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by Anonymous on June 19th, 2006

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My boyfriend of 4 months cheated on me at our 2 month mark with my roommate. They had sex for less than 30 seconds but it still hurts. I still can't seem to get over it but I am scared of losing him. Should I stay with him?

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  • by AVS426 on September 14th, 2006

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    okay.. after reading those answers im afraid to reply..

    i cheated once in my life.. i confessed.. because it was a bad moment in judgment.. i totally felt guilty.. and i had did everything i could to PROVE that i was serious about knowing what i did was wrong (i didnt do anything to TRY to get back.. because that wasn't my point.. she was too good for me)

    in the end.. after she saw how much pain i putmyself in (guilt is.. really hard)

    she came back.. i promised i wouldn't do it ever again.. (i haven't.. im a nice guy.. its just.. the moment had certain..ahh.. its a long story...)

    im grateful she's back with me..

    so if you believe your guy is honest.. about being sorry.. then well.. give him what you think he deserves..


    usually.. i tell girls to leave.. but i just wanted to be that shadow..


    (guys only cheat because their insecure.. so maybe the relationship is missing something? (im not saying it is, its just a thing to think about.. its a tidbit of information))

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    • I was inspired by what you wrote, my ex cheated and wants me to trust him again. Seems sincere and ready to do whatever it takes, like you did. It's been tough, but we are friends now and are taking it sloooowwly. What you wrote makes me think that maybe he doesn't fall into the "once a cheater, always a cheater category"... you gave me hope. Thank you

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 3rd, 2007

    • I needed to hear this answer also. I want to thank you as well.

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      by A on November 8th, 2008

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