by Anonymous on October 29th, 2009

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How do people separate sex and love? I just can't comprehend it!

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  • by Vaporeongirl on October 30th, 2009

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    Don't get all confused, Kokoro. Sex is not love! People use sex for many different purposes; and 1 of those purposes is to express love. However, some people do like to just use it as a pleasure toy. I am somewhere in the middle: I would never sleep with someone I don't know well or don't care about for pleasure, but I don't really see sex as the ultimate expression of love. Different people see things different ways; that's all there is to it. I understand and respect your opinion.

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    • I know what you mean, that some people have sex with strangers which obviously would not equal love. I just could never do it. My ex slept with me when he had in his mind that he was "single." He expressed this later on. I felt so used.

      by Anonymous on October 31st, 2009

    • I know that must hurt, and I agree with you that just sleeping with whomever is empty and sad. I would never do that. And I'm sorry that happened to you, Kokoro.

      Vaporeongirl

      by Vaporeongirl on November 1st, 2009

    • How long did you know your X-boyfriend before you slept with him? If you were dating and sleeping together, then why did he think he was single.

      Vaporeongirl

      by Vaporeongirl on November 1st, 2009

    • We had been dating for more than a year. When I saw he put "single" on his Facebook he said he was serious about it being over when we had the last argument. I thought we were still together. What upset me is that he said he wanted me to stay living with him while he was "single" and he even slept with me during this time.

      by Anonymous on November 1st, 2009

    • What a SOB! Tell me this wasn't the guy you lost your virginity to! Men are ALL JERKS; that is what I've found.

      Vaporeongirl

      by Vaporeongirl on November 1st, 2009

    • Yes, it was. :( I thought he was different, but I was wrong.

      by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2009

    • Poor thing....a lot of girls get burned by their 1st.

      Vaporeongirl

      by Vaporeongirl on November 2nd, 2009

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