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by Anonymous on June 15th, 2007

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My son girlfriend wants to have a Abortion I know I need to stay out of it I told them I would help them if they keep the baby but i cant pay for a Abortion beause she is 4 months and think that not right she is 22 year old.Im I wrong?

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  • by LadyLuck on June 15th, 2007

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    At four months, she's definately pushing it for an abortion, and no, you're not wrong. She's not, either.

    If she's not ready to have a baby, she shouldn't be forced into keeping one, regardless of her age. Present her the options that she has - adpoption included, if she's scared that she won't be a good parent.

    If you're completely against abortions, rather than scaring her with morals and what you feel is right and wrong, present her with facts.....how dangerous is a second trimester abortion? What could some of the long term affects on her body be? And also ask her why she wants to get rid of the baby rather than keeping it.

    It's wonderful that you want to help your son out in this situation, however, it's their decision. You're not wrong for your opinion (I'm sure very few people share mine) but you need to respect her rights as a woman, and potential future mother. Keep being supportive - it's the best thing that you can do for her.

    *edit* She shouldn't be asking you to pay for it - neither should your son! It was their decision to make a baby, they need to be adults and figure out what's next.

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    • I advocate the mother making an educated, rational decision on what's best for her. Anyone that doesn't support choice, to me, is the one with the problem.

      LadyLuck

      by LadyLuck on April 22nd, 2009

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