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  • It means either one of two things: 1) She is not confident enough to think that you will stay with her and you need to help build her self esteem. 2) You do something (or don't do something) to let her know that you are (or are not) committed to the relationship. Ask her if you give her signals that you don't want to be in the relationship. Ask if she would like you to do or say more things to ensure that she feels comfortable in the relationship.
  • It means you're dropping the ball. Clearly you are not showing her, in your actions, that she can be confident that you are going to be around. Show her more attention. Find some way to ease her fears.
  • It's not bad. She just needs reassurance. As long as you are honest then she will probably start feeling ok.
  • She wants you to show her that you love her. She needs assurence. She needs to have more confidence in you. It is not a bad thing, just put in that bit more effort to remind her that you will be there for her, and you will be fine.
  • it depends that could show signs of insecurity and that could possibly lead to problems, but most likely she just wants to be shown she is loved and cared for. so show her already.
  • 1-24-2017 My first guess is she has no clue about how to take care of a man. That is a very common failing in modern women.
  • I think it is. Because though security in our relationship is of prime importance to us if we focus more on our fears and insecurities then we lose sight of the good things in our relationships on which any security would be based. So we threaten our happiness.
  • Yes, it's bad. It ain't reassurance she is after. She is desperately trolling for commitment. You know, looking to seal the deal! She keeps asking because you're not saying what she wants to hear.

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