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by Daydreamer on May 23rd, 2005

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Why do some heterosexual men seem to be homophobic towards gay men but not to gay women? In fact some men find lesbians a turn on, why is this?

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  • by notmrjohn on May 24th, 2005

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    Because straight men are interested in the same thing lesbians are. But not the same thing gay males are. Sex with women is so great, that even women enjoy sex with women. "Dayummmm she turns me on, in fact she's so sexy she turns women on." Sex with men is of no interest whatsoever. "Sex with men must not be so great, cause my wife don't enjoy havin it with me."
    Straight men are turned on by lesbian activity between women who individually also turn him on. Interest lessens when the two women are ,...um...'average.' Even less when they are below average. That is to say neither alone would interest him. Many years ago I knew a guy whose wife was somewhere between average and excellent, they had a sudden surprising break up. Eventually it came out that he had that fantasy of his wife being with another woman and it finally happened. The split was not due to his wife suddenly turning lesbian, as she didn't, or to her enjoyment of it, which she did. In fact he said he would have enjoyed her enjoyment, if it had not been with a woman who he said "was built like a linebacker."

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    • hahaha! You men are weird....I can't think of one woman that finds gay men's "activities" a turn on!! Good answer, thanks :-)

      Daydreamer

      by Daydreamer on May 24th, 2005

    • now you've found one - daydreamer :)

      jenniferprofitt

      by jenniferprofitt on May 30th, 2005

    • The actress Cathy Griffin finds gay men attractive and a turn on

      Corrupted_Senate

      by Corrupted_Senate on August 24th, 2005

    • Nicole Ritch did say that she found 2 men kissing a turn-on. Ref:Simple Life

      Kiso77

      by Kiso77 on September 19th, 2005

    • found another one

      Autumn Riley

      by Autumn Riley on November 27th, 2005

    • yeh and another

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on December 2nd, 2005

    • Daydreamer: Look at all the teenage girls who write/read 'slash' fiction, or much of the female viewer ship of the popular television show 'Queer as Folk'.

      dwin1979

      by dwin1979 on June 15th, 2006

    • But if sex with men isnt so ggreat then why are all women not lesbian??

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on January 12th, 2007

    • Dump your wife!

      Steel on Water

      by Steel on Water on August 5th, 2010

    • Divorce your wife and marry a straight girl, I feel sorry for you.

      Steel on Water

      by Steel on Water on August 5th, 2010

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