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by Trisha Feedles on November 26th, 2004

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My boyfriend has pornographic DVDs and I am having a hard time dealing with it. Am I not doing something right for him to have purchased them?

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  • by clevergirl on November 29th, 2004

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    Why is it something YOU are doing wrong? Where is it written that it is your job to fulfill his every fantasy? If he watches them to amuse himself, how much time does he spend at it? Does his absorption in this take away from your time together or is it something he does on his own? Pornography can be pretty crude, but some--believe it or not--can be well done. You need to evaluate your relationship in terms of where his (and YOUR) priorities are. Is this something you could put up with on a long-term basis? If not, why are you sticking around? waiting for him to change somehow? You need to look at yourself, and decide where YOU want to go. A rough answer, I know, but life ISN'T "fair."

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