In short, someone he is attracted to physically and/or emotionally.

All men are different and all look for different things. As to physical, you can say breasts, legs, bottom, they are all different but I think you will find those worth having will be looking for something deeper than looks.

The first thing I look for is a smile and her demeanor, this sets up the first impression. Of course her physical shape and a well kept appearance. After the first impression is made, to me what makes a world of difference is her attitude(manners), is it friendly and welcoming. This is what I look for when I meet a girl for the first time, whether it would be for a date or just becoming friends. Although if it is just a meeting to become friends physical appearance has no bearing on my decision, although hygiene would still play a part.

ok if its just looks ..then for me the eyes, a killer smile and a nice bum in a pair of jeans that fit into the palms of my hands as I am looking into those sparkling eyes

Pretty face. Big hummers. Cute tush. Oh yea, she has to own a boat and a truck!

An attractive face is the first thing I look at. If I find the face attractive, then I look at the body, mainly the butt and thighs. Then go up from there. Excess fat on the arms or thighs is a turnoff. I know you are looking for the physical aspects only. But I have to say that a woman who is cool and intelligent will seem more attractive physically even if at first glance I didn't think so.

Tits.

Thanks :) And just to make it clear, I know that emotional traits are far more important. That being said, there is a huge variety of turn ons and turn offs as far as personality goes, and I wanted to just get a general theme on apperance. Thanks guys!

Personally, I pay most attention to the face. If they pass that test then its the bum that gets my attraction. Also, my ideal woman does not have to be really thin. For some reason most of them fail the personality test. But that has limits as I am not attracted to someone who is overweight only on the basis is that it shows she does not care as much about her health as I do which is important to me.

I have it on good authority that there are three qualities that every man should look for in a woman. The younger, the better. The dumber, the better, The bigger tits, the better. If these three fall into line, then nothing else matters until another one comes along that's younger and dumber with bigger tits. It might be useful to add that these criteria were given by a 55-year-old retired machinist who left his wife in Houston to move to Key West with an 18-y-o orthodontist's daughter who could barely form a complete sentence but had a massive chest and didn't know the word "no" when bedtime came. They seemed quite happy. Myself, I seek quiet, intelligent, delicate ladies of experience and grace. Right.

I like a girl with a really feminine look. (i.e. wearing a dress or skirt, having hair and nails done, make up and jewelry). I like pencil thin arms with no muscle. The weaker the better.

Eyes that are so warm they will melt ice! A mouth that is barely open and inviting! A voice that makes me want to hear more! A physical presense that is astounding!

I myself love the back-end, I also look for a fit girl. Other qualitys that are to my liking are darker skin (i.e tan/mexican) good teeth (that is a must!) pretty eyes and all other stuff is see as you go

I think a girl should just have beautiful, warm eyes.

If she looks like Rose McGowan, she`s perfect.

A fit figure, not balemic, but strong and slim,to me, it says alot about the person if they take care of themselves.

Sorry first it's looks. That is just the way life is. Then it is someone that can keep a some what inteligent conversation. After that it's all about getting along. This just one guys opinion!

You want a truthful answer, I'll give you one. Men like all sorts of body types, hair colors, facial structers, etc. Man 1 might like a white skinny girl with large buck teeth and a shaved head, while man 2 wants a latino heavier girl. There is no way to really know what a guy is into, at least what he is TRULY into, without asking him or seeing a pattern in who he dates. You really can never be certain what lusts a man has inside him that he won't reveal to anyone. From what I have seen with my own guy friends and myself, we tend to prefer curvy, slightly thicker women.

well I tend to like ladies with loving eyes a cute bum that wiggles when she walks a slim but not skinny body and dark brown hair drives me wild also smelling clean and freshly bathed my ideal woman would be singer/actress natalie imbruglia if only "sighs" shes beautiful

I certainly hope guys and girls are looking for totally different things in the opposite sex. they are the opposite sex after all. ;) honestly, everyone is looking for something different

I'm a gay man, so this answer is about as detached as you'll get from any male. Initially, men look for one thing: pleasing physical attributes. That's it plain and simple. Now, when it comes time to settle down, we'll look for personality and other things. But we are primarily visual animals, and we look for what turns us on first and foremost before we look for other things.

It took me a long time to figure this out. The most important thing in a woman is a sense of humor. Sure, appearance is nice, sex is good and all that, but laughter is the only thing that doesn’t lose its luster. Laughter overrides the differences, gets you through the tough times and creates a bond that surpasses anything sexual. If a guy can find a woman he can joke with just like the guys, without worrying about her holding it against him, he has found something extremely rare. It is not love that concurs all, but laughter.

