Have you ever split with an ex then regreted it with all your heart?
by 
Uncle Lizard
ANSWERS: 19
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Well, I HAD to split with him. He was emotionally mutilating me. Every time I talked to him he made me feel like the most pathetic loser and I am not. It was horrible. Really horrible. The nightmare of my life so far. And I know hes a good guy for a lot of people, but wow...not for me. Not for me. He treats me like a stranger now. and it hurts SO MUCH. But really, I expected him to do this. I knew he would behave this way. And I am emotionally the softest person on the planet. I am very loving and I really can't handle it. It makes me feel really really sad. Like I want to die. But I do wish he could be back if he were different. But he was so in love with himself and I could never give him any feedback. Also I could never talk to anyone about us. He just said I had a big mouth. I miss him a lot but I got the message that his career is really what he needs to focus on now. I was just in the way and that hurts.
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Never. I split when it's over and I'm done. No regrets! :)
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so far nope... right now i am on the verge of breaking up which i really dont want to.. and as far as this is concerned i dont really know whether i will regret or not if i ever break up (God Forbid) with this person
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Yes. I did regret splitting with my man. But after some time I realized all my good memories were of him a long time ago and that the reality has been very sad for me for way too long. I regret not leaving before when I was younger and my confidence was greater. I am a very emotional person and put all my 'investment' into his emotional bank - but it went bankrupt! Just keep moving on and try to find things to do that give you pleasure and happiness. Love other people and love yourself and you will find you feel better one day. I do!
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No. It always hurts for a while, but the reasons you split are always good.
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Most of my ex's it was very good to get away from them.. there has been 3 that I wonder why, I was so stupid to dump them... one of them wanted to get married and I wasnt ready so I dumped him, another was too nice, and I was looking for a bad boy, and the last one was becuse our relationship just wasnt exciting anymore, I grew tired of him, he always wanted to be around, and he drove me up the wall..
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Yes, I have, but I'm looking forwards not backwards.
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No, 'cause we got back together and have been happily married now for 44 years. Never give up hope.
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No, I have never had that experience. I have broken it off when it was no longer healthy to stay in the relationship for whatever reason.
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I haven't, my brother and his girl have.
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yes i have.:-)
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yes
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Not since I was young and not in love with me...
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omg yes! and i still do regret it. i still love him so much but i guess everything happens for a reason.
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no. and i didn't remain friends with them either - they were negative, toxic influences in my life who fed off my misery and low self-esteem. i am glad to have gotten rid of them, and kind of glad i don't regret it. Besides, i try not to view splits as regrets - just learning opportunities.
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yes i did
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yes and no
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nope!
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Kind of. He was a really sweet guy but I broke up with him because my heart had always been set on someone else and that totally wasn't fair to him. After a while, I felt pretty stupid and asked him for a second chance. He took me back and then dumped me a few weeks later to get back at me for "bruising his ego". We're still friends and every once in a while, he makes minor resentful gestures towards me and some people think he still likes me even if he has another girl. Frankly, I'm so over him.
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