by shortstuff on July 13th, 2008

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I can't make him cum! My boyfriend can't cum whether its sex or b.j's, he says its not my fault and that he's always had that problem. But when he masterbates he can cum within minutes. I feel really shit about myself. Is it common?

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  • by Anonymous on November 1st, 2009

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    it's called delayed ejaculation and it's actually a disorder that can stem from many different things such as masturbating too frequently. If he has gotten accustomed to the way that he pleasures himself then unless you mimick the way that he does it he will not ejaculate. Your vagina will never give him the same tight fit as his hand does and your hand probably wont either. Some suggestions that I have not tried out because this is not a problem for me and my guy are having him hold off on masturbating for a week or so and having him watch porn and sort of build up this sexual desire so that when you come around he is ready to ejaculate and has a certain need for it. You should really talk to your boyfriend and see how much of an actual problem this is. If you guys can have sex or you can give him head and he can just hold off on ejaculating for when he can do it himself then you can just enjoy eachother minus the ejaculation and you can benefit from not having a "minute man" so to speak and he can just receive pleasure from seeing you pleasured. Many people figure that the male ejaculation signals the end of intercourse but it does not necessarily have to. Hope this helps! and remember that it is not your fault and you are not doing anything wrong.

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