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by Jesika Sanders on September 12th, 2005

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Why would a guy rather remain promiscuous than be with his "dream girl"?

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  • by webgrunt on October 11th, 2005

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    The direct answer to your question would be "It depends on the guy," but that doesn't really help so I'll give you possibilities.

    I can think of a lot of possible reasons right off the bat, here are just a few:

    1. Maybe he said she's his dream girl but he was lying.

    2. Maybe she was his dream girl until she became his, then with no challenge he lost interest. In other words, a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence."

    3. Maybe he's afraid he'll lose his masculinity if he remains faithful to one women (some men actually refer to monogamy as being 'whipped', if he is immature enough he might feel this way.)

    4. He could be a sex addict. For sex-addicted people, having sexual encounters with many people can be as hard to quit as quitting alcohol is for alcoholics.

    5. He could be afraid of getting close to someone, a lot of people who are afraid of intimacy or vulnerability use promiscuity as a substitute for real emotional closeness.

    6. Did the guy in question actually state that she's his "dream girl," or did someone else decide this? If it's the latter, then maybe someone has made an error in determining just who is the right girl for this guy.

    Well, those are the best ones I can come up with without really knowing anything about the guy. Hope you find this response helpful.

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