What is your number one turn on?

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• I think that's more common than people realize.

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  by Anonymous on May 12th, 2007

• That is a fantasy of mine aswell actually, but unfortuanately all my boyfriends have been too nice to me. *sigh* bastards...

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  by anonymous on May 15th, 2007

• haha. your poor girl! nice boyfriends... where do you find those?

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  by zee-ster on May 31st, 2007

• give me some examples of desirable aggressiveness (doesn't it become undesirable if it's too extreme or artless?)

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  by purplecows on May 1st, 2008

• Hold on let me pick up my rifle...

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  by vittau on January 9th, 2009

• is aggressive the opposite of nice?

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  by purplecows on January 10th, 2009

• i think being nice & non-aggressive are two separate things. however, i have noticed in my experience, that a**holes tend to be more likely to order me around in bed, etc. some of them have pulled my hair (just hard enough), bitten me, etc. personally, i like all that, but sometimes i turn the tables as well. anyhow, i think different people are into different levels of aggression. you can always tell someone your fantasy beforehand to see if they are up to the challenge or you can feel it out as you go, but i'd recommend starting with minimal aggression just in case. some people like to be scratched, but don't want claw marks, you know?

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  by zee-ster on January 21st, 2009

• order you around?
  what, "Roll Over"? "Beg"?

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  by purplecows on January 21st, 2009