ANSWERS: 100
  • No, and i don't understand why one would want to.
  • depending on where you live its illegal.
  • Go to jail, don't even collect the $200
  • No, it's illegal.
  • 5 years isnt too bad an age difference, except that shes 13. most people will be against it. i did it when i was 13, and although that was one of my best relationships ever, me and my BF had a lot of trouble with other people. make sure its definitely worth it
  • Only if he doesn't mind the 13 year old's father choking him to death with his bare hands.
  • i know girls mature A LOT faster than guys. but... 18 and 13 is a BIG difference. even an immature person would know THAT
  • No definatley not.
  • depends on maturity, im 18 and my bf is 23, i know thats not the same, but it really depends on the two people, most 13 year olds arent mature enough for that kind of thing, and i would think an 18 year old would look for someone more mature. however my dad is 52 and his gf is 32, and they had a baby! the age difference isnt the problem, its the level of maturity
  • Well, get some 18 year old to come over to take my 13 year old out on a date, and see what happens. Oh, spoiler alert, better say goodbye to your friend before he stops by, as you may not have a chance later.
  • Sure it is ok, as long as you do not mind going to jail after. Don't drop the soap when you get in there.
  • I'm told that pedophiles live an especially hard life in the pennitentiary. You may want to reconsider.
  • if the girl's parents are outta their mind and consent to it. people need to just wait for the jailbait to mature.
  • no no no no no no no and in no way yes it doesnt matter how willing she might be or how mature she acts or looks, shes just a kid and dating an 18yr old can have hugely negative effects on her personality
  • You MUST be joking!!Get a grip on yourself!!
  • Of course, no.
  • no because the 18 year old would no way in hell be in love with her and probably is a pervert and just want her for sex
  • No not too good at all. That's a felony in most states.
  • I dont really think so...for one an 18 year old has no buisness being with a 13 year old, like why..are you really THAT desperate. 2: No normal person would look at that relationship and think it has good intentions... NO ONE!
  • Yes, it's okay. You just can't have sex with her. I know that you didn't say that you wanted to have sex with her, but I'm just throwing this out there for the people who are too ignorant to realize that there are no laws saying you can't date someone who is underage. There are laws that say you can't have sex with an underage person and things like that, though. Another problem you might have is, ... her parents might want to hunt you down and kill you..
  • No. Why would an 18 year old want to date a 13 year old? Because he is a pedophile, thats why!
  • NO. That would make him a pervert & I hope the 13 year olds parents shoot him
  • It is not socially acceptable and illegal in all 50 states.
  • Hell no!
  • Sorry, no. When the girl reaches the age of consent, the matter changes, but in this case and in all others similar, it's not right.
  • No! Thats kinda sick actually...
  • No, i don't think so. My cousin did the same thing only she was the 13 year older and she practically got used by him, in otherwords kinda just there to give him booty, and that fucked up her life. Plus her parents never liked the guy. Like most people here said. It just doesn't look like a relationship with good intentions like i learned and always thought too.
  • Two VERY simple words: HIGHLY INAPPROPRIATE!
  • NO! What could an 18 year old possibly have in common with a 13 year old anyhow? If an 18 year old can relate to a 13 year old, he's extremely immature. NO! A 13 year old is just a child.
  • no nonononononononononono! there's way too much of an age gap even if the 13 yr old is "mature"...plus it's just gross..why does an 18 year old man want a little girl?
  • Okay, since I don't really have a view on this, I'm just gonna go off for awhile. Let me begin by saying that I don't understand how this pairing could even happen. If I was eighteen and I knew the other person was thirteen I would NOT be interested. To me, that's a little messed up. However, there are certain circumstances to take into consideration. For example, there is the possibility they are not truthful about their age, and they are mature (or immature). Then, I see how they could get together. If these circumstances aren't present, the real question you should be asking is, "Is this eighteen year old a pedophile looking for sex?" The thing is, I always hear the following quote: "love knows no boundaries" and I agree. But you can't just agree when it comes to one thing. You have to agree for them all- race, background, culture, religion, gender, and of course, age. I agree with this quote, and there's another thing I feel- that love can be blind, and there is nothing more wrong than lying to a confused thirteen year old.
  • A 13 year old is generally in a very different place than an 18 year old. You're talking about vastly different levels of sexual maturity and emotional maturity. Regardless of whether or not you plan to have sex (which you know is illegal) a major facet of dating is the development of emotional and physical bonds. I'm not sure a 13 year old is capable of that step at that age. That being said, it's more her extremely young age than the age difference that bothers me. I would stay friends.
  • NO unless you don't mind going to prison for statutory rape and being a known child molester/sexual pervert for the rest of your life.
  • Although it is still tolerated in a few countries, most of the world has condemned such things ... no.
  • Not if she's MY daugher!
  • Absolutely not! no room for shades of grey here...no, no, no.