Somebody I feel comfortable with.

Right, I am a woman and what I find attractive in a GUY is his sense of humour and confidence. I have found the most unattractive men intersting if they know what they are talking about and they make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus... but its the mind what pulls really... from a womans point of view! :-)

I would say that most men would go for someone who looks fairly "normal"! Okay so what man wouldn't give his right arm for a chance with a hot supermodel type, but really that's all about being a lad I think, being able to show off to your mates. What I go for is someone who looks different from the images you see in the media. I hate skinny girls personally. The sight f a girls ribs sticking out or her collar bone are enough to make me physically sick. I like someone who looks like they don't worry too much about what they look like (I mean yes of course they do, they are women after all), but a girl who isnt gonna think twice about having the odd kebab or curry. The looks really aren't all that important. I mean it is important that I find them attractive obviously, but that probably only narrows the global population down to about 80% for most men. On top of that I would look for personality. Someone who has similar interests, has a good sense of humour, similar life ambitions - that sort of thing. I do however, unlike some of the respondents, think sex is very important. You need to know that you are going to be sexually stimulated and satisfied by someone for many years to come! Personally I'd like to know that a girl is fairly adventurous. I still havent found a surefire method of discovering this before you are in a long-term relationship, but hey maybe one day. I do hate it when I get into a relationship and find out that the girl of my dreams is in fact completely against anything other than the missionary position. Mind you, if I did find out beforehand I'd probably think they were a little slutty and not be interested anyway, or at least spend the relationship worrying that she would cheat. Hey us men are just as complex as you women methinks!

To give a fresh spin on the question..This is just one aspect but I wonder how many guys agree with me as I personally like small(er) breasts. Huge breasts just look out of proportion. Smaller breasts make her look softer and more beautiful.

Just phisically? Eyes that draw you in,ones that you could get lost in, ones that could draw you from across the room like iron to a magnet with just a glance... and personally for me, i like curvacious girls too, but i often make exeptions ; )

Eyes without a doubt for me. She can be as big as a house or as skinny as a broom handle but her eyes tell the tale and as the old saying goes "the eyes are the windows/mirrors to the soul" and if she has a good soul her eyes will show it. Eyes that are naturally sexy are an intense turn on. But a pair of loving, yet seductive eyes will get me to melt like hot butter. I don't give a hang about bodies, hair or feet. The eyes have it.

"Physical aspect only?" That's the LEAST important thing the wise man looks at. Physically, I look for women who take care of themselves and have a healthy look about them. I glance at the waist to hip ratio, and the size and firmness of breast, as do most men. I like longer hair and a somewhat innocent LOOK. How's that? : )

You answered part of your own question. I appreciate a great set of legs because normally the rest of the package is well proportioned. Guys who fall for big breasts are visualizing mouth watering fantasies and being seen with an arm charm. Big butt guys are usually drawn to hot native-type sex goddess. Eye guys are looking for sincerity attached to a good heart. Comments/critiques?

Visual is important but personalities clicking is the deal maker. Gals who are approachable, friendly and return smiles go miles with any guy. Guys are normally afraid to approach good looking gals for fear of rejection anyway so the cute, average but normal gals are by far the best catch. Give a guy some time and let him sell you his pitch. Then make the call to see him again or pitch him. We can take it but give us a chance first. Behind every face is beating living person wanting to let someone in.

Im an A$$ man personally. I like a pretty face and long hair also.

This differs from guy to guy... much the same as it does for the female of the species and what attracts them to different guys. Some guys... yes, pure physical attraction is the key, and that is the primary need to fulfil. Generally, there has to be some physical attraction, there has to be some aspect which draws the male attention as men are essentially visual creatures, where females are more emotional creatures. For guys, It takes time for the other attributes to be explored and appreciated, sense of humour/fun, compatibility, similar interests, personality etc. I think you have it summed it up perfectly, girls and guys do look at relationships very differently, and approach relationships by different rules.

