When someone says you're ugly but you know you're attractive, what does that mean?
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Plasticky
ANSWERS: 100
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That they are stupid.
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There are different perspective to what the term "attractive" means. You may think you're attractive, but some people don't think you are.
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you're ugly
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i guess it could mean theyre jealous of you. but people do have different opinions of what is attractive. so yes, they could find you ugly but alot of other people will think ur gorgeous. depends on point of view.
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some people might think your beautiful but others ugly. i find people who "know" they are attractive can have very ugly personalities. being inwardly ugly makes you outwardly ugly, but thats just my opinion.
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I don't think a person that's happy with herself would ever say that to someone else. If you're jealous you'd maybe want to bring the other person down but if you're really happy with yourself you don't have the need to hurt other people like that.
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theyre probably just jealous, and trying their hardest to hurt you, ignore it :/
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he has bad taste, he is mad at you, or you are ugly and don't know it?
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What's your personality like? That's beautiful or ugly.
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It means you are pretty enough for them to try to make you feel ugly because once you feel ugly therefore you are....that makes them feel better about themselves...think about it if you see somebody attractive walk by you try your hardest to find their flaw so you won't be as jealous....
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Either you're skipping reality (you actually are ugly, but you don't know it), or he's just downright wrong... Woah! that was an oxymoron! downRIGHT WRONG... xD
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I'm guessing you upset them somehow, intentionally or otherwise.
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That even though I think I'm attractive, perhaps they don't. Why they would feel the need to tell me I'm ugly could be for many reasons. Whatever the reason, it's kind of childish.
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Maybe they mean your ugly inside. If u feel you are attractive , what does it matter what they say, r u vain as well as ugly.
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If its a girl that said that too you she probbaly is just jealous. If it's a guy he probbaly doesnt mean it that way because guys rarely just come out and go 'your ugly' all that matters is what you think of yourself and dont worry about the haterzz lol
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Perhaps the person who told you that tried to get something from you and didn't and was striking back. Perhaps something you said to them hurt their feelings and they are trying to hurt as revenge. There are so many reasons people tell someone they are ugly. Some people are good at being hurtful whether the statement is true or not. For a fact, your looks, no matter how beautiful you are, are not going to be pleasing to everyone. There are such varied tastes and opinions. I know it is difficult, but try not to take it to heart. Don't let other people's opinions of you rule your life. Choose to be happy and treat others like you want to be treated..Golden Rule..and you will be fine.
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It means that they have to make you feel bad, in order to make their self feel better. Pretty Sad!!!
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It means they are mad at you.. nothing else
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JEALOUSY
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It means you don't let someone's negative thought interfere with your positive thought and that's a good thing :)
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It means that they are angry and have the need to hurt others. Or it means that although you are physically attractive, you behavior is ugly.
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that one of you is blind!
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either you have a very big ego or the other person is jealous of you
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My mirror's broke?
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If a person says I am ugly I know that they don't know the real me. I am not 'attractive" on the outside but I am on the inside and if people can't see that, that is their loss.
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either that you're really conceded or they're trying to make you feel bed
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That they're not wearing their beer goggles.
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since those are subjective attributes, it should mean nothing...
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i could guess that they were just jealous
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That he thinks you're ugly, and you think you're attractive. I bet the opposite yet equal is true.
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That people are idiots who are too into putting others down....
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I'm not certain if I've answered this before: when it's over 3 pages I just give up. I'm confident that if I did answer, my response would be identical. In video format:
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Some people suck at character and judgement. Move on.
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some people find other qualities in people un atrractive that most would and that doesn't mean your not pretty its just how they see you.
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you could be ugly to them.. so what dont let it get to you.... post up some pix and we will tell you then you can take the avrage respons.. i remember my friend telling me how he has a new girl and how hot she was. he showed me some pix of some of her tats and her body. i was like wow she has a nice body. but when i met her, i took one look at her face and i was like wtf!!! are you kidding me you think shes hott. and he really does but to me she is completely unatractive.. not to be mean or anything that was just how i saw her
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nothing
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Your shallowness allows them clear view of whats inside.
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It means that she/he is gelious.
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You've got good taste, they don't.
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It means you need to kick this person into the kerb and find someone who A) Thinks you are attractive and/or B) Likes you for WHO you are, not how you look.x
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Maybe they think the person is ugly on the inside. Sometimes good looks don't come paired with a super personality.
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ugly doesn't have to mean how you look..... maybe you are ugly inside
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your blooming georgous! Honestly i would say either they are very jealous of you or are very fond of you.
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that they are jealous and are trying to tear you down so that they can feel better about themselves.
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Maybe your father had been calling you a princess since your an infant and someone actually gave it to you straight this time.
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Maybe you mirror dont work !!! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, haaaa, ha, ughhhh, I almost get hurt attack !
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and thus a very subjective term. If it's a guy, he might just be trying to lower your self-esteem.
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YOU HAVE A HIGH SELF ESTEEM.. lol
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It's just a childish way to bring you down because they have a low self-esteem.
