It bothers me when men check out other girls when you are in a relationship with them. Am I insecure? Is it okay for them to do this?

Human males are very visual creatures, and can't help but to admire the beauty of women, it is quite harmless to look, as long as he's not gawking or making advances, or lewd comments around you.

Let him look and fantasize, this is what guys do, even when your man is making love to you, you can bet a dollar to a donut that he is fantisizing about another women while making love to you, this is perfectly normal and harmless, and no it does not mean he does not love you at all.

This is just the way men in general fantasize about things, when your man is full of fantastic referance images of other women, sex is going to be a little more exciting because he is acting out his sexual fantasy on you... and is that not what you want to be in the first place?

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ok, kinda creepy.
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by ----------- on December 31st, 2006
Yeah. I don't think that is true for all men. Unless they are all schmucks.
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by UneFille on April 11th, 2008
No when my husband is with me I want him to be with me all the way in bed and any other time. How can you be okay with knowing or thinking my man is thinking about someone else while he is having sex with me that is just wrong. he didnt marry me to have sexual fantasies about other women while having sex with my body. its one thing to role play but what your saying is just wrong... sorry
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by chellemate on December 12th, 2011

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