  • Without a doubt No!..dont even go there seriously
  • no it is not, the age diff is not the problem, its maturity. Even if the girl is mature, she still have a lifetime of lessons to learn that the guy will already know and it WILL make a huge diff in weather the two will stay together. I know and i was in that situation b4. I was 15 and he was 21. I didnt have it tooo bad but bad enough. My gff had the same thing happen to her too, but she had it soooo bad!!! She was 14 and he was 19, she got her heart broke and as we all know, our first.... haunts us forever!!! Anyways, good luck!
  • No. It is ok to date someone five years younger than you when you are like 25, but not when you are 18. She is way too young. Even though it is five years it is the age you are at right now. Just think, if she has angry parents they could try to press charges.
  • not even close to being midly okay.
  • NO! No explanation needed. DUH!
  • if you really like her, wait three years! i dated a guy who was 19 when i was 14 and he got so much hassle for it! its not worth it, plus im sure there are much better looking, more exoerienced girls your own age to get with!!??
  • Man there so many attrative and/or nice/smart women out there of all ages, why would someone want that unless they were 13, 14 or 15? i think it'd be OK for an 18 year old to think about it but not do it! Even though teenagers today are so developped and no longer look 13.
  • OK. Here's a new spin on it. I was the "13 y/o". My freshman year I dated a senior. He was a tutor in my college prep class. We dated for a good 2 1/2 years. I actually learned a lot from him. He is a good guy. We are still friends. I know a lot of ppl are thinking "CHESTER!!!" In the moment we really weren't thinking about how old the other was. I loved how his mind worked at all his theories and he enjoyed mine. Most of our time was spent talking about our views on life and everything in it. I guess it my point is ... it all depends on who you are and if you can handle a relationship with such an age/maturity difference. Some 18 y/o guys though, should NEVER date 13 y/o's. Anywho, there's my thought.
  • No. That's sick. She could be in middle school, and the guy could be out of high school. Way too young, and he's too old.
  • How about we ask her dad? No this is bad very very bad!
  • No, and believe me when I say that if that was the case with my daughter I would have him prosecuted and she would be a very sorry girl.
  • Sure! If you wanna get arrested
  • Not a problem if he has been neutered. But If he hasn't and he touches my daughter he soon will be.
  • No, and why would you ask a question like this?
  • Got an 18 year old in my state who has a 13 year old girlfriend. They started having sex when she was 10--and she is either pg or just had his baby...He's got a lot of charges against him and should be up the river for a significant amount of time. He will also be a registered sex offender. Does that answer your question?
  • i know the age of consent laws are well..."a little loose" in some states BUT how backward of a place do you got to be raised in to think that that is a good idea... what is wrong with an 18 y/o girl. 13 shes just a child!
  • It doesn't matter if the person is male or female. Anyone that is 18 or over that dates someone that is 13 puts themselves at risk for jailtime, especially if they are intimate.
  • Queen Elizabeth fell in love with her husband when she was 13. William Durant fell in love with his wife when she roller-skated into the kitchen when she was 13. (He was 27 -- they were married until his death (old!) and collaborated on a great series of history books -- very happy, as has been Elizabeth -- Henry VIII fell in love with Catherine of Aragon when he was 10 and she 14; he continued to love her even though he was temporarily seduced by Ann Boleyn -- Elvis fell for Priscilla when she was 13 or 14 and he 22 or so -- Loretta Lyn, 13, fell in love with Dolittle (he was 21 or so -- very happy marriage) -- Randy Travis was 16 or 17 when he fell in love with his landlady (33) -- again, a happy and successful union -- and I think there are a lot of people out there who wish they had just kept an eye on each other until they were a little older rather than find someone in their own age group. I'm older now and I think age has very little to do with compatibility. By the way, Ann Boleyn's family had Catherine executed so Henry could not return to her. Hence, I think, the series of attempts to find that first love again (and produce a male heir.)
  • The simple answer is NO, and the LAW against it is intended to reflect what we know and what we know is that a teenage girl and nearly everyone under the age of 21 physiologically is not ready for the rigors of pregnancy it just makes it harder in the long run, Proto-Persons in this age group are still developing and changing getting them ready for the time when they are really ready for such, these biological changes can be extreme and young Proto-Men are not really ready for parenthood either, your 18 find yourself a cougar to show you the ropes but leave children alone as the physiological and psychological damage last a life time no If's And's or But's .... ~Nemo~
  • No. The developmental level and maturity in the girl is not equal enough.
  • not exactly... depending on the girls maturity... but people will say that it is not normal because of the whole age thing, but if the 18 year old guy, has wrong reasons to be with her, well it's all wrong...
