Showed him i could live my life without him...

I wrote a note to the boyfriend and left it on his overnight bag that was in the bedroom saying "Nice pants. ~Her husband" Sometimes psychological warfare is the scariest. heheh :)

I don't have a lowlife cheating ex... And even if I DID, I wouldn't want to do anything to get revenge. I love my current BF and if we were to break up due to him cheating, I would just move on with my life. I sincerely love him as a person, so I wouldn't want to get him back. Why stoop to his level? He'll hurt more when he realizes what he has lost.

never did never would i dont want them to thing they had a reason to i think it would make them feel worse that i didnt do anything back and was chill just really hurt that way he'll always think 'damn, i fucked up, she was cool' and not 'fuck that crazy bitch, she did blah blah blah to me'

Nothing to get revenge, it wouldn't have made it any better. I did go out for drinks with his mistress though and have a nice little, lets exchange info session with her. :)

I used his toothbrush to clean my toilet!!!

Oooooooh, am I going to get into trouble on this one. I put a fish, under the waterbed mattress, it took him a long time to figure out where the smell was coming from. He did however find the one in the truck, under the seat, pretty fast. *** I was much younger when I did this. He did however ind the one in the truck, under the seat pretty fast.

I called 5 diffrent pizza resturants and had them deliver the pizza to her house and then I called a towtruck and said that my car broke down and had her car towed boy was she po at me :D

I've never ever participated in revenge. That's really important to me.

Never happened to me yet..thank my lucky stars

Rubbed the child support check in some poison ivy.

I forgot him.. in that I moved on with my life. It was very hard.. he pulled on me for about a year afterwards. It hurt like hell but I never answered his calls again, moved to another place and chose not to let him dangle that line in the water to play head games with. I loved him and could not imagine hurting him or doing what he had done to me so I just moved on.

I went through his desk and emailed or wrote to every female whose address he had left in the drawers and on the computer, and told them about each other. I even sent copies of the letters he had saved from all of them to each of them. That's how I found out where he went--his new sucker emailed me and told me to stop. I did, but only because I had gotten my point across.

i want revenge but the best thing to do is brush it off, and quit communicating with her. pretend she never crosses yourr mind. even make fun of them to their family and clown all of them hahahah. she will have her feelings hurt bad as a last memory of seeing or hearing from u again. If there are kids involved laff and play mister super happy dad and let them tell her how cool and nice daddy is! hahahaha. Let her new man know about the dirty things u have done with her

I pretend that it didn't bother me and I moved on. I do buddy up to his friends so that when they talk his friends talk about me. I love to have him see how good I'm doing and don't need or miss him at all. (Even though inside I wanna die and cry all night when I get home) Nobody ever has to know right?

I found a HUGE muskrat in my backyard on April Fools, Killed it with a shovel, wrapped it up all pretty in a box, wrote a little note that said "this reminded me of you..." making him think it's something nice, and doorbell ditched it on his porch. Good times.

Never had anyone cheat on me (to my knowledge), but after my ex and I broke up, we started being friends, then he pissed me off one day, saying I was a slut and diseased from sleeping with every guy in Tulsa. SO I took every photo I had of him, and every piece of jewelry he gave me, and every card he sent me, and sent them all back to him. That hurt him worst than anything else I could have done. I talked to his mom a couple days later, and heard him tell to tell me I'm a bitch. heh

Thankfully, I've never been in this predicament,but there's some mean/pissed off people in this world...just read the answers. Its best to avoid someone you dont care for, if you can. If not, be polite and distant.

I dialed the number to call the girlfriend (that I never knew about) but hung up and just moved on. It was better for me to move on than keep the negative energy going as hard as it was.

The best thing someone can do is be kind to the person when they say hello, or smile when they pass by, because you are showing to the low life bastard you are doing just fine with out him and that you don't need his cheating ass with you. Honestly... to some men that really just ticks them off because if they see a girl cry (and this is for men who dont really care about a woman's feeling at the moment) they will enjoy it and find greed to know you are still moping for him so better to just be happy that you got a 200 pound weight off your back

I took our son and left letting him have the girl he was cheating on me with, and the party life he wanted so bad. And while they had a horrible relationship I found someone great and we, and my son lived happily ever after. The ex and his girlfriend attended our wedding reception where she ended up getting drunk and getting caught messing around with someone else. They broke up and now he is all alone. Aw... =)

I got in really good shape and would walk past the mall shop she worked at with gorgeous women at my side making it a point to be seen. I didn't really do anything to get a full-on revenge I guess. I was just glad to be free of her.

I probably shouldn't admit this but when I was younger and more vengeful I slept with my Ex's best friend after I found out she had been cheating. I have to admit she was absolutely furious about it though and I made my point I guess. At the time it seemed like the thing to do, Now I would just walk away.

The best revenge is living well. Why lower yourself to such petty standards? You only wind up hurting yourself and others. Live and let live. They dont want to be with you anymore. Thats their business. When I was cheated on some time ago, my gf came crawling back to me asking for forgiveness after 2 months. She said she made a mistake and that she wanted me back. blah blah blah....I just told her no thats not a good idea. She cried and told me she was sorry. I didnt give in to her or her manipulative crying bouts. i told her that she should have thought about what I meant to her before she cheated on me. I had her things collected and sent back to her. I moved on and never looked back. it hurt to close that chapter of my life but I figured it was the best thing. I ran into her about 1 year later and she was having difficulty in her relationships. Even though I had ample opportunity to twist the knife a little and tell her I was getting married, I resisted and Im glad i did. She found out about it thru the grapevine and I know it still bothers her today. And it's almost been 10 years to the day. My point is that lowering yourself to thier level doesnt make things right even when you know you should.

when he came crawling back and i had this feeling he "assumed" i'd automatically take him back and I said: Me: You do realize I'm not taking you back right? Him: You're not? Me: Um no, you fucked up big time. You had it good and you screwed it up. So no. Him: Uh.........I guess I'll go then...I'll talk to you later.

I have been cheated on, but I never got revenge I just walked away from him and got on with my life :)

Well, my ex didn't cheat on me (to my knowledge), but he was a lowlife and did some horrible things... however, I didn't even have to get revenge on him -- it appears the girl he left me for gave him herpes. :)

I lived without him. You see, we were supposed to come to college together. We had found an apartment, signed a lease and everything. Out of the blue he sends me a myspace message (!) saying that he didn't love me anymore and that he didn't want to move in together. I found out later that he had been cheating... blah blah. I couldn't get out of the lease but I didn't think I could afford to live there by myself. I had no other option, though, so I finished moving in and I struggled through it. It was definitely hard, living alone in my first year at a college where I didn't know anybody. I pawned all the things he gave me, all the jewelry and little presents. And when I ran into him on campus one afternoon right before the spring semester ended, he asked how things were going. And I was so proud to be able to say "Perfectly fine without you."

Ignore her/him completely, don't speak about her/him, don't acknowledge the relationship at all. That is the sweetest revenge.

My [ex]fiance', who I was with for almost six years, had been having an affair with a girl who I *thought* was my friend for months. To get back at him, I had sex with one of his best friends, then called him immediately afterward and said "Guess where I am and what I just did?" He cried.. it was awesome. It made me feel so much better.

hooked up with his brother

Revenge is pathetic there has to be a better way to pass the time