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by ALittleConfused on March 16th, 2005

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I’ve had 3 dates with a girl and we had sex once. I like her but I'm not really sure about a long-term relationship. Is it too early to be thinking like this? Should I just take things as they come or should I be forthright with her now?

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  • by frankied on March 17th, 2005

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    In such a complex society, nothing concerning interpersonal relationships is that simple. Empiricly speaking, having sex, for most primates, is a physiological/psychological commitment to procreate. For the lower species, there are no social stigmas for having multiple sexual partners, as it is often necessary for the survival of the species.

    For more advanced, noble species, those animals which possess more defined mating skills, such as lions, or many of the more colorful birds, they often assume one mate for life.

    As far as 3 dates, you became aquaintences. The sex made her part of your tribe, your clan, your pack, etc. If you understand that her desire was not of simple momentary pleasure, but of security, commitment, and appreciation, you will understand that what she wants, what you want, what I and everyone else wants, is a long-term relationship.

    It's what makes us human beings. But it is your choice to be a noble species, or simply a primate. She chose to be a primate, which is why you are having these second thoughts.

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    • Choosing to have sex with someone you're attracted to is not being a primate. And no-one asked for a biology lesson.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 24th, 2006

    • yes, She did not choose to not have more to do with him , she simpl chose to also have sex with him .

      Did he chose to be a primate?

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on September 3rd, 2008

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