From THIS more mature, monogamous man's view point, this is what I lookED for in a lady when I was younger: Of course, looks MUST come into play. If the lady wasn't attractive, I simply didn't even say, "Hi". When she was pretty, attractive or beautiful (not necessarily "sexy"), I would say "Hi" and strike-up a conversation. If there was any "chemistry", perhaps we went out for lunch, dinner or to a friend's party or get-together. The lady HAD to have a personality. Being pretty just wasn't enough for me. Then it was one step at a time. I stayed devoted to that lady. I never cheated or had the thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. As I matured, looks STILL played an important role. I LIKE "a pretty package". When I discovered the lady was married or separated, "Discretion was the better part of valor". I stayed away. If the lady was single, widowed or divorced - AND had a personality - that was OUR "green light" to proceed one step at a time. I stayed devoted to that lady. I never cheated or had the thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. NOW I'm a much more mature (61 years young) man. I STILL like "the pretty package" - "beauty IS in the eyes of THIS beholder". Personality STILL counts! The difference is I prefer ladies about 5 years younger than I am to about 7 years more mature ("older") than me. The lady MUST BE single, divorced or widowed. It's OK if she has children or grandchildren. I understand that. BUT I DON'T like the children living at home with her - dictating what Mom or "Gran'mom" (That's the way I pronounce it) can do or cannot do. This is OUR relationship. OUR relationship is NOT a threesome, which includes any interference from any child, children or grandchildren. I'll stay devoted to that lady. I'll never cheat or have any thought cross my mind to go out or ask any other lady to go out with me. BUT that's from my perspective and who and what I'm looking for! Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: Because you asked. Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

I think every guy is different. Me: I like the whole exotic thing. I'm not the guy who falls for blonde-hair and blue-eyes. I like curves. A sweet and contagious smile. That's an honest answer.

Really it is a personal deal. I find just about every woman appealing as there is something about them I find attractive. I can’t say I have a type or something I look for. If this were a questionnaire I would say great smile and sense of humor.

She needs to be in shape. Not chubby or fat. That's a no no. I don't wanna see the flab of her stomach going over her jeans/belt. That's sick. Just in shape, good looking hair (whatever style) and a dash of make up, but not too much, that's it.

A desire for World Peace

Mine would tell you confidence.

im a woman, but i will tell you what they guys tell me. they want: a day over 18 size 3 d cup implants no brain no voice will do anything she is told

I honestly think that most of the guys who probably didn't give you the answer you were looking for are telling the truth. I mean, you'd think they would really speak their mind out since it is the internet and no one can see who they are and stuff. So I believe that those guys who do say that they like the girl more for their personality than their looks are saying the truth. And there's nothing wrong with that. I do believe that there are good guys out there who could care less about what you are, but who you are. And even I believe that's important for both sexes to be looking for in a partner. Sure looks matter, but that comes after you evaluate the person. You commit to someone you love becuase of who they are, their looks won't really bring you happiness. Especially if they are "hot jerks", who do nothing for you and cheat without a care for your feelings... but I guess some people like that. I guess it's just the girl who care too much about their looks and wanting to attract guys that way are the ones who get dissapointed by their honest answers and the fact that they cannnot get the kind or relationships they want.

Soft skin, firm thighs, wide hips, any size breasts shoulder length hair, round curvy ass and femine looking face

Do guys really care how tall/short the girl is? im shorter than the guy i like but he's on the short side. So when i wear heels i think we are about the same hight (mabey im a little taller). do u think he cares?

OK, here is the down and dirty truth. In the secular world guys look at the whole package of a woman. They look at her breast, her hips and study the front of her pants. They think hard to imagine her out of them. They look at her butt and then, they get close enough to look at her hair, her eyes and her lips.

Look. Look at the wide selection of women in porn. Brunettes, redheads, blondes, asians, every race and shade. Barely 18, "MILF," plenty of skinny girls but also chubby to outright fat. "itty bitty titties" to ones like watermelons. Some porn focuses on women with giant asses. some have long legs. MEN HAVE DIFFERENT TASTES. what men look for, physically, is what they *like,* physically. and it's hard to put into words because how do you say "red hair is nice, medium boobs are nice, curvy is nice" without sounding like you could never ever accept anyone different? Think of all your wildly differently shaped friends and acquaintances with husbands or boyfriends. all those husbands and boyfriends must have been attracted to something, and if they all have different bodies, it can't be the same thing. Personally? I like curves, and I like "exotic," but most of all I love an intelligent, mischievous glint in a woman's eyes. That'll get me going like nothing else.

skin tone and clarity. pretty femenine facial structure narrow weistline

I look at a woman's hair, her eyes and her face. Then, I look at her breast, hips and legs. I look for proportion. Large breast are a turn off for me. Small breast are nice, too. Now, that she has caught my eye, her personality and intelligence is next. Also her manners. I am old fashion and I like to open doors for a woman. Of course, the way she dresses makes a big impression. I was born 50 years too late, and prefer a woman in a skirt or dress- heals exceptionable. She should be the kind of woman I could take home to meet mother and not worry. She must have poise and grace. That is what I looked for, and that is what I got. I have been married 3 years.

For me personally the face is most important. I love long hair, especially if its wild and curly. For me weight is not that big of an issue but shape is if that makes sense. I don't mind a girl with some meat on her bones but she has to be curvy. Too round or boxy is a turnoff.