Me and my boyfriend are 7 years apart. im 16 hes 23. is that wrong? am i to young to date a guy thats older than me?
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No, I don't think you are too young. Seven years may seem a lot now, but when you're older a 7 year difference it not that big a deal, eg. when you're 31 he'll be 38, and there's nothing wrong with that
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It illegal for you to have sex with him.
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i mean he can get into a lot of trouble for child molestation or rape but if no one cares and no one calls on him then no one has to no jus wait it off til ur 18 then u can do whatever u want i mean dont break up with him but take it slow and if no one knows then keep it that way u know
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Wow, I have the same problem. Yet sadly, I'm 13 & he's 19. Its pretty pathetic when you're put down for it. But, I don't believe you're ever too young to find someone.
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I have that situation too. and I dont think that is a problem... you like him, and he like you... you have one life...you should be happy...
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Wow I'm having the same problem. She just turned 14 and i'm about to turn 21. But we love each other sooooo much. I met her at my church that i just moved to and she's been going there since she was 4. She is like my exact twin (except she's female). I told her i would wait for her to turn 17-18 b4 we started dating and let the majority of ppl know.
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Hardcore Conservative You need to stick to your age group. 14 is too immature for a 21 year old. If I was her father, I'd kick you ass.
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Wow I'm having the same problem. She just turned 14 and i'm about to turn 21. But we love each other sooooo much. I met her at my church that i just moved to and she's been going there since she was 4. She is like my exact twin (except she's female). I told her i would wait for her to turn 17-18 b4 we started dating and let the majority of ppl know.
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that age differance is ok when you are older but there is a huge differance in the maturity of a 16 year old and a 23 year old (i would hope) mabey date a guy your own age and wait till your older to date guys seven years older than you. would you date a 9 year old boy?
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Me and my boyfriend are 7 years apart too...i am 16 and he is 23...same as you. He met me when I was 15 and we agreed to go out together until i was 16 just incase some nonsense law got us in trouble. He waitied patiently for me, and we've been together officially about a year now, just nearing my 17th birthday. We are madly in love, and though some people who don't know us personally make critisms, which i can understand from their point of view...after a while, they simply just have to like it or lump it. Anyone who saw us together for any period of time can tell we are on the same wave-length. Also, Uk laws are f'd up. Apparently a 16yr old boy can get jailed for sleeping with a 15yr old girl...but a 60yr olf pensioner can sleep with a 16yr old girl legally. Thats England for you. If you are happy, don't let anyone take that away from you..just be careful...because i know, love can be decieving at first, so don't sacrifice too much or you may end up trapped in something you can't escape from! Captain Tam
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When I was 16-18, I dated guys who were 23, 24, and 28. I don't believe there is anything wrong with it, as long as it's consentual and nobody gets hurt. My only caution is that sometimes people use each other for different things (sex, cars, status, money, etc) and then it really isn't fair to the other person. But since you have been together for so long, I doubt that's the case. I have one final thought, you both may grow up together and stay in love for many many years... Or you may grow up and find that you have evolved into different personalities and that you want to date other people instead of each other. Either way, it's ok. You live your life in the way that seems best to you. These experiences make you who you are and who you will be in the future.
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There's no way in hell my 16 year old daughter would be dating a 23 year old.
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its not that youre 7 yrs apart that makes it wrong, its that youre underage and hes not supposed to date someone underage, thats illegal, if you want to date him then you need to wait till youre 18
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yes, cause its illegal for him to date someone underage, you need to wait till youre 18 to date him
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