you consider taking them back? Common-law relationship of 2 years. The re-establishment of trust my dear Freddy.

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What is the Best Way to Catch a Cheater When You Suspect They Are Being Unfaithful? I agree with Oka. I disagree with the invasion of privacy unless you have a very firm reason why you suspect cheating.

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If a man lies about an affair for months, until he is caught red-handed, can he ever be trusted again? He did end it on his own, but says he was to ashamed to tell the truth. I know he ended it because I have talked with the other woman. She confessed to everything when I confronted her and confirmed that he was truthful about that.

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If a man cheats, will he do it again? He has pretty serious consequences right now. He has lost most of his friends, his house, and all of our mutual activities with friends (which are several times a week). He of course deserves it. I have great friends who will support me whatever I decide to do. The challenge is deciding...

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If a man lies about an affair for months, until he is caught red-handed, can he ever be trusted again? He did end it on his own, but says he was to ashamed to tell the truth. He did end it on his own. The cheating stopped around 5 months ago....

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Isn't it wise to keep a platonic relationship secret from an extremely jealous wife who thinks everything is cheating, to avoid problems at home? Starting a secret relationship with someone, whether platonic or not, is a recipe for betrayal. Who is more important, the wife or the other woman? If your wife, you should put your relationship with her first. If the other woman, then your marriage has more serious issues.

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Having an emotional affair with a married man who is under marriage struggle. If you do not want to be the homewrecker, what should you do to let him know that you are available if he divorce . How the relationship should be maintained? Stay away from him until he has figured himself out. Don't forget that men seldom leave their spouse for the other woman, they just say they will. There should be no relationship until he is on his own.

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Could you be friends with someone you knew has or would cheat on their spouse in a heartbeat? It depends if you think that you could be the person they cheat on their spouse with. In that case, no. If it is a friend that you have no sexual attraction to, then yes.

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Can you morally justify sleeping with someone, knowing that they are cheating? What if you know that they aren't happy together? By simple virtue of the fact that you need to ask if it can be morally justified means that you can't. It sounds like it is something you want and are trying desparately to justify it. In relationships, there are ups and downs. If a couple is not happy right now, it does not mean that they are not generally and will never be. Nor does it mean their relationship is over. If you...

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My boyfriend recently cheated on me in an online sexual relationship with someone he works with. He ended the affair, but I found out independently of him months later. I would like to work things out, but how do I ever trust him again? It is very hard. He is also devastated. I have no idea what to do.

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My boyfriend recently cheated on me in an online sexual relationship with someone he works with. He ended the affair, but I found out independently of him months later. I would like to work things out, but how do I ever trust him again? Well, it turned out he lied more and he actually did have sex with her. Goes to show.