  • ha ha.. if you wanna end up in jail go for it.. otherwise i reccomend you stay friends for the time being
  • HELL NO!!!!! GO AND GET A REAL WOMEN OR MAN AND LEAVE OUR BABIES ALONE. AT THIS AGE SHE OR HE IS BARELY HAVING HER DAME PERIOD OR JUST HIT PUBURITY .. MY QUESTION IS .. WHAT DOES A 18 YEAR OLD PERSON WANT WITH A 13 YEAR OLD THATS IS JUST SICK!!!!!!!! THIS GOES FOR BOTH GENDERS AT THE AGE OF 18
  • Wait for her to grow up. It doesn't matter how mature you both think that she is she's still a little kid. Think about when you were 13 and now think about how you are now. Chances are you've probably changed quite a bit in that amount of time. You are too old for her. When you're 40 5 years isn't that much. But because so many changes happen in your teen years she could be a completely different person by the time she's out of high school or even jr. high. When she grows up some more and you decide you still want to be together, go for it but not before then.
  • No a 13yr old is still just a little girl. You wouldn't be dating her if it were my daughter I promise you that.
  • No, the time of life is far to different. When they are 18 and 23 it won't be any big deal as they will both be in the same stage (looking for marriage, moving out, sex, etc). But an 18 year old deserves an 18 year old relationship. Sex, no curfew's, possible marriage, etc. A 13 year old deserves a 13 year old relationship. Casual dating, holding hands, the bumbling first grope, etc. The differences in what to expect out of a relationship is just far to different to expect anything but grief to come out of it, not to mention that it will be easy for the 18 year old to manipulate the 13 year old as they will have much more life experience. (if you're the 13 year old imagine how easily you could get an 8 year old to do what you want)
  • noo as a matter of fact it's a crime
  • NOT NO, But Hell NO!
  • yeah, but wait a couple years. but i don't know, i think she's too young for you but if you really like em that young then i guess thats your style but i would wait a couple of years, the difference is fine, relationships shuddn't be based on that but she herself doesn't know who she is, she's still getting a hold of her middle school years, Its not going to be a stable relationship because she isn't fully mature. I like this one guy who's 17, im 14. we go to school together tho, im a freshmen and he is a senior. but hoestly i would say wait for someone more mature.
  • NO IT IS NOT WISE, FIND SOME ONE UR AGE,BE A BIG BROTHER TO THE 13 YR. OLD.
  • A 13 year old girl should be playing with dolls still
  • a little creepy...
  • No. It's wrong and creepy. But okay? No.
  • nnnooo it's not
  • Hell no. If she was 18 and he was 23, different story. At 13, most girls are just happy a guy is showing interest in them. DO NOT take advantage of this vulnerable child. YES, she is a CHILD.
  • Not at all.
  • I smell windup here. no of course it isn't.
  • I have seen it before and although the age sounds very young she may not act like it. But know that she is not fully matured and the realationship may cause problems to people that care. You also need to ask yourself these questions; Is there any chance that you may break her heart terribly? Are you just with her for sex ( if applicable)? if you ansewered yes to those 2 questions i would definitly think it is not ok
  • I went out with a guy 4 yrs older than me, (ps, this is not the 19 yr old chris, this is another boy)I loved him alot,and I still do. But 18 and 13 yr old, no. I can sympathize and understand, but dont. he might end up raping her, or worse. dont let him be with her, please. I really sympathize, but the guy I was with left, and now I'm left crying on my own. dont let her be put through that pain. and I hope he does the right thing. If he cares about her, he should just be her friend, like a big brother or something. Just..dont let it happen.
  • Did ya get the picture?
  • No, it isn't. A 13 year old is just starting down the dating path and should not be subjected to an adult relationship. They just aren't ready for the kind of relationship an 18 year old is ready for.
  • no 13 and 18 yr old are on totally differnt wave links o
  • It is ok for a 18 year old guy to "date" a 13 year old girl, but dating does not involve sex. Sex with anyone under 18 is statutory rape, no matter how you toss it.
  • No it's not OK at all.
  • Ten years later - no problem, but at 18 and 13 the difference in maturity is too great.
  • 5 year age difference is ok for two ADULTS! but your age? eer...NO!!
  • No, No, NO! She's not even done with puberty!!!
  • 13 is jail bait. No bondsman on earth will make your bond.
  • NO!!!!!!!
  • NO! NO! NO! Not in this day and age! A few centuries ago I think it would have been alright, but definately not in this day and age! If you have still have feelings for this girl when you 2 are perhaps 5 years older, then maybe then!
  • no its horrible ....sick a 13 year old isnt even fully developed!!it wouldnt be far! uhhhh wait till shes 20 and your 25 haha !!!
  • hell no, the sick bastard who is trying to date a 13 year old just wants to get his way with herr
  • the man who is dating that 13 year old should be castrated
  • The day will come when you can talk this over with a judge. Please share with us what you learned.
  • what kind of question is this...look at the age difference and the way the brain thinks on a males mind at age 18 (booty oh ya shake it) on a females mind at 13 (ahh what am i gana do for that math test) the differences lol
  • No, it is not ok. There is no way she is mature enough for that kind of relationship.
  • It's fine, especially if you don't mind going to prison when someone else might think it's not , and turns you in to the law.
  • that wouldn't fly in my household
  • You betcha! Of course...if you are Jerry Lee Lewis, its 1959, and not planning to tour England anytime soon. You have not sinned against the Lord.....yet. Amen for that!

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