My ex is talking marriage with his GF. I don't like it. Should I tell him I still have feelings for him or let it go?

it depends on all the factors, like how long you two were together, what kind of relationship it was, etc. etc.
i would give him your two cents, tell him you don't like it, and tell him you still have feelings for him, but then ultimately decide (AND DEFINITELY TELL HIM) that you are happy for him, and let it go.

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We have had a relationship ruined by bad timing for over 20 years. It was a passionate relationship that still does not seem resolved even today, even while he is with the new one. We have both been married and for the wrong reasons, to other people. Now we are both unmarried at the same time, for now. It is like my window is closing. If I don't speak up now, the moment will be lost.

I think at least I need some kind of closure to feel like it is really over. I also feel like telling him is not such a big deal because if he really loves the other girl, then it is a dead issue. He will reject me, which will hurt but I would have to get over it and would be able to move on.

But I don't think it is over, just the way he acts and looks at me. It feels wrong to interfere because he is with someone else but also feels wrong because he is with someone while I think that he may still care about me. What's a girl to do?
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