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'You look just like you're Mother and i can't bear to look at you, get out'. A messed up time for him so i understand it now, but it devastated me at the time, i was 17 and had to find somewhere to go.
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"When the cops ask you what happened please lie to them." It doesn't seem that mean but it had to do with him almost killing my mom and i was 9. I regret to this day lying to the police because it was the only reason he didn't go to jail and from then on he did a lot more fucked up things.
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I should have stayed in the Navy and never had children.
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My dad never said one hurtful thing to me. He was abused as a child, and swore he'd never treat anyone like that!
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It wasnt his words It was his actions
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My father wasn't the one who said the hurtful things. It was my mother who said them.
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My parents divorced when I was very young, so I never knew my father. The worst thing my stepfather ever said to me (and there were plenty of bad things) was when my mom was 8 months pregnant with her last baby. There was a raging case very bad flu going around at the time, I think it was Swine Flu. I caught it and had it so bad I had to be hositalized. My mom got it, too, and as a result lost the baby. My stepfather reminded me daily how I killed his baby. I was maybe 10 or 11. I carried around major guilt for years.
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Nothing that he said. It was his actions! :(
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"Convince your mom to stop the child support. I want to retire and I have better things to use that money on"
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My step-dad (he was the only dad I knew since I was 2or 3. He cheated on my mom and got a woman pregnant and left my mom. I was 14. I was staying with my aunt and uncle and when he called to talk to my uncle, I answered the phone and said "Hi dad"...he laughed and said "I'm not your dad". It broke my heart.
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His actions I think... I'm one of those people who will move from home, call his mother 5-6 times a year maybe, and never speak to my father again. And not turn up at his funeral.
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Instead of creating you, I should have rolled over and shot you out the window....
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My mother was abusive to me as a child and after one of my many beatings I had marks on my arms and legs. My dad looked at me then turned to my mother and said you better be careful someone may report you for abuse. It hurt because the abuse continued for many years after and he did nothing. He allowed it to continue my father and I hardly speak and if we do its a hello and goodbye.
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My Dad was a good man. He worked hard and supported his family. If he said something hurtful to me, I can't remember it. [Reading this thread has been depressing to me...the best I can do is + point everyone who suffered such incredible pain, hoping to turn a :-( into a little bit of a :-). I wish I could do more to erase it altogether.]
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