I feel disgusting after having anal sex (for the first time) with my husband. It was a good experience, we both wanted to try it for a while. After I felt trashy, I told him I never want to do it again. Why do I feel this way?

You feel that way because you know it's abnormal.
"Trashy" is a slippery word to define, but if it makes you feel trashy and it disgusts you, then it is trashy and disgusting. It might not be that to some other folks, but they are not you.
If both of you enjoyed it, it wouldn't matter whether it's trashy or not; but since you don't, then he's the one with the problem, not you.
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You didn't ask for my personal opinion but I'm going to give it anyway: it is abnormal, and trashy, and perverted, and a man would have to be at least a latent homosexual even to WANT to do that, if not a flaming faggot.

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Gimme a break! Did you actually read the question? Missed this part "It was a good experience, we both wanted to try it for a while.". Of course you are blinded by your bigotry and prejudice. 25% percent of couples have tried anal sex. You just don't know what you're talking about.
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by AlexGeo on August 28th, 2010
25% hardly constitutes an overwhelming groundswell. So from that figure, I do know what I'm talking about. It IS abnormal. But I have to give you one point at least: I've never given nor received sodomy, so I can't know how it feels.

To quote myself, "trashy and disgusting. It might not be that to some other folks....If both of you enjoyed it, it wouldn't matter whether it's trashy or not"
So who is the one with the blind prejudice? On the face of it, not I.
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by Sandman on September 7th, 2010
While I'm not into anal sex, I have to point out that if a man does it to a woman, he is by definition not gay
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by rebellious angel on April 8th, 2011

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