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I simply don't care about that person and the comments if he/she tells me that I'm ugly. I even don't waste my time thinking about it and go on with my day. When I am confident that I'm attractive, that's all I need to know and the result will follow ;-)
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It means that they are jealous or that they mean you are ugly inside because you have a bad personality. They also could be saying it because they hope that if you believe that you are ugly you will feel lucky to have them and could not get anyone but them.
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They want your body! OR They could be referring to your attitude. Beautiful people often act ugly, so that makes them unattractive regardless of their beauty. Where you being demeaning to them?
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either u are ugly or they are jealous of you... either way who craes what they think, if you have self confidence thats good enough for me. most people dont concider themselves attractive so for u to be confident is good.... f what they say
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Are you fat? This is important.
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It means you had some nasty shit in your teeth probably
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Just b/c u think your attractive, doesnt mean everyone thinks you are.... C'mon now
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Why would someone tell you you were ugly? If someone doesn't find you attractive, that's certainly not a reason to call you ugly! Different people like diffeent looks! Remember that!
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That you are listening to someone in Junior High School.
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That means you're pretty concieted then...
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that either means they are jealous of you and are trying to just be an ass about it, or they actually think you are ugly and u arent as attractive as you think you are.
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It means the person which is saying this is jealous for me
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Your self-esteem is too high. They are doing you a big favor by helping you lower it.
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Who cares what other people think!!!
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Means you're ugly, you internet dwelling mutant. Wear a bag.
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Ugly can mean on the inside not just on the outside...
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They need therapy?
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Maybe they are jealous of you.
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well pal... that means don't give a damn to what that person says..... and yea do one thing..... advice him to get his eyes checked.... :)
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Most likely that person is unhappy with themself and is trying to bring you down. As long as you know how you feel about yourself, nothing that someone else says should matter.
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they're jerks
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First and foremost it means they want to hurt you. Beyond that, it could mean nothing--they could have just picked any old insult to fling at you. Or they could have chosen that particular insult knowing that it would hurt you an extraordinary amount--maybe you're vain or insecure about your looks and they know it? It could mean, though, that they meant it: they find something ugly about your personality and/or appearance. Keep in mind that different people have different tastes and priorities. I can't count the number of times a friend has told me they think so-and-so is hot when I think so-and-so is definitely not.
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Don't take this wrong but sometimes when a person (knows there attractive)That in its self can be really Ugly!
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I think they just want to see a reaction.
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If it's a member of the same sex they're jealous. If it's a member of the opposite sex they're attracted to you.
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Gosh, I've never been around someone that is so rude to say something like that!
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MAYBE THEY JUST DUMB
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It means they're shallow and you have self-confidence.
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how do you KNOW you are attractive?
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Because that someone might be jealous of you!!
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it means your cute but got a ugly personalty.
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They may be referring to your attitude. The inner appearance makes all the difference, you could be ugly as sin but if you are a nice person that beauty will shine through. And if you are a beauty queen face with a pigpen personality you're ugly.
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They're jealous and want to bring you down to make themselves feel better.
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well if you think your beautiful you are ='(
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Many things. They could be saying your personality is ugly, or they could say they think your body/face is ugly. Also how do you know you are attractive? Isnt that presumptuous? Isnt attractiveness relative? Maybe some people think you are attractive, and some people dont. You might be attractive and they might just be teasing you. I dont know.
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OMG. What good advice SOME people gave you. Been done to me a couple times too. I am not conceited at all, but have a good self-esteem and mirror lol, it's pure meanness and jealousy mixed with a whole lot of insecurity on the other person's part. I had a group of "haters" for a while who DID all have low self-esteems in the looks dept. and did that shit to me. I have never ever had a beautiful woman dis me. It was quite the opposite, I would get a nicer response from a more attractive person. So take those compliments from where they come. OK? Plus my hubby thinks I'm beautiful. From one pretty woman to another, be happy & move on.
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If you are a woman, and the comment comes from a woman; it is her insecurity. Coming from a man, just a vicious attempt to hurt you. It does not mean anything as long as you know who you are, how you are and what you are. Dun let words affect how you should feel about yourself.
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That person feels that you are beautiful enough to put down. Them feeling that if there uglier than you, then they might as well make you feel fat. But if its you being called ugly, just remember you can always loose weight or clean up...but they will always be jackasses.
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they are telling you one item on their wish list;)
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That their retarded.
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It means they perceive beauty the way their brain is conditioned to perceive it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you consider to be ugly someone will consider it to be beautiful.
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that means their just jealous of youu
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that person has got no taste
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well not every one will think u are attartrive. my friends and i dont all think the smae guy is good lookig and my husband thinks some women are butt ugly that some of his friends find pretty. so if u are THAT confident then why does it matter what someone says or thinks?
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To me, it means that "someone" has a problem. What do you care what they think?
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It simply means either the person is an ass or they really think you are ugly. Or maybe you are physically attractive but you have such a horrible personality that it sucks the beauty right out of you. Not saying you do but, its a common occurrence.
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you are ugly!!!!
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hi. that person just want to get your attention cuz you might be to attractive to him/her and he/she wants to make you feel less attractive to be more accesible besides someone that tells u that is cuz is really insecure
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They may be talking about inner beauty, or the lack of it.
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Maybe it's to knock you down a few pegs.
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it means you think your attractive but they dont...wich is very rude of them